Originally posted by: Nisha_07
But Yudi has always been soft like that. If he wanted to be harsh, he would have asked Amma and Dadi to send RuMi away when he found out they were there. I don't think Yudi acts at all, especially not since Rani came into his life. From the start she has been mellowing him, getting him to "feel" as opposed to behaving robot style.
I feel Rani here is trying to make Yudi go against his belief that RuMi need to learn to stand on their own two feet. But hey, if it turns out to be a lesson for Rani to stop being so easily manipulated all the time, then I have no problem with that. But before they start transforming each other, they should at least understand each other.
yudi will not go against his belief he even assured CR that he will bring back rumi keeping the values that his family beleive in. as far as I remember SBS, yudi forgives rumi but says to rani they are still not ready to go back. they have to finish their punishment.
as for transformation or adjustment , it begins from the day you start living with each other that is why intitally it is so tough. I think rani knows what yudi wants and she will not take him to wrong path. Yudi himself admitted rudra made so many mistakes and he always protected him.
I know it is hard to change ppl like CR and RUMI they are like dog's tail. They can never be straight.
As soon as they come back they will be back to their old self.
Look at CR despite having her children thrown out she still has no remorse for her actions.and cheating and using rani.
Unfortunately I am surounded by my own who are no less than CR or rumi. but I guess that is a life.and you learn to deal with them keeping a low profile. if it is possible