hmm God Topic!😊
i wud say that being extroverts, SaNu are more interactive with ppl, and extroverts tend to be very open, very expressive, and thus they say MOSTLY everything they feel...they find it much easier than majan to express their feelings...majan whereas are introverts, expressing feelings is kind of hard for them, so they tend to keep them bottled in - talking to others abt themselves is not just in their nature, wherreas SaNu luv to talk, abt others abt themselves..
so i guess when u r very social, and expressive, then u start depending on WHAT OTHERS SAY more than wht they MIGHT BE FEELING to judge their thinking and feelings....extroverts , who hav no problem in getting their feelings and thinking communicated, more rely on wht ppl say, ( than wht they might REALLY be feeling). and when ppl dont say wht they feel, extroverts ASSUME what the other person might be feeling based on the stereotypes they hold of other person.
so even if mayank is lost, nupur realises this, but becuz he hasnt expressed anythign in words, she relies on her own prejudiced stereotype to assume that he must be thinking abt BOOKS, and abt his MOM, becuz she has his image as the nerdy, mama's boy...for her he sint sum1 who can fall in luv, and that too never in luv with a girl liek her...so she sgoes with the shrotcuty way - and instead of thinking deeply of why he must be lost and confused all these days, she takes the shortcut of using her preformed stereotype to decide that he's just missinghome..
Samrat thinks of gunjan as this nerd, shy, timid girl. so if she falls for samrat and tends to get uncomfy or tends to stay quiet, since she wudnt express it in words, samrat wud also just use his stereotype of her as the shy girl to deduce that she's JUST SHY, just uncomfy, becuz its her nature....or he migth think that she's all uncomfy and tense becuz of STUDIES....
and if either of majan act extra friendly/lovingly than SaNu wud assuem that since both of them ARE friendly, thus they r trying to make their friendships stronger by being extra friendly...
so...i guess its not that SaNu dont hav any feelings, or do not/can not understand feelings of MaJan...its just that being extroverts they're used to BEING VERY EXPRESSIVE, sayign how they feel, and that's wht theyexpect of others...and when others do not say wht they feel, then peopel liek SaNu just use their preformed stereotypes of the other person to ASSUME wht they must be feeling....which is wht nupur is doing currently..and whichis wht samrat MIGHT do when gunjan falls for him...
and MaJan beign introverts, have hard time conveying their feelings, thus they end up bottling them - ending up with a large store of suppressed feelings...im just waiting for that lava of suprressed feelings to explode!😉
Edited by SidraLuvMayurBL - 17 years ago
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