Really, what in hell do these people mean by showing this poor girl Ragini crying again and again. If she has true spirit, then she should pick up the damn phone and call Anmol/Ranveer ji and sort it out with him. Not be pushed towards another man for shaadi by her family. And anway, who the hell said that the way to happiness is through a man? Why does Ragini need to marry someone in order to feel worthy?
After watching this serial, I feel that I am hurt and let down by the way they are potraying women. I know plenty of women who are dark but have done exceedingly well in life. PLUS, all these women are confident about themselves and their looks. They don't cry about their destiny. Why did Ragini conclude that it is her looks that made Ranveer go away from the Taj Mahotsav? Could it not have been that he felt awkward that she was a family member (well sort of distant relative)?
We women are the biggest watchers of television, we need to give these creatives a feedback that we all come in different sizes, colors and shapes. We do not, and will not endorse such sort of self pitying actions by an extremeley capable 21st century woman such as Ragini.
Poor Ragini is not marrying in order to feel worthy. In fact she is very unhappy about it. She is doing it because her parents are worried about her and she has become a marraigeable age. Obviously she has marraige in the scheme of things in life and though the right groom has come at an inopportune time --- what with her in not a fit mental state etc.-- her parents hope it will perhaps make her forget Ranvir. It is not abnormal to feel sad after your beloved has rejected you. Of course happiness in life is surely not always through a man. But please remember that we all like to have someone special in our life , we all dream and hope to meet a perfect man who will sweep us off our feet in a whirlwind of romance. And basically many of us are romantic at heart. It is a tall order to some ordinary simple girl to think differently. And those who are dark and successful must have a story if not similar to Ragini but a story nonetheless buried deep in their heart. You only need to delve deeper . Here I speak from personal experience. Ragini is pretty strong in my opinion.