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I wanted to try this out answerign this scenario I feels its very common and very much close to real situations in general..
My name is Ajay and I meet Anita 11 months ago and well Valentines will be a year. Of late our relationship is a little dry?there was a time when we just to be on the hour for ages and we used to text each other all day long now it like limited?. But of late since she joined the computer club she met some guys who she hangs out with more them me. Its like our love is faded but when I tell her she like she loves me! The thing is when we together she like secretly text this guy from the computer club and when I ask she like 'He is like a brother' I'm like u met him in a couple of weeks brother? Ok so now one part of me is jealous and the other part is do I want to proceed further with this relationship?. What do I tell her on Valentines day?
Ajay is very right in assuming the things as he sees in front of him. The only thing is whether its assuming whether its really like happenign the way he pressumed and whether he has seen a complete change and aloof nature in the way Anita behaved. If he truly feels Anita is not among the one who will be two timing he needs to be calm , patient and have loads of trust in her and so when u trust soemone and want the realtionship to be on smooth ground U need to clear out things with a long calm chat .. Valentines day seems a perfect day to call her over dinner at home or at a restuarant .. the surroudings shoudl be calmer and make one feels to hear a lot of softness as if floatign while chattign.... With a beautiufl card of gift where Ajay can write a couple of lines whcih r lines straight from hsi heart.. a mere ' I love U Anita... I really want U to be in my life forever..' or a simple line.. ' I care abotu U , about us, abotu our realtiship.. I love U' somethign which says her U dont want to leave her by just a mere doubt or confusion. After Ajay has shown her hsi affection his feeligns, now he needs to discuss the way he has started obsering certian things, he needs to clear her that whatever he is feelign is jealousy if it is doesnt that bother her .. if its a feelgin of insecurity abotu loosign this bond this realtiship somewhere as igf the thread binding them both is stretchign too much tearing away..he cant let that happen... He has to ask her to make him feel their love is strogn enough to hold on for years... After havign a straight talk and chat they need to calmly say and more importantly listen to each other's side and perspective...
It can happen that Anita tries to clear the differences the patterns and understnad somewhere she has given that littel pain to him where he has hurt himself and she has to assure and commit him abotu how much she loves not in words but to make him understnad how she has bonded with the other guy but as far as bond of love is concerned how mcuh Ajay means to him..how much his love makes her feel strogn.. she need to clear the doubts.. thought trust is important and when u love justification sounds weird but situation and with busy life soemthigns clearign things out always helps eveyrne... instead of hinding facts feelings..its not that big to discuss and tell the otehr... soemtimes it becoem too late and small issues too big and hurt deep inside where healign seems just not possible ...
Hope they have that day in their life where they bond more and uderstnad more abotu each other.. Dotn question the other person with saying the negative u observed but he postive that u missed abotu the realtionship shoudl be talked more...
Just tried to write my bit ....😆
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