Dear Celina,
I like her, I enjoy her company, sex is great and I care for her. Then why in the world haven't I made her my girlfriend? I have never had a serious girlfriend, as I have always been a womaniser. How do I know if I like her enough? Is it just attraction? I'm confused on if I like her enough. Please help.
— Nirmal
Dear Nirmal,
If you are a self-proclaimed womaniser then you should mingle with gals who are man-eaters and have their way with many guys. What looks like that the girl is quite involved so please don't play with her emotions and tell her one day that it was just a fling. Get your priorities right, ask yourself what you want and then decide your future course accordingly. If you can become a one-woman man then only take your relationship ahead.
Dear Celina,
I'm getting some boudoir pictures done as a surprise gift for my partner. I have put together a few things to wear (his leather biker jacket, shades and black boots) but need some other really good, sexy ideas. I am taking the usual lingerie items but I want more ideas to consider that will stand out. I'm not going for nudity — just legs, butt, and cleavage. Do you have some really good suggestions?
—Tina
Dear Tina,
I would suggest that include your own pictures. Get yourself clicked in white chiffon or a long flowy gown with a low back or simply a bed sheet wrapped around to retain the essential mystery element. The best one can be you wearing a bikini and playing the violin.
Dear Celina,
I'm a 19-year-old girl and my parents have gone away on a business trip for a fortnight. My boyfriend drops in to my house in the evenings. One night he stayed over but we didn't share a room. I slept in my parents' bedroom and he stayed in my room. I don't want to have sex with him but we both want to cuddle together each night. But my parents would throw a fit if I tell them that we want to share a room. How can I persuade my parents to trust us not to do anything?
—Prerna
Dear Prerna,
First grow up, finish your education and earn a decent living. With the passage of time you will gain maturity and be in a position to judge the pros and cons of such situations. Never let your heart rule over you head. Once you can handle your own life, then you will certainly be equipped to handle your sex life.
Dear Celina,
I broke up with my girlfriend a month ago and we haven't spoken since. She broke up with me because we couldn't meet up and she felt that it was unfair. However, after our break up she has been speaking to her friends and mine, telling them that I never showed her enough affection. Do you think that I should change and show her more affection when I'm around her? As I do feel that I'm in love with her.
—Nitin
Dear Nitin,
Absolutely, get back to her. Start spending time with her so that she feels that you still care for her. You can surprise her by landing up with flowers and a McDonalds meal at her work during lunchtime. In this way you can overcome her work-related stress and make her feel that you are not neglecting her. Hopefully, things will work out between you two. Always remember that in any relationship both the partners need to make equal efforts for it to run smoothly.
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