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Jiya

@jiya25

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Posted: 16 years ago

wonder what Kaushi would do if she gets ragini married into a household of her choice and that house has a second bahu who is very beautiful???? Would there not be comparisons then? Or what if the daughter of the house is very beautiful???

May be she would then go Ragi's husband and say, please, aap naya ghar kharid kar alag raho taki koi meri beti ko khubsurat logo se compare na kare..............

i understand her worries but she can't protect her daughter from the opinions of the world, no matter where she gets married, so she should care only that ragi's husband should be madly in love with her, like her own husband is........she is able to stand the rest of the world only becoz prakashchand is with her, so why is she denying her daughter the same love and respect from Ranveer???

Edited by jiya25 - 16 years ago

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Neela

@neela226

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Posted: 16 years ago

that is true. kaushi is too obsessed over ragi being around beautiful people. kaushi should only be happy if ragi gets married to someone who will give her undying love

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-phoenix-

@-phoenix-

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Posted: 16 years ago

i agree taht kaushi might be trying a bit too hard to protect ragini....but u have to see it from a mother's POV......i mean she has seen how badly ragini has broken down with each rejection.....and in her own marriage it was probably outsiders with whom she had to be compared to....but here its ragini's own sister that she will be compared to......i mean in some of the earlier episodes this was absolutely apparent.....whenever ragini n sadhana were together in public people passed comment at ragini....calling sadhna the chand ...n ragini the chand par daag n all....so kausgi's fear is comprehendable...she just wants the best for her daughter...n she feels as a mother she is doing the right thing....

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Saniha

@SaniaKaSidShukl

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Posted: 16 years ago

yah ryte i think kaushis is gettin a lil hyper..now she should see her daughters happiness and she should also keep tht in mind ke if ranvir se shaadi na hoti hai to whats the 100% guarantee ke ragi will live happily iwd sumother person.

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laughing doll

@laughing doll

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Posted: 16 years ago

jiya dear u have a point.....wish kaushi understands all this........

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Jiya

@jiya25

Dazzler

Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: phoenixsilver

i agree taht kaushi might be trying a bit too hard to protect ragini....but u have to see it from a mother's POV......i mean she has seen how badly ragini has broken down with each rejection.....and in her own marriage it was probably outsiders with whom she had to be compared to....but here its ragini's own sister that she will be compared to......i mean in some of the earlier episodes this was absolutely apparent.....whenever ragini n sadhana were together in public people passed comment at ragini....calling sadhna the chand ...n ragini the chand par daag n all....so kausgi's fear is comprehendable...she just wants the best for her daughter...n she feels as a mother she is doing the right thing....

I understand her POV. all i am saying is that there are somethings you can't protect against. If ppl want to talk they will talk, if not compare ragi with sadi then with someone else....how far is she willing to go to protect ragi from that??

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Jiya

@jiya25

Dazzler

Posted: 16 years ago

i think parents need to understand that some decisions children have to make on their own, and live with the consequesces. if both RagVir are giving their parents the right respect than they as human beings deserve the same respect from their parents too. Its not just the kid's responsibility to think of the parent's wishes but vice versa too.....the fathers on both side understand and respect their kids, the mothers on both side want to run the lives of these two becoz they both really believe that they are "protecting" their child from more pain, but in reality they are adding to it....

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zarmeeno

@zarmeeno

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Posted: 16 years ago

I think she is the one who is making Ragini feel that she is not beautiful more than anyone else. She is the one who is doing the comparison hereself now. She should have confidence in her daughter that by her love and affection and respect for others everything will be fine.

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-phoenix-

@-phoenix-

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: jiya25

I understand her POV. all i am saying is that there are somethings you can't protect against. If ppl want to talk they will talk, if not compare ragi with sadi then with someone else....how far is she willing to go to protect ragi from that??

well kaushi is doin what she feels is right for her daughter.....for her smonee like shishir wud be the best match 4 her daughter .....n with his kinda family n all....she feels ragini wont get the kinda respect she deserves in the Rajvansh household.....n thats what she said in today's episode......

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-phoenix-

@-phoenix-

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Posted: 16 years ago

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but i do agree it wud be much better if kaushi just worked towards improving ragini's cofidence in herself ....than worry about the comparisons that she might hav to go through.....

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