ughhh... please, MOVE ON from ragvir now - Page 9

Originally posted by: nureat01

I think that just because some ppl are naive or uneducated and choose to take something shown on TV literally, doesn't mean that that stuff should stop being shown on TV.....that doesn't make the creators of a show responsible for anything.....it is the ppl in question who should be educated or ultimately learn to rise above their naivete....life teaches everyone eventually.....but I do understand your point about their being predators in society who prey on young, innocent boys/girl and so ppl should be careful about who they strike up a phone/internet friendship with.....that is a very valid point....but I don't see that to be much of a factor in the Ragvir story since this is fiction.

Yes, it was a rare co-incidence that she just happened to dial his number....but I don't think it's that far-fetched....some things may have a one in a million probability of happpening, but that it IS still a fair probability.....wrong numbers ARE dialed in real life and while it is obviously romantic to imagine that you would meet the love of your life thru dialling a number accidentally, it is not impossible......Strange things happen when it comes to love....some things can be dismissed as the flighty imaginations of a romantic mind, but that does not mean they are impossible. Now I can understand if some ppl have reservations about how deeply they fell in love over the phone....but it can be chalked up to creative liberties in a fiction soap....

So I guess for you it is the 'highly, highly unlikely' part of Ragvir that bothers you most, while I don't find their situation quite that 'unlikely'.....again, not 100% realistic, but not THAT unlikely either.😊 Cuz frankly then, no sisters exist out there who would marry a mentally challenged man just to get their other sister married either. That is where the fiction/creative liberties of a show come in.....but I'm not going to say I mind that....cuz I really like the Saalekh track as well.....cuz of the treatment....and it is the same for the Ragvir track.....while the basic premise of the beginning of their love was a bit far-fetched, the way it has been developed is very sweet, just my opinion😊

Originally posted by: *Kruthi*

It may seem to some that what they're showing isn't such a big deal and people won't be affected by it... but I'd like to mention that not to long ago in the forum some member had opened up a post (no offense to this member, just using you as an example) that she recd a call from a wrong number/she called a wrong number and she was contemplating whether or not to arouse a convo with this person. Now who knows who this person cud be...Wow, that's a little scary.....I hope the girl didn't end up in some sort of trouble.....People should be careful and cautious about this kind of stuff....It's scary that most parents are so clueless about what their kids are doing.

So basically my point is, Ragvir track is not exactly the best message to be sending out... that you can start a convo with any random guy you call, magically fall in love with him, and then realize he's a handsome young guy you know and he loves you too. Because frankly, that's just as likely as a sister marrying a mentally challenged man for her sister. I already said that both these things are equally unlikely in some ways.....but the creative liberties come in and it is the TREATMENT which makes the difference....which is why I enjoy BOTH the stories.....as for the Ragvir track, it is not sending out any message.....this is just a show, for god's sake.....that's like saying Saalekh are sending out a message for all women to be as sacrificing as Sadi and marry a mentally challenged man for their sister.....these are all fictitious stories.....they don't have a responsibility to babysit their audiences and teach them what to think.....that is upto the audience to interpret.....cuz it's not like Ragvir's story started and the makers carried a special message saying, "Everyone, follow this story and learn how to fall in love"......A million stories are written everyday, most of them fiction....just because someone may read one that was farfetched and decide to do something similar doesn't mean that that story was 'sending out a message'.....Ragvir and Saalekh are both fictitious soap stories....I think that most shows have a disclaimer in the beginning stating that the show is fiction and doesn't intentionally resemble anything from real life.

Originally posted by: sweet_shagun

I am posting same things again but

Both Saalekh and RagVir story started with a fiction but there r cases where certain things agree, i dont wanna name but then honestly i have seen a story of a frnd who fell in for his "wrong number", and that grl was dusky and someone not of his imagination but still they r together...till today, we frnds were playing cupid , he took few days for his decision after meeting but then he was firm on his decision.... And there is another case too!!