serious problem... - Page 2

Created

Last reply

Replies

12

Views

1.2k

Users

12

Frequent Posters

-Mystery- thumbnail
17th Anniversary Thumbnail Stunner Thumbnail + 6
Posted: 16 years ago
#11
Well, it's strange. It seems like your current relationship with your boyfriend is going no where but then I also think that your relationship with the guy in Paris may not go anywhere either.. think about the distance and all the other problems. I don't know what to say but I do want to say that give yourself and your thoughts a bit of a time. You need that to understand your true feelings for your boyfriend the guy you met in Paris. It's highly crucial that you don't make a wrong decision and end up regretting it. Think it over and let your boyfriend know if