HII.. JUS WANTED UR VIEWS OVER THIS..

Hii frnds this is my first topic on I-F..
Frnds pls put down ur views over this

Suppose in life, if you are in a situation where you hav to choose either ur family's decision or ur own wishes.. which one u would choose..???

One side its ur family's happiness, their wishes which they hav dreamt for u.. and On the other hand its ur dreams which u hav been dreaming frm childhood.. which one u would choose...???

Pls do comment frnds as i am stuck up in this situstion.. if you didn't understand anything p.m. me... I will
b eagerly waiting for ur comments

ritu😊

Originally posted by: RSZR

Hii frnds this is my first topic on I-F..
Frnds pls put down ur views over this

Suppose in life, if you are in a situation where you hav to choose either ur family's decision or ur own wishes.. which one u would choose..???

One side its ur family's happiness, their wishes which they hav dreamt for u.. and On the other hand its ur dreams which u hav been dreaming frm childhood.. which one u would choose...???

Pls do comment frnds as i am stuck up in this situstion.. if you didn't understand anything p.m. me... I will
b eagerly waiting for ur comments

''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''ritu😊

What is the situation exactly maybe I can help you feel free to pm. If it is a very major life impacting decision than in most cases you should go with your own thinking because no one knows your life better than you do. However if it is not that important you should consider your family's views and try to reach a middle ground if possible.

Originally posted by: Megha25

What is the situation exactly maybe I can help you feel free to pm. If it is a very major life impacting decision than in most cases you should go with your own thinking because no one knows your life better than you do. However if it is not that important you should consider your family's views and try to reach a middle ground if possible.

hii meghat thnx for replying.. atleast some one turned bak.. anyway its not too personal.. i hav sent u a pm.. hav a look it.. thnx once again..

ritu

in ur profile..
u mentioned ur dob as "

29 July 1993

so u r only 15 now..

i think, u were not supposed to be here at this forum, without ur parent's permission.

"Use of and membership in the India-forums Website is void where prohibited. By using the India-forums Website, you represent and warrant that (a) you are 16 years of age or above (b) your use of the India-forums Website do not violate any applicable law or regulation. Your profile may be deleted and your membership may be terminated without warning, if we believe that you are less than 16 years of age."

And i think, instead of asking opinions here and there, now u shud talk with ur parents, or grandparents, elder sister/brother. or uncle/aunt.

Try to talk with them, and if u can't convince anyone of them,

then please follow ur parent's wish.

--Added later..

I was a little harsh that time.

I still say, that talk to ur parents, siblings, relatives. Bcoz they know u very well. they know ur weaknesses and strength, so they can judge u better.

You can still follow ur dreams, if your dreams are reasonable. I means such as if u want to become writer, player or actor. First you must excel in studies too, and second help ur parents in house. after that, develop ur dream-related skills. Try to do those at school/college level. And show ur parents that u r serious abt it, and u have some capabilities to do that. Then convincing them is easier.

Or keep developing ur skills, and do studies. and Get a job. Be Adult. And then do whatever u want.

Best of luck :-)

(do not pm me, if u want to write, write here )

Originally posted by: Huduga

in ur profile..
u mentioned ur dob as "

29 July 1993

so u r only 15 now..

i think, u were not supposed to be here at this forum, without ur parent's permission.

"Use of and membership in the India-forums Website is void where prohibited. By using the India-forums Website, you represent and warrant that (a) you are 16 years of age or above (b) your use of the India-forums Website do not violate any applicable law or regulation. Your profile may be deleted and your membership may be terminated without warning, if we believe that you are less than 16 years of age."

And i think, instead of asking opinions here and there, now u shud talk with ur parents, or grandparents, elder sister/brother. or uncle/aunt.

Try to talk with them, and if u can't convince anyone of them,

then please follow ur parent's wish.

--Added later..

I was a little harsh that time.

I still say, that talk to ur parents, siblings, relatives. Bcoz they know u very well. they know ur weaknesses and strength, so they can judge u better.

You can still follow ur dreams, if your dreams are reasonable. I means such as if u want to become writer, player or actor. First you must excel in studies too, and second help ur parents in house. after that, develop ur dream-related skills. Try to do those at school/college level. And show ur parents that u r serious abt it, and u have some capabilities to do that. Then convincing them is easier.

Or keep developing ur skills, and do studies. and Get a job. Be Adult. And then do whatever u want.

Best of luck :-)

(do not pm me, if u want to write, write here )

Originally posted by: Huduga

in ur profile..
u mentioned ur dob as "

29 July 1993

so u r only 15 now..

i think, u were not supposed to be here at this forum, without ur parent's permission.

"Use of and membership in the India-forums Website is void where prohibited. By using the India-forums Website, you represent and warrant that (a) you are 16 years of age or above (b) your use of the India-forums Website do not violate any applicable law or regulation. Your profile may be deleted and your membership may be terminated without warning, if we believe that you are less than 16 years of age."

And i think, instead of asking opinions here and there, now u shud talk with ur parents, or grandparents, elder sister/brother. or uncle/aunt.

Try to talk with them, and if u can't convince anyone of them,

then please follow ur parent's wish.

--Added later..

I was a little harsh that time.

I still say, that talk to ur parents, siblings, relatives. Bcoz they know u very well. they know ur weaknesses and strength, so they can judge u better.

You can still follow ur dreams, if your dreams are reasonable. I means such as if u want to become writer, player or actor. First you must excel in studies too, and second help ur parents in house. after that, develop ur dream-related skills. Try to do those at school/college level. And show ur parents that u r serious abt it, and u have some capabilities to do that. Then convincing them is easier.

Or keep developing ur skills, and do studies. and Get a job. Be Adult. And then do whatever u want.

Best of luck :-)

(do not pm me, if u want to write, write here )

hii i know u were a bit harsh.. but its ok.. der must b some problem.. nd thnx for ur advice.. no hard feelings.. thnx once again..

hii thnx a lot frnds... ur advice has been really grateful to me😊.. i jus request that this topic is closed....


thanking u all
ritu..

Originally posted by: RSZR

hii i know u were a bit harsh.. but its ok.. der must b some problem.. nd thnx for ur advice.. no hard feelings.. thnx once again..

yeah, i was little harsh. and i admitted that, and 'added that later'.
so i can't add much now.

but this was my view abt all this.

i feel that, under-age ppl shud take help of family members, or relative or very close friends, abt personal important problems, rather than asking on the forum. Becoz they can help u in better way abt these problems.
Becoz very few ppl can use harsh and hard words with u here. mostly will try with softer words to become ur friend. And at this ur friends won't be able to advise u correctly too. bcoz they are of same age too.

i will say that again, Talk to ur parents, convince them. or grandparents/relative, or ur parent's friend.
Here question and answers are not abt, whether u shud follow ur dreams, or theirs.
The ppl who know u and ur parents. can say more abt it, and u can convince them abt ur dreams.

best of luck !

(and i am telling u from my personal experience, it is always better to discuss with parents and some close relatives abt these things )