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Posted: 16 years ago
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Before Proceeding, Please Read:
1) This is NOT a Sukriti Bashing topic
2) This is NOT a Pro-Shilpa Topic either
3) I'm Nuetral
4) So I hope & wish this topic will not be closed(😆)
O.k......I don't write in this forum. This is probably my first Post since a very long time, apart from the VM's that I post here. But this time something compelled me to write this. It includes the journey of DMG through my eyes and a few observations.
Note That these Observations are my PERSONAL ones and there are no generalizations whatsoever.
I'll make this very brief because I don't want you all to get bored mid-way and press the back button.
Initially I didn't watch DMG, I started watching it from October, or to be more precise, when AR had their first date. And needless to say, I was hooked. DMG was a serial I thought would bring about a change in Indian Television, obviously because of it's fresh approach and special target towards the Youth audience.
As the months passed, DMG became more & more interesting......I didn't miss a single episode, no matter where i was. Then slowly, DMG started declining.........It saw a major decline when the Muskaan-Armaan-Patiala track started, which according to me, was not required.
Then a major blow (To me) came when Shilpa left. Needless to say, I was sad......very sad as a matter of fact, but I decided to give Sukriti a chance. I watched DMG after Sukriti entered for two weeks, trying to accept Sukriti. But I simply couldn't erase Shilpa from my mind, so I decided to stop watching DMG & cherish the KaSh memories. Sukriti has done a wonderful job & and she's a brilliant actress, but I just couldn't identify with her. (That's just me)
Since that day till today, I have observed a few changes in the DMG forum........I couldn't help but pen these down, NO offense it meant to anyone(I mean it)
1) The forum has become one-sided: Earlier(By earlier, I don't mean the time when Shilpa was here, but the months of Jan-Feb etc) when topics like "Has DMG lost it's charm?" were opened, People replied and gave their varied views & different opinions, which also helped me to form my opinion. Now, if such a topic is opened, 80% of the times the only reply that I see is "Stop watching DMG if you don't like it".....That's it. Full Stop......There are no different opinions and the topic is easily pushed back with only 6-7 replies( There may be an exception, but this is what I notice most times). Frankly, It is by-far the most annoying reply I have read.
2) The strong tendency of Sukriti fans to dominate over Shilpa fans (Please for god's sake do not turn this into Shilpa vs Sukriti fight): I have noticed this pattern not only in IF, but on other sites aswell.......I am not raising an objection, but this is just what I have noticed. But now, Thanks to the mods, We have a "Shilpa Discussion Thread", which according to me, has broken this pattern to a great extent. But if we try to make a visual picture of the DMG forum, it would turn out to be like a field where there are two groups of children and one group of children are flocked together in one corner and other group is enjoying huge space.
These are the two major things that I have noticed, It may not be true, but these are just my views.😃
Now, I must say that I'm defenitely looking forward to your comments but I certainly don't want this to become a battlefield. Even if you don't agree with me, let's have a proper discussion......because every coin has a flip side and so does this topic. Varied views are welcome😊.......No offense it meant to anyone.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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nice post liza ...yep i agree with u although the forum is beginning to change now thanks to the shilpa anand discussion thread earlier on it was like a battle field, KaSu fans vs KaSh fans it was either your a kasuian or your a KaShian there were no ifs or buts, well what about the people who like both ?? and are A-R fans, initially i also decided to give sukruti a chance, she is a fab actress and she is doing a great job playing Dr riddhima's character, but somewhere i feel that the defenition of A-R chemistry has changed, although i wasnt expecting KaSu chemistry to replace KaSh chemistry i was hoping to maybe see a glimpse of them here and there but now i have realised that Dr Riddhima's character hasbeen completely changed ..not to say in a bad way but for me when i used to dmg with shilpa init i found the show and Dr riddhima's character very familiar but now the character has been changed completely i feel that i cannot relate to it anymore .... i still watch dmg and i still watch it for A-R, but i just cant help miss KaSh ... i hope the old masti baari dmg comes back, and with it the old dmg forum which always used to be rocking, now a days some member are just damn rude !! i hope gradually all members on this forum can learn to respect each others decision, i've seen so many people posting rude comments on KaSh related posts even some members bash sukruti i'm totally againts that aswell but sometimes i just cant help replying back to those people even though i know its best to ignore them ... although i am thankful to the the modz for allowing us the shilpa discussion thread i still feel that kash fans havent been given the equal rights maybe thats why so many dmgians have left this forum they feel like they dont belong here anymore.

