Will someone ask Suguna for her opinion?

Finally Dadisa has asked Basant to get Shyam to talk to him about what he said about marrying Suguna. What about Suguna? Is someone going to ask for her opinion as well or are they going to just decide on her behalf. Cant believe this. Looks like Suguna has no choice here. 😔

the thing is that girls never get the chances to riase their vocies out in the india orthodrox society. If a girl is past 22 years old and it is the time to marry and if the g irl is unmarried till 28 years old, then she becomes the curse of the famiyl

this is not fair thy shud ask sugna first

But in this situation even if they ask sugna her opinion and she says no... is there an another option for them ?

well I would say sugna does NOT have any right to utter a word now.. She is 18 year old and pregnant... so she is not at all innocent...She knew what she was doing by physical relationship before her gauna... as 18 years is legal age to get married for Girls in india.. that means girls are matured by 18....

Originally posted by: london741

well I would say sugna does NOT have any right to utter a word now.. She is 18 year old and pregnant... so she is not at all innocent...She knew what she was doing by physical relationship before her gauna... as 18 years is legal age to get married for Girls in india.. that means girls are matured by 18....

Now atleast she has even a little bit of shame or respect for her parents and family, she should do whatever they tell her to...

Originally posted by: london741

well I would say sugna does NOT have any right to utter a word now.. She is 18 year old and pregnant... so she is not at all innocent...She knew what she was doing by physical relationship before her gauna... as 18 years is legal age to get married for Girls in india.. that means girls are matured by 18....

Now atleast she has even a little bit of shame or respect for her parents and family, she should do whatever they tell her to...

righto. she has no right to utter a single word after the mistake she has done. If she had not been pregnant then maybe i would be of the opinion that sugna should also be asked for her opinion but in this situation its a big NO.
If she really has an inner conscience then she will marry shyam and spare her family from further humiliation.

Sugna has lost her senses and I'm sure that she will not agree to this marriage and even after marriage she will misbehave with her husband and hurt Shyam every now and then...But it is her parent's responsibility to make her understand and prepare her for this new change in her life...Sumitra should talk to her daughter, not scold or emotionally blackmail her but tell that this for her and her unborn child's good also she should make her realize how Shyam truly loves her...

I think Sugna is the most unfortunate girl. She lost her love, she is insulted and scolded every moment, her parents fail to understand her and protect her from Maasa's wrath and she stays in her own home like a maid. She is in so much pain that she is scared to even think of slightest happiness and that is why wants to avoid Shyam and live in her doomed life.

Originally posted by: disha_sen

righto. she has no right to utter a single word after the mistake she has done. If she had not been pregnant then maybe i would be of the opinion that sugna should also be asked for her opinion but in this situation its a big NO.
If she really has an inner conscience then she will marry shyam and spare her family from further humiliation.

Sugna hasn't commited any sin. It's just a mistake....a BIG one. However that doesn't mean she has lost her rights to take decisions for her life. But the society she is in will not care for her decisions and if she tries to open her mouth she will be scolded as always.

However, I personally feel that it is better if she keeps quite. At least she will have chance to get out of her present gloomy condition and lead a happy life.

After knowing Suguna's physical intimacy I don't have confidence in her. she Still lacks the capability t decide right and wrong for her. Though I beleve that every girl has aright to decide about her life, but in this case i would say no. As still Suguna is living with the memories of Pratap and finds happiness in them. Not for a moment like a sensible girl,she has thought that in what mess Pratap has pushed her.