Argh. what did i do wrong?

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xox.iloveyou

@xox.iloveyou

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Posted: 17 years ago

hey guyss.

im SO confuseed.

ohkaayy so to make a long story shortt.

i met this guyy.. i talked too him preetty often and everythingg..

w.e w.e..

but den i told him dat i he scares me sometimes and got mad he's liike how n why n if yu dont tell me den bye foreverr. 😕

i asked him later if he was mad at me n he's like yess dont talk too me n i said ok n told him to block me but he said it's his account n he knoes what to do wid it. n not to worry. i was liikkee ohkaayy.. 😕

i dont get itt. n now he says he's not mad at me but he's like yu knoe i dont wanna talk cuz yur scared of mee.. n i was likkee omgg..

what shoulldd i do?

i hate da fact dat he doesnt talk too me anymoree. n im even more scared to call him cuz i dont him to hang up on mee. 😭

and on msn whenever i come on he leavess.. 😕

Argghh what did i do wronngg? he gets mad easily thoo.. like seriosullyy. when i tell other guys dat dey scare me dey laugh and say dat's a good thingg.. den why did dis guy go all crazy on mee?

argh argh arggh !

HELP !

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souro

@souro

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Posted: 17 years ago

Originally posted by: animerocks
hey guyss.
im SO confuseed.

ohkaayy so to make a long story shortt.

i met this guyy.. i talked too him preetty often and everythingg..

w.e w.e..

but den i told him dat i he scares me sometimes and got mad he's liike how n why n if yu dont tell me den bye foreverr. 😕

i asked him later if he was mad at me n he's like yess dont talk too me n i said ok n told him to block me but he said it's his account n he knoes what to do wid it. n not to worry. i was liikkee ohkaayy.. 😕

i dont get itt. n now he says he's not mad at me but he's like yu knoe i dont wanna talk cuz yur scared of mee.. n i was likkee omgg..

what shoulldd i do?

i hate da fact dat he doesnt talk too me anymoree. n im even more scared to call him cuz i dont him to hang up on mee. 😭

and on msn whenever i come on he leavess.. 😕

Argghh what did i do wronngg? he gets mad easily thoo.. like seriosullyy. when i tell other guys dat dey scare me dey laugh and say dat's a good thingg.. den why did dis guy go all crazy on mee?

argh argh arggh !

HELP !

First thing is why'd you want to say to people that they scare you, and from the part marked in red it seems that you tell many people the same thing.

But anyways, you should understand that different people have different level of sensitivity. And to be very honest many people may not be very pleased if you tell him/ her that s/he is scary or you're scared of them without any specific reasons. Before saying something to others, always judge by the fact that whether you'll like it if someone else said the same thing to you. Your intention may not have been hurtful, but you don't always get the reaction that you desire. Better avoid such comments that can hurt someone.

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xox.iloveyou

@xox.iloveyou

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Posted: 17 years ago

^^ ohkay ye i get datt.. but it was SO unintentional. i didnt knoe dat he'd take it seriosully. i said it as a jookkee. how was i supposed to knoe dat he'll get mad. it's like me saying i cant be myself infront of others :S

and ye if someone said to me dat their scared of me i'll be happy. WHY? because dey wont pass dere limits. if dere scared of me den it's a good thing for mee. yu get what im sayingg..

but anywho, thanks for da advice

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aishwarya

@aish_punk

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Posted: 17 years ago

Hmmm i wonder why u're scared of guys! Anyway when u told this 2 oda guys u said they just laughed at that..bt maybe this guy takes everything to his heart. So i guess u had to be extra kind to him. U can try apologizing to him n tell him it's not that serious as u're thinking it to be.

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Pooja

@Angeleyes 2

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Posted: 17 years ago

Long time no hear!

Y r u scared of him to begin with?

I dont think it was nice to say that to ppl😆. however u should ask him to reach and u guys should talk rather than to keep it in him boiling.

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Maan-Diwani

@Maan-Diwani

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Posted: 17 years ago

hey you did nothing wrong. you told him that he scares you a little (why is that) and he rather than talking to you about it just blew up in your face, so i think it's a good thing that you to aren't talking because that's pretty shady and he's obviously hiding something big from you. all you can do right now is ignore him for a while and give him sometime to grow up and he'll come talk to you. or you can leave him a msg on msn and tell him how you're feeling.

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Mahi

@-Mystery-

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Posted: 17 years ago

Well if it was just a joke then you should've said right away about it being a joke... I mean different people take stuff differently.. Some people take small things to heart whereas others don't care.

SO be careful when you say something like that around different people.. know their natures.

Even nothing is wrong right now.. go and tell him that you were just kidding, and that he shouldn't be too serious.

-Mahi

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xox.iloveyou

@xox.iloveyou

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Posted: 17 years ago

LOOLL ! thanks guy but this was over with a lonng time agoo..

it's fyne noww. lol thankss.

@aish_punk: im not scared of guyss. LMAAOO ! i only saay dat to guys because of da way dey actt.. looll

@everyone: thankss n i kinda dont want to say why i said dat. hope yu dont mindd. lool !

but it's all good now

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Posted: 17 years ago

He is hurt (Trust me, some guys do get upset when they hear such things), which is the reason he is sulking. Though, I still think he shouldn't get so mad, and rather try to make you comfortable, than get angry over it. If he isn't listening to you, then just leave him alone. If its meant to be, he will come back to you, and talk about it.