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Posted: 20 years ago
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I'm very confused abt one thing, Is life really fair or unfair?😕 Sometimes when things don't go my way and I say it's not fair my parents tell me even life's not fair and then sometimes when things are going really fine ppl tell me everything's fair😕 So is life fair or unfair?🤔

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Life is . . . . . . . .

everything you want it to be!!!😆

Life is fair sometimes😃, and sometimes it is not!!

That is life. It is a puzzle!!😕

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Don't be confused my cutie pie JK_5. Asa Ram ji says, "Noone gets everything they wish for. Your every wish is never fulfilled. Some are fulfilled, some are half-fulfilled & some are not at all fulfilled. If every wish of everybody is fulfilled, then noone will beleive in God & the world can't be good place to live in, without beleiving in a supreme power". Be thankful & happy for what you have & don't be sad for what you didn't get. If you have roti, kapda, & makaan, you are very rich compared to other 97% of the world's population, who don't have that.
Actually, unfulfilled wishes make you a good human being, if your attitude is right & you take everything positively.
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Posted: 20 years ago
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Life is random.

Sometimes it is fair, sometimes it is unfair. It is more fair for some people, while it is not so fair for others.

You have limited control over your life because the society and your environment also affect your life.

What you can do is try as hard as possible to fight the unfairness. Do not give up and be positive.

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Great post ashley1 👏
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Posted: 20 years ago
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Life is full of fair and unfair 😛 😛 😛
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Life is a mystery...

Life is full of ups and downs..

Life is fair most of the times...and when we feel it's unfair that is because///we dont liek what is happenign in life/didnt expect it to be this way.

Fair n unfair is just a matter of perception. 😊

and it's human nature to find life unfair in tough times..
so i say..its mostly fair..but unfair if u think of it in taht way...
look for the silver lining..when life comes accross as unfair. 😊
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Posted: 20 years ago
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Originally posted by: JK_5

I'm very confused abt one thing, Is life really fair or unfair?😕 Sometimes when things don't go my way and I say it's not fair my parents tell me even life's not fair and then sometimes when things are going really fine ppl tell me everything's fair😕 So is life fair or unfair?🤔

i believe life is always fair, it is we human being who believe it to be unfair, when the things do not go their way or fair, when their aspirations are met, everybody has his share of luck and fairness.

The almighty to ensure equilibrium has created various checks and balances and we are tested on the same, if we fail on the checks and balances we feel life is unfair.

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Posted: 20 years ago
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i guess life is an adventure that all of us begin the time we are born..we find interesting things,ppl,places and sometimes there is danger lurking,
or u can also think of it as a chess game where we are the players that play around with the different aspects in life and finally we make it out to be what WE want it to be and i guess i small portion of it is handled by fate..
i think life is fair...it gives u what u have asked for and dont forget worked for..
then again lots of things happen that dont necessarily go on as we want it to be..so i guess in such cases we have to have an optimistic attitude and say that whatever happens,happens for a good solid reason..
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Posted: 20 years ago
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life is life, fair or unfair, you've got to live it, so live on, without caring about things that are unfair, just try to be fair yrself and if everyone does that, everything will be much more fairer than it is now...did u understand wot i just said, cos i think i wrote it in a very strange way 😕 😆 😳
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Posted: 20 years ago
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The reason we all think or say life is "unfair" is because not only are our expectations too high, but because things tend to go the other way for us, we take it as life is unfair. But hey....that's life.....full of surprises, happy times and bad times. If things don't go your way...so what? Are you gonna whine and complain about how unfair life is to you or be thankful that you are still breathing a living each and every day of this unfair life? If today is bad tomorrow will be good. There's always 50/50 probability in having good times in life and bad times in life. Try to enjoy life as much as you can......even though its can be unfair sometimes, and remember one thing.....if life is unfair to you.....don't think of it as a bad thing, but that there's something good behind it just waiting to come out. 😃

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