6 mar: big things, little things - Page 5

Originally posted by: khushix

thanks for the hugs guys...n ya sure...i dont hav any mind....😆

Originally posted by: -Triv-

Dard Bhara Rishta between G and Heer 😡 MY FOOT! I don't care what dard he has gone through, I don't care if he was a freakin Male Mother Teresa 😡

I just want Prem Back! and I want him Yesterday! 😡

I gtg..😔

P.S: Ru di...will be back late 😵 Go sleep now and come online jaldi

Originally posted by: estee

ouch. ouch. ouch. this has to officially be the episode that tried hardest to kill the possibility of prem. khushi, i'm officially considering starting up the wfp! 😕

* little thing: has there ever been a bigger disappointment of a start of an episode ever??? given that i'd been waiting all day to find out how that conversation between heer and ''the guy'' ended... gaaah!
i was waitin for a confession scene bt these destructives they r destroyin our hopes...
* little thing: weird little bit with kuldi's husband at that point, no? the only thing i noticed then was his asking kuldi to speak to him with just a little bit of love occassionally.. and of course, he did leave the keys in the car conveniently for ''the guy'' to drive off in. did he also leave bottles of alcohol for ''the guy'' to sozzle himself on??keeping the key in the car was idiotic n more cuz kiran was so engrossed in the call he dint c gaurav/prem

* little thing: 'kay, how the guy keep getting different bottles of alcohol? is that car from the james-bond arsenal, which has a secret compartment somewhere with secret bottles of alcohol?? i do want to know.. 😆
yes i saw 3 different bottles...
* (god) preet thing: sooooo sweet - when lj is pestering heer for prem's whereabouts, preet defends her saying that even she is looking for pb..preet is a sweetheart

* big thing: so he is drunk. and managing somehow to drive while drinking. and scowling at the phone that heer's trying to call. and remembering what she said to him.

but the really big shocking thing for me in that accident was ... he abandoned the accident site where the driver - a girl - is apparently hurt! and he does it with the deliberate intention of abandoning the site -- 'cause he thinks he's in the deep end. and escapes - the damned coward! - back to jzoo and heer. where he thinks he will be protected? from the person whose calls he refused to take?

for some reason that was the most shocking bit they've shown so far that this is not prem. forget all the fleeing to safety. if this was prem, would he ever have just driven off? without even checking whether the person is seriously hurt? would any half decent person have driven off?? damn everything to heck! who is this guy, damnit??? 😡
i was expecting the accident bt i tot if he had ml he'll get his memory back or if he's faking he'll get hurt n reach hospital bt this fellow was fine
* little thing: gayatri-mom's getting antsy at not seeing prem. and heer is the one who is getting more and more stressed 'bout it.

when that ridiculous prem did that damned cctv recording, did he have any damned clue how seriously heer would take the instruction that she should live for his dreams?? i hate prem's cctv recording. i hate prem. and this time, i mean it. *er...not to give the idea that i didn't hate prem earlier, or anything... is just, right now, i really hate prem.*

* little thing: man, was heer furious at ''the guy'' for stressing her out or what??
she was so angry waiting for him
she was spitting fire at him. and when she got a whiff of alcohol, omg! but there's something indefinably different about the anger she shows towards ''the guy'' and the anger she shows towards (say) ratty. and i can't yet put my finger on it... it's like 'cause the guy has prem's face, she's somehow... responsible for him or something. like she ... owns him or something! with ratty, she always looked like he was dirt beneath her feet. with the guy... it's like he is her's and he is bad and she has to deal with it, she can't throw him away. a bit of a touch of a step-mother with a nasty step-child? i dunno... is different, that anger...

* little thing: oooh, the guy enters jzoo through the back door entrance, yet again! 😆and both the times after an accident.............

* little thing: just as heer treats the guy like her own unpleasant thing, the guy ... allows her to! he never blows up at heer! have you noticed? it's like he admits that she owns him... even though he will never do a thing to please her. he never quite pushes her away!

''the guy'' is one big puzzle to me...he's a big puzzle to everyone actually..................

* little thing: er... so, a little bit of limbu paani and the guy says ''i am fine''?
for the different bottles of alcohol he had nimbu pani was enough for him to be fine????bt these zooneja ppl r fine with water only in case of emergencies then nimbu pani is bigger...
*btw, nice act by hc in that one line: i always thought that drunks would speak very deliberately when they want to show they aren't drunk.*
hc is fabulous.................
* little thing: and in that one line, did anyone else think it was drenched in sarcasm?
i felt the sarcasm...
sarcasm that heer doesn't really give a damn about him as him. but only as someone to perform a service that she is paying for? that he gets that feeling? but i'm glad there was no sense of self-pity in that acknowledgement...

