Married Life - Problem or passion?

I am posting this as if this is a question.. Yes, this is a question I always ask myself.

Do your parents live in the same house as you?

Since talking is leading to arguments, maybe it would be better if you both write down a list of grievances with each other - and only with each other. Do not include parents on it. Sit down and discuss them. If the conversation gets heated, skip that topic for the moment and go to the next topic on the list. But leaving things unresolved is going to lead to more problems. You are going to have to talk it through. Make a promise to each other that if it turns into yelling, you will take a break for the moment and try discussing it again.

About arguing in front of the baby, right now, she wouldn't understand. But a few months down the road, she'll feel anxious. I know you can't help it sometimes, but if arguments arise when the baby is around, try to take it elsewhere.

i heard a lot of cases like that and i can understand ur situation......marriage is necessarily not a problem but marrying a complete stranger is usually a problem.....my mom married a complete stranger and ended up living in a miserable life......he divorced my mum and married his cousin.......usually family counseling does help but since u mentioned that it worsened ur situation, may be you both should try to work things out by talking to each other about it.....ask her what she wants.....if u can't give her what she wants, try to explain to her as detailed as possible......if u guys live together with ur parents, try to tell her not to take what your parents say seriously.

hey

Marriage is all about combatibilty, If there is no heop that u can live together, plz seeka divorce. or tr staying away for soemtime and both of you will see each other's good side when u miss the other person, Good luck

well see its u to handle everything..u need to balance ur family nd wife...gve tme to both understand dem..specially ur wife u hve ur family nd wife..she only has u nd no one..its u ..u are her family...understand her talk to her...gve her somee space...ask her wat she wants...i m sure u gve her urself nd she is ur all urs..gve her love dat is all required....love is d solution.nd sometimes when arguments take place between ur wife nd family jst sometimes take her side nd sometimes ur family nd later make her understand....

oh god you're scaring me about marriage now

um i think you dont need counseling
i think you need to sit don and talk to each other and let it all out peacefully and dont fight in front of your child
its going to have such a bad effect on her trust me i would know
and if she cant respect your parents then u should yell at her because if you dont bring her parents into the situation why should she talk bad about yours?
i think you should talk to her maybe she is taking out her tension from something else at home or she may be going through something