No one tells Ragini to look after Sadhana

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Posted: 16 years ago
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How come everyone is hell bent on getting Sadhana to look after Ragini. Why doesn't anyone tell Ragini that instead of being glued to the cell talking to Ranvir, maybe she pay some attention towards Sadhana; as that poor girl has so much responsibilities including a mentally challenged husband.

Every one keeps telling Sadhana to make sacrifices. Why not Ragini?

Does anyone even have a slightest inclination in the Sharma house that Sadhana will prolly never have the joy of motherhood with an abnormal hubby? How will she feel when she sees that Ragini at some point in the future will be expecting.

Kaushi worries about Ragini's future. As far as I can see, it's quite bright. She has Ranveer, the heir of the Rajvanch business all wrapped around her finger. If anyone's future is bleak and dim, then it is Sadhana's. Her hubby is mentally challenged, she has no strong character of her own, and is at the mercy of her sasuraal.

Yet after all this, everyone still expects Sadhana to make all the promises and sacrifices. Biased society.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Um, I think both Sadhana and Ragini have their share of sorrows.
I think right now, nobody is asking Ragini to look after Sadhana as Sadhana has already settled into Rajvansh house and Ragini is only just being wedded into the family and that too after tremendous difficulty and opposition. Whether Ragini's future is bright or not, only time will tell as on her wedding day itself people are commenting on her dark complexion and that to me gives an inclination that she has yet more to suffer. Not only that, but Vasu hasn't been keen on having Ragini as her daughter-in-law and itches every time she hears her friends nasty comments about Ragini. From where I can see, Ragini doesn't seem to have a very smoothe path in the future. However, Ragini does have Ranvir to support her and who loves her deeply.
Yes, Sadhana too has her share of problems, She may not receive mami ji's love for which she craves and yes she may feel sorrowed by the fact that she doesn't have a normal marital life but at the same time, she seems to love and respect Aalekh too much to dwell on what she doesn't have. Even though he's mentally challenged, Aalekh also has compassion and affection for Sadhana and seems to be the one who always wipes her tears.
So both sisters have their shares of thorns in their paths but at the same time have life partners who care for them and love them. I think what one of them doesn't have the other has, and what the other doesn't, the other has. Neither of them has their life set on a golden platter yet when together they can fight the injustices.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Kaushi is such a mean lady,she always ignore Sadhna !s sacrifices.
She is worried abt Ragini,who has lover like Ranveer,and sis Like Sadhna.
Sadhna is all alone,except MAMAJII no one is with her.Her hubby is not normal but who cares neither Ragini nor Mamijii.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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its ragini who's new to RV house not sadhna, so its so obvious that everyone will ask sadi to take care of ragini... ragini being the elder sister will always take care of her sister but when ragini is going into a new family then she should need someone who can tell her what to do and what not to do.. and who else can be better than her own sister....

both ragi and sadi went through equal amount of sorrows... none of their life has been bed of roses thorns will be there in both of their paths but there's only a hope, even facing all these problems their bond should remain strong as ever....

and i dont find ragini to be mean at all...i think more than anyone else she cares for sadi and she's the one who has been with her through thick and thin... even when everyone was against sadi, for marrying aalekh ragi was the only one who showed faith on sadi....

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Posted: 16 years ago
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totally agree wid sony595,cuty_pie...ragini RV house mai nayiii hai...sadhna allready RV house mai settled hai...is liye sab use kehete hai ragini ki khayal rakhne k liye...jaha tak ragini ka sawal hai, jaise sadhna ki jaan ragini hai,vaise hiii ragini ka jaan sadhna hai,use chance milegi to wo bhii sadhna ka liyeee apni jaan dene k liyee ready hai...and yessssssss both ragi n sadi went though equal amount of sorrows...aisa nehi hai ki baas sadhna hiii sariiii dukh jhela hai...ragini's life is not a bed of roses at all..right?
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Sadhna may have a mentally challenged husband but as far as i can see while hes with her no-one can hurt sadhna. Vasu loves aleekh and while sadhnas with him she will never let anyone harm then. Yes though ragini should become a support to sadhna though in that house that she needs.

Ragini will not have a easy time for sure with her colour ..and do agree its ranvir that runs the business.

As for the future as a sister i am sure that sadhna would never be jealous of ragini and ragini would understand her.

This being a show am sure aleekh will get better at some point.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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kaushi is just being over protective! why would the same thing happen twice? its highly unlikely.

everyone is tellin sadhna to look after ragini cause she has gone into the ranvansh house first, and knows how things work there.:)
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Posted: 16 years ago
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i agree with you soni and cuty_pie, you both have explained it nicely.
both sisters love each other dearly and will not let anything happen with each other. both sisters have very loving husbands who will take care of them and when all four are together, they will be able to fight all the nonsense that will be coming their way and support each other.
kaushi is just really over protective of ragini, she just doesn't want any more bad things to happen to her as she already had to endure a lot in the past due to het complexion. she thinks because sadhna is fair, then her life is a bed of roses and is too stubborn to look beyond that and see what sadhna's life is really like.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: cuty_pie

its ragini who's new to RV house not sadhna, so its so obvious that everyone will ask sadi to take care of ragini... ragini being the elder sister will always take care of her sister but when ragini is going into a new family then she should need someone who can tell her what to do and what not to do.. and who else can be better than her own sister....

both ragi and sadi went through equal amount of sorrows... none of their life has been bed of roses thorns will be there in both of their paths but there's only a hope, even facing all these problems their bond should remain strong as ever....

and i dont find ragini to be mean at all...i think more than anyone else she cares for sadi and she's the one who has been with her through thick and thin... even when everyone was against sadi, for marrying aalekh ragi was the only one who showed faith on sadi....



i agree...now ragi and sadhna will do all housework and cooking and avni will just stay in her room and cook up another plan with her hubby.
and sadhna's sacrifce was for ragi's happiness and that ragi too comes to rajvansh house as bahu and as ranveer's wife... so therefore sadhna's sacrifce has paid off.....and also chotti maa looks after sadhna alot and vasu has also started too and vasu i don't think will stop looking after sadhna or be horrible to her as she is afraid that she can loose alekh.

just my opnion no offence to anyone

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