Why give him a chance???

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Lennie

@Lennie

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Posted: 16 years ago

I dont get it, why is Simar even giving him a chance to come back to her after he completely gets Priya out of his brain and life 🤢 😡

And Veera saying her son will return to Simar, sure he will - but i wouldnt take him back 😡

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GP Dhillon

@newpath

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Posted: 16 years ago

Well it is our community as well, the chances of finding someone who accepts a girl after a divorce are not very good.

The girl has to be "never married" to be considered in a good match for anyone's son.

This reality forces us to look at those not so good relationships and stick with the horrible jerk we are stuck with.

Socially Indians have to change, the culture has to change....a person's divorce status should not be used as discriminated against.

How many attractive nice looking guys will go for someone who was divorced on a blind date....hook the same guy with a single girl and he will go for it.

This is reality...........I hope in the next couple of decades these barriers are blown down, and more better options are available for divorced women and also single moms.

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GP Dhillon

@newpath

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Posted: 16 years ago

In addition, if guys knew the girls had the same option of flying the nest, then they would be more careful of their own feelings and not indulge in affairs outside the home.

Men know once a women has had a couple of their kids...or invested a lot in the relationship she will mostly likely stay.

I think the "FEAR" of losing the spouse due to this should be quite high....so that men will not do this sort of stuff.

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Posted: 16 years ago

hmmm...yeah i agree with newpath on this but i think it wud've been more reasonable to show simar not giving such dialogues at this moment...coz i dont think any woman wud want to forgive such a man who has degraded her by going to another woman....this is only happening coz its a serial....even in such situations and being a part of a discriminating society, majority wont like to say such things to a husband who is not willing to leave the other woman to live with her...... only if they wud've shown simar saying this thing a few weeks of staying at her mom's place in a process of realizing that she doesnt want to be the one to leave rishi, then it wud;ve been a bit real and digestable......

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*Resham*

@*Resham*

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Posted: 16 years ago

Agree with u all ppl here...

Its basically tht we r watching Indian dramas...and over here...the wife is being projected as a forgiving person...no matter wht....

Sad but true....

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Howlarious

@Howlarious

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Posted: 16 years ago

well that was such a DUMB and out of context thing to say 😳...arghh thats why I abhor Indian shows...they show women like this..forgiving is good, but only to a certain point. Not when your husbands just run off with someone else..

But it just goes to show how EASY it is for the man to find a tunnel for himself to get out of this situation. Look how he talked to Veera 😲..........now Simar's got run over....I doubt anyone will allow him to see her in hospital...hmmmm

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*Resham*

@*Resham*

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Posted: 16 years ago

Thts the next point nw Anshuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu....

Simar getting hit..and we have back to tragedy....

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pam virk

@pams2mum

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Posted: 16 years ago

i think that they should show simar not taking back rishi when he realizes his mistake

and simar finds someone who loves her truely

this way she is going to wait for him to come back when he has had his fun

what is to say that he does not do it again

she should have realized what pog he is when he said that he was not going to give up priya

this men is a pig

who wants th have his cake and eat it

alisha

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Posted: 16 years ago

I seriously dont get what men like rishi want at the first place....that day he was saying this dialogue to priya..... "Simar meri zindagi hai aur tumhare baghair main reh nai sakta" ....... omg!! who in the world could say such a thing about his wife after leaving her for another woman and that too to THAT ANOTHER WOMAN.....if i wud've been priya, i would have slapped him right on his face on giving such a comment! For God sake, how can u love someone and hurt them and still claim that they r ur life....This character is such a loser and a maniac i guess....i think he wants to keep simar as well as priya......wot a loser!!

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