Why so much HATE?

Angad, Kripa and Prithvi, wonderful creations of one persons imagination. A rock star, and two upcoming singers. On the verge of success, life takes them on a topsy turvy curve. And with them, we go on a roller coaster ride too. And when the ride started, what a fantastic ride it was. A macho, handsome rock star, full of youthful arrogance, when he signed with a lipstick, on a bare female back, lots of young girls went into a flutter and into flights of fancy imagining themselves in that position. A pretty lass, fresh and nubile, everyone loved her, her innocence appealed to all. And a sweet boy, just your boy next door, who just made your heart go pitter patter.

When the handsome rock star cradled the pretty lass from Nainitaal in his arms, we fell in love with them even more and prayed that the love never abates.

And today, by a cruel stroke of fate, the creator of these wonderful fictional characters has decided to make these very adorable characters into evil minded. One decides to break up the other pair, not that the lead pair needed much prompting to break into petty ego clashes. And today, they all hate each other.

What saddens the heart is not that the characters on screen hate each other. Just as that cruel stroke of the script writer, another feather wielding author will just twist the story and the evil thoughts will vanish from their minds and angels will dwell there again.

But alas, life is not like that and neither are the minds of real people. Isnt that the difference between Real people, virtual people and reel life characters.

We fell in love with the image of a handsome rock star, a guitar on one hand and a pretty petite lass on another. We loved their chemistry, we loved to watch them sizzle on screen. We loved each other here on this forum. This section was one of the most fun sections to be in. Everyone was a friend, everyone a buddy, we shared our emotions here. Yet today, the hatred of the on screen characters have spilt onto our lives on the forum here. Today, every post is on how much we hate Prithvi, Kripa and Angad.

Once we loved her. Today we criticize her for her choice of clothes, or even lack thereof. So many pages have been written, with members offering the old clothes of their maid to this lead girl. This is the girl you once adored. We made them popular. And today, becos of some reason, which is not comprehensible, we hate them and make such comments about them. MAIDS CLOTHES for Kripa. That was the limit.

Prithvi… he has so many fans. Yet in our hatred for each other here, so many posts and pages on how much we hate him. Why? What do we achieve.

We all have a life beyond the Forum and we come here to have some fun and enjoy ourselves with our friends. So why propogate hatred. Instead, isn't love a better option.

Queenkumar, I have found you to be one sensible girl, very mature and understanding. You agree with me that this atmosphere is not helping anyone. You appreciate that this hate propaganda against reel life characters will affect our 13 year old members. Radz2cool, a viewbie here, is just that old. She is in school. This is her age to enjoy the first blush of love, to savour that feeling. You want her and members and friends of that age to enjoy their teens. Please help us stop this. We want all of you to remember that what we write here is read by them and they participate in them too. Do we want to spoil their innocent minds.

LT and Nitica, you have been one of the most funniest member of this section. Why not have some of your famous humour in the section and divert the attention of all members from this sudden volte face to Prithvi. He is just another screen character. Why do we discuss his death so much.. lets have you with some funny posts, some good posts... lets do away with the morbidity for a while.

Sugarbun, Buttercup, Nitica, Kismet, Nannu, Mistyeyed, Kismet, Living doll, supergirl, Mannisha, you have been kinda stalwarts of this section. You were here when it started. You, with your funny and beautiful posts have made KYPH the place it is today. Don't you feel bad when you see it the way it is today. Please let bygones be bygones and lets make this section the most popular place for all KYPH fans in the world. Lets make the section rock, the way it was before.

Dinky, you are such a gracious person. We understand that members keep aksing you personal questions on the forum. We do try as much as possible to avoid it, for we don't want you to be embarrassed by having to speak about your personal life on the forum. One request to you. If you find a post asking a personal question, please pm any mod online and that post will be trashed immediately. We respect your sentiments and would like you to be just another member here on the forum. We don't want to burden you with too many unwanted and personal questions here.

Request to all members. Please remember we are here to have fun and masti. Not fight, not hurt other members, not spread hatred.

Please stop posting negative posts in the forum. We love all the characters and actors and God forbid, if they ever come here, we don't want them to be shocked at this hatred.

