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Posted: 16 years ago
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HMMMMMM......I think its more to do with love being an issue that WE want to talk of! All of us have other problems-ones that are quite as much complex as LOVE-it's just that LOVE is THE topic-though actually it may be ONE of THE topics!

I think there may be quite as many serious(perhaps more) issues-what about depression, bullying, peer pressure, addiction, parental pressure, time management issues and sibling rivalry?

It's just-somehow hard to face to them. I for one would feel much more confident to post that i'm hopelessly in love on this forum. It may be something that I may or may not feel confident discussing in real life-but whatever, telling it out online justs adds to your-well, comfort.

I WOULD NOT feel so comfortable saying that I was a target of bullying- online or offline. Plus, this is a peer support type of forum. None of us have any professional qualifications, so the issue would not be certain to receive a practical solution.

What say on my say? LOL

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Posted: 16 years ago
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^ Completely agree, Eran!

I guess it does have something to do with the comfort level. Love is just the thing that people talk about. Now if someone was to discuss their person lives in terms of their family issues or so they might feel that others might make an image in their mind. Others might avoid him/her so they don't talk about other problems, which is sad. I wish people would get over this fear and start posting their other problems so we can help them. But it has to do with their comfort level too.

-Mahi

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I think the reason why the most topics here are related on love is because most people aren't comfortable talking about love with someone face to face. But they cant keep it in, so there only option remains the internet and here they are free to ask w.e =).
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: AsliiGuy

so true, opposites make us grow as humans, tow diff ppl can show each other a new world..
Like a boring guy can show a girl the little things in life and how to slow down..
And a fast paced sky diver, kayaker, roller coaster junkie girl could show the boring guy how cool life is when you add a little speed etc..
All in all, its not whats on the outside as its whats on the inside..bc that person could be the coolest thing in the world, hiding behind glasses+books+graphing calculators (yes two, bc you need to calcluate p-c charts at the same time😭)... etc...


LOL Opposites could pull out that hidden 'thing' ANNDD dont insult the poor glasses LOL kiddn!

And it gives a balance-but it doesn't work unless the two really ARE into each other. It would simply get boring AND there usually is a common interest I guesss!

Opposites DO attrct-but its got more risk of rejection.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Lol this topic was pretty helpful to me as well. =)

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