is love really that bad?

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Jhanvi

@desigrl05

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 16 years ago

According to Vish love marriage is outright a disgraceful act! But I still don't understand how love before marriage is worse than love after marriage

THE SAME THING happeneing just two different times of one's life... does it make it unpure if it happens before marraige? SV never did anything bad, they loved loved

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purplestar22

@purplestar22

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Posted: 16 years ago

I know its odd and weird...

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Payal Patel

@Payal25

Dazzler

+ 5

Posted: 16 years ago

Yeah I agree with you.
I don't understand how Love before marriage is disgraceful. Its not like ShaVa did anything wrong 😔

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halima

@everyonesduva

Inactive

Posted: 16 years ago

Yes, I agrree that it is nnot a disgracce but if you look at from the point of the story and where the story is being taking place. In many areas arrange marriage is the thing everyone does because it is considered the right thing. Also it is considered a disgrace for many reasons one which might be that love marriage you choose you're own life partner and i u do so u are going against you're parents in a way. As they showed in the show that Akshara's dad is a follower of traditions so of course he is going to be mad if someone tries to break one of the tradiions.⭐️

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Ami

@-Ami-

Inactive

+ 4

Posted: 16 years ago

I agree! I never really thought that love before marriage was bad.. I mean, as you said, it is the same thing happening except at different times..

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Suraksha

@surdr

Explorer

Posted: 16 years ago

i dont know iether ,may be the one who loves knows it...

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Preeti

@-Preeti-

Trailblazer

+ 6

Posted: 16 years ago

i dont know yaar
but this actually proved that love b'fore marriage is nijurious to health

i mean we still have such families who actually think only those marriages prosper which have been arranged by thier parents. As still parents feel that thier children cannot choose a right partner for themselves

You can actually say that its a fear that parents have back in mind that a wrong decision might destroy thier children's life, so they avoid love marriages happening

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Charu

@Krinya

Trailblazer

+ 8

Team Critics

Posted: 16 years ago

this is ridiculous...whatever Vish said to Shaurya...

whether it's love marriage or arranged marriage, life after marriage is just the same...you have to make equal amount of adjustments and sacrifices....it's a myth that in arranged marriages the girl and boy hardly know each other...but i have nothing against love marriages provided the girl and boy have thought about all aspects of it ..whether or not they are sure they love each other and spend their entire life with each other..just like arranged marriage.....

here in this serial, the family knows Varsha and her mother from a very young age..so i don't see any problem with her and Shaurya's marriage...whatever vish spoke yest. that your sister won't get a match bec her brother had a love marriage is illogical and stupid....damn ghar ki parampara bans the girl or boy to fall in love before marriage!

Charu

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burberryx

@burberryx

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

they make it sound like as if they did something wrong like u know making love b4 marriage..but here its only love n they r over reacting i cant stand it