Priya dear i m really so happy to c ur post here but how many times u guys posting same post. Lot of people going to agree but next day they all forget. I always tried my best to back off of all these controversies but still lot of ppl leaved the forum nd doesnt want to come back. First time when i came here its really a fun place but nowadays I m searching the posts where i can do fun. I m not the young girl or teenager but still we r coming here to forget every single pain of our own lives nd enjoying, but what we found here same pain of life same controversies nd politics so what can we do now. I just try my best to not making this lovely forum a part of trash or controversy.

Luv U
Muniza

Just came back from a meeting, thank u Priya for putting this up.

I will do my level best to control the situation.

Sangeeta

I agree. We all here to spend our time with u guys then why fight?? This forum has now become like a battle where u fight for ur fans. pls guys what u gonna acheive fighting over a ficitional character? Stop it.

Originally posted by: galpal

Hi Priya,
Thank You for posting this! Yes, recently I have noticed a lot of negativity towards Kripa from a lot of members! They seem to relish in putting her down about everything from her looks, her dress , even Neha's acting capabilities have been questioned! Wheras everyone is all praise for Iqbal and Angad! There should be some balance in judgement! I have always praised both the lead actor and actress equally!
Since I have realized it is no use arguing with such biased members I refrain from doing so anymore!
Yes, you are right--if Neha or Amit came to this Forum they would be shocked at the amount of negativity towards the characters they play and sometimes even personal attacks! I wonder if the same thing happens in the forums of the other serials as well--where the lead actor is praised to the skies and the actress is bashed right, left and center!
Thanks again!
Pallavi

I agree completely Pallavi dii...every character needs to be balanced, so that people can feel free to post their views on their favorite actor

Totally agree with mummu that everyone has his/her own opinoins nd we have to repect that nd no one has the meaning or offended ne other members cause we luv nd respect them alot. Discussion is a part of arguing nd everyone has a right to show his/her ideas nd opinion. We r come over here for fun so we dont have to take nething personally, nd morethan humanity is nothing mean in the world. So plz dont take nething personally nd everyone has his own opinions but dont say nething to ne one for hurting them. We have to respect Dev team nd their hard work cause they made the forum for us for fun nd for showing our creativity nd opinions so enjoy the forum.

Luv U
Muniza

wow, after reading all that S.Priya had to say I got all teary eyed. Oh, that was beautifully written!

after reading all this I thought of Michael Jackson's, "We are the Children." So here goes...

"There comes a time when we heed a certain call
When the world must come together as one
There are people dying
and its time to lend a hand to life
There greatest gift of all

We cant go on pretending day by day
That someone, somewhere will soon make a change
We are all a part of Gods great big family
And the truth, you know,
Love is all we need

We are the world, we are the children
We are the ones who make a brighter day
So lets start giving
Theres a choice we're making
We're saving out own lives
its true we'll make a better day
Just you and me...."

Michael Jackson and his philosophy around children...I tell ya. 😛

priya i agree th@ this forum has members of all ages n the hatered n negativity in the forum isnt givin the youngsters a good example of how behave. n as a member of this forum i will try my level best 2 set a good example
sam

👏 nicely said guys 👏 i agree..

Originally posted by: s.priya

Queenkumar, I have found you to be one sensible girl, very mature and understanding. You agree with me that this atmosphere is not helping anyone. You appreciate that this hate propaganda against reel life characters will affect our 13 year old members. Radz2cool, a viewbie here, is just that old. She is in school. This is her age to enjoy the first blush of love, to savour that feeling. You want her and members and friends of that age to enjoy their teens. Please help us stop this. We want all of you to remember that what we write here is read by them and they participate in them too. Do we want to spoil their innocent minds.

Request to all members. Please remember we are here to have fun and masti. Not fight, not hurt other members, not spread hatred.

Please stop posting negative posts in the forum. We love all the characters and actors and God forbid, if they ever come here, we don't want them to be shocked at this hatred.

Priya did u just call me a girl😆 it's okay sweetie....arre yaar me grown woman with two grown 20 year olds😉....I respect your views and yes I will make sure that our young ones here are not exposed to such things.

Sangeeta