there are still a minority of people on this forum who need to learn respect and accept other people's decisions so what if some members dont want to forget KaSh ??? its just ultra rude to tell them to move on in life !!! and yh sometimes i feel lyk i dont belong here anymore i only come here because of the shilpa thread, i would love to be friends with the KaSuians /dmgians here but it just seems to me that it doest work that way, some members are just waaaay to dominated ...
phew !! im so sorry if ive gone of track been wanting to write this for long, its too hard to explain lolz !! and please everyone this is just my opinion dont think im bashing dmg or anything im just expressing my views without wanting to fight with anyone !!!
-aishah
Edited by aishah02 - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I totally agree wid u liza and aishah great post the forum is soooo changed its not like its used to be before but i still don't understand this kash vs. kasu fights i mean i don't think shilpa or sukirti would ever give cold looks when they come across in real life.....i mean every kasuians wants us to move on and its keep telling us shilpa dosen't care about her fans she does i mean if she didn't care then she wouldn't give the last message to fans for appericiating her and she even intoroduced sukirti as new ridhima she gave support to DMG team unfortunately she is not part of DMG anymore but people don't respect her decision and bash shilpa for no reason you don't know what's going on at other side of the door? there would be particular reason that she left not just to move on or for better offers well. thans to gagan and trina for opening shilpa thread here but i still feel not part of this forum..anyways don't wanna be offensive but the one particular thing is irritating for everybody is youtube videos i don't wanna drag it here but somebody made a vm on sukirti and police jodi made in heaven and bhai behen vms on kasu long ago and just to take a revenge and give a better answer to kashinas they made a vm on kasu won shilpa lost i just wanna ask one question why? what is the point of making those vms? that's not a better solution to the fights that's gonna grow longer n longer and there is no ending...and that's just insult to not only us but sukirti n shilpa since shilpa has left the show and sukirti came everybody is waiting to give answer back to each other and fight like 5 year old child including me when it wasn't needed but i guess it won't change. and its disappointing to see that people dosen't respect each other's opinions.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Yeah Liza i do agree with u to some extent!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: dkent

I totally agree wid u liza and aishah great post the forum is soooo changed its not like its used to be before but i still don't understand this kash vs. kasu fights i mean i don't think shilpa or sukirti would ever give cold looks when they come across in real life.....i mean every kasuians wants us to move on and its keep telling us shilpa dosen't care about her fans she does i mean if she didn't care then she wouldn't give the last message to fans for appericiating her and she even intoroduced sukirti as new ridhima she gave support to DMG team unfortunately she is not part of DMG anymore but people don't respect her decision and bash shilpa for no reason you don't know what's going on at other side of the door? there would be particular reason that she left not just to move on or for better offers well. thans to gagan and trina for opening shilpa thread here but i still feel not part of this forum..anyways don't wanna be offensive but the one particular thing is irritating for everybody is youtube videos i don't wanna drag it here but somebody made a vm on sukirti and police jodi made in heaven and bhai behen vms on kasu long ago and just to take a revenge and give a better answer to kashinas they made a vm on kasu won shilpa lost i just wanna ask one question why? what is the point of making those vms? that's not a better solution to the fights that's gonna grow longer n longer and there is no ending...and that's just insult to not only us but sukirti n shilpa since shilpa has left the show and sukirti came everybody is waiting to give answer back to each other and fight like 5 year old child including me when it wasn't needed but i guess it won't change. and its disappointing to see that people dosen't respect each other's opinions.