* big thing: the next bits of dialogue were interesting. too interesting cuz i gotta knw he has faced a lot

first heer accuses the guy of getting ticked off at a ''choti si baath''. heer, that was not fair -- you who freaks out at any little insult/pain your family suffers - you are saying such a thing? that was not at all fair. true...............

next the guy asks her what can she know of life sitting in her little world. her world may be narrow, but how can he be so certain of what she has experienced?? he doesn't know her life, no? 'bout having lost her parents. the torture treatment by dirtchachi. the suffering 'cause of prem's tears. his death. well, he knows 'bout prem's death. and he knows ratty's attempts to torture her. but that's it, no? why is he so preachy?

so i thought that heer was absolutely right 'bout having seen great harshness and hardship in life. some real tough times.

just as i liked his rejoiner about there being a larger world, with darker things - like terrorists attacks! - that she may not know 'bout. (which is also not true -- she lost her love in such an attack!)

but while i loved hc's voice speaking dramatic words again, i also started getting mad. why?
hc is amazing...he does it so wonderfully.........
first of all, what he said. who is he to judge that heer hasn't gone through pain so deep that she can't feel the pain? or hardships so fierce that she loses her humanity? the ony way heer could be so mean 'bout the juneja's hardships while justifying why she is getting married to ratpal was to have buried her feelings so deep that she couldn't afford to allow it to show.

but i must say: it was interesting seeing both of them being so flawed in their judgement 'bout each other. if he has suffered great pain, why can't he feel sympathy for her too?

secondly, i hated that stoooopid audio effect they used to resonate hc's voice as he spoke - as if to magnify the impact of his words. i hate it when these editors try to over-dramatise what is already desperately dramatic. stop manipulating my head beyond the real words, you creeps! leave the gimmicks out of the story! it's fine without your stooooopid interference. [Grr]

thirdly, i hated the drama of his makeup. what was with the suddenly reddened eyes?

can you tell i'm really tired of the creative team using hc to manipulate my feelings and emotions?? he's a fantastic actor, with great delivery. when i see the gimmicks, i really want to knock someone on the upside of the head hard!

so in that segment, i both loved how heer-and-the-guy got to a core truth: heer with her pain, and the guy with his. and i loved how both of them made these assumptions about the other to come across as falliable human beings. i loved the mix-and-match of right and wrong that came across in what both of them said.

* little thing: best part of that segment? no matter how furious she is with him, she is kind heer enough to not bug him after that moment. she leaves him to his misery-that-he-can-no-longer-feel and doesn't bug him to come down to perform what she's paid him for. heer!

* little thing: i remember prem/heer saying (oh so very long ago) that the strangest and deepest relationships can be build as a ''dard ka rishtha''. are we going to that beginning again to find prem, so that prem-heer-are-one can be true again? this time, is it going to be heer who is going to ask ... prem ''tumhare ankhon mein itna dard kyun hai?''

* little thing: oooh, so the guy did come for the pooja. y'know what i want to know?

when he said ''i didn't come on my own, i came 'cause maa told me to.'' -- exactly which maa is he referring to? he calls gayatri-mom maa? wasn't she at the pooja?? or, was it the goddess-ma? or... is he getting instructions from his own maa, who might be .. er.. in the spirit world? which maa? i want to know. 😆

* little thing: did anyone else shriek with laughter when that somber voice recited a car license number from waaaay in the back of the room? loud enough for everyone to hear? without any introduction, hi, hello, nothing?? 🤣

i was shrieking with laughter, i tell you, shrieking! seriously, the scriptwriters brains have left on vacation, and have outsourced their job to a script-writing team in the usa. a us team that have only written for us-tv serials in the past. but are now seriously cheaper than indian tv-scriptwriters 'cause of the economic recession. ofcourse, they have no clue 'bout hindi tv-serials. and are churning out the script for this show, after having watched the last six months of kyunki-saas-bhi... episodes to prepare for their new job, poor sods...

i was shrieking with laughter! seriously... 😆😆😆

* little thing: but was interesting... when the cop announced the accident, the first thing the guy did was... to look at heer!

why??? was it 'cause he was finally seeing a legit way to get away from her and the jzoo, but still claim that he ought to be paid? *y'know? if i didn't know that old ratty had been arrested in bombay, i'd have said this was a really complicated way of ''the guy'' trying to meet with ratty in prison... 😆*

but the guy keeps looking at heer! doesn't care 'bout anyone else. just heer. why? why?? is it 'cause he thinks that she will tell them that it is him instead of kiran? was that why? i want to know!

* little thing: er... so exactly why did old kiran turn himself in??

this is the kiran - who when the guy broke into ratty-heer's wedding - was the only one to voice a suspicion about the guy to lj. like the guy asked in the end, exactly what is kiran's trip in life? what does he want in return? i want to know...

w&w to see how the story unfolds. but currently, 'm feeling very bleak 'bout the guy being prem. how could he have run away from the accident site?? *sigh* that's a big problem. truly. 'cause i just can't imagine how i can explain that in a prem... *very miserable muh*

need to seriously wtf this weekend... must think a lot before i post...

highlight of the show: the sight of the prem hand and arm coming up next to heer's hand while she was chunari-fying the idol. for all that my head's all dark 'bout his having fled the accident site, that sight was temporarily ...uplifting. *sigh* what a sucker i am for any ... chotti-si old-style prem-heer-are-one ehsaases... *big sigh*
hc looked cute................
for all those who still feel the sighs hidden in the depths of your hearts, here's an old vm that my pcp dug out for me. to cheer me up. 'cause she knows that it has one of my most favouritest old-prem-looking-at-heer moments at the start of the vm - the boss prem avatar that i love so much. i know i say this 'bout many prem-heer moments *hey! can i help that??? prem-heer-are-one rocks!* but this is one moment that doesn't show up too often in our discussions and phrool-sessions and phsigh-sessions. at least, not enough for me... ☺️

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Originally posted by: estee