i totally agree with you Dhara and i understand ur feelings for shilpa leaving DMG
and i too totally respect shilpa in tht sense coz she gave full support to the team. and yeah shilpa and suku must be friends in real..and here we are fighting for whos better and who is not
But i also dont get this why were tht inspector and suku;s background and vm's made in the 1st place even if it was long back..if it was to show to the creatives why did they drag suku into it..no one can say about future ,.did u ever think tht suku will have crazy and hardcore fans and they can feel offended by all this kind of stuff going on..i dont want to bring youtube here either...but this is my personal opinion..it offends us fans to see such horrendous stuff about suku.
i find all the vm's made on shilpa very disgusting too but why were all those disgraceful vm's made on suku in the first place...tht person shud stop making such backgrounds and vm's firstly and not offend us anymore
Also everything can change if we respect each other's opinions and views!!!!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: ragkapil

i totally agree with you Dhara and i understand ur feelings for shilpa leaving DMG
and i too totally respect shilpa in tht sense coz she gave full support to the team. and yeah shilpa and suku must be friends in real..and here we are fighting for whos better and who is not
But i also dont get this why were tht inspector and suku;s background and vm's made in the 1st place even if it was long back..if it was to show to the creatives why did they drag suku into it..no one can say about future ,.did u ever think tht suku will have crazy and hardcore fans and they can feel offended by all this kind of stuff going on..i dont want to bring youtube here either...but this is my personal opinion..it offends us fans to see such horrendous stuff about suku.
i find all the vm's made on shilpa very disgusting too but why were all those disgraceful vm's made on suku in the first place...tht person shud stop making such backgrounds and vm's firstly and not offend us anymore
Also everything can change if we respect each other's opinions and views!!!!

rags even i get angry seeing those youtube videos, its best to ignore these people tho, im sure not just you and other KaSuians but many KaSh/ shilpa fans find those videos disgusting aswell.
Edited by aishah02 - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: ragkapil

i totally agree with you Dhara and i understand ur feelings for shilpa leaving DMG
and i too totally respect shilpa in tht sense coz she gave full support to the team. and yeah shilpa and suku must be friends in real..and here we are fighting for whos better and who is not
But i also dont get this why were tht inspector and suku;s background and vm's made in the 1st place even if it was long back..if it was to show to the creatives why did they drag suku into it..no one can say about future ,.did u ever think tht suku will have crazy and hardcore fans and they can feel offended by all this kind of stuff going on..i dont want to bring youtube here either...but this is my personal opinion..it offends us fans to see such horrendous stuff about suku.
i find all the vm's made on shilpa very disgusting too but why were all those disgraceful vm's made on suku in the first place...tht person shud stop making such backgrounds and vm's firstly and not offend us anymore
Also everything can change if we respect each other's opinions and views!!!!


Thanks ragini for agreeing i understand you guys feel really angry towards who made those vm s that insult to fans like you and sukirti and it is sad but i guess there is only one person not every kashians feel like the same way anyways thaks for agreeing and we hope no more bashings n i think we should respect each other's opinions..after all we are like a one family.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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@Dhara ya thanks a lot for understanding me..but seriously i dint wanna interfere in those comments on tht video made on shilpa..ya i did comment once but i just got out of it...and i read all the comments later..it was truly disgusting to see such horrible and offensive language written by everyone there..absolutely disgusting .literally abusing each other..there are more like animals yaa..not at all civilized!!!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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@aishah....ya thanks for understanding and im going to just ignore all those horrendous videos and stuff!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I didn't even bother commenting there too! YT is sooo disgusting and people use all kinds of nasty language there! But i sawed more nastier words from KaSu fans like rushy and others! I almost puked because i hate such words! Those words can not be worse then bhootni and all and that video of them was directly bashing Shilpa in words and everything where others were not that deep and cheap! I mean straight bashing and calling her flab and expressionless, i mean what do they know about good looks? That video was like all based on how bad Shona looks

Anyways i agree with your second point Liza! I mean one side gets everything but the other doesn't and one thread only just because Shilpa is not in the show anymore? The girl who gave nine months to the show is not allowed and all others like shradha and suku's BF can be discussed? That is totally unfair! But i appreciate the mods for giving us that thread, i mean that is good then nothing but still you can see the difference!

I am tired of people telling us to move on!!! It is soooo soooo annoying and i agree with you Liza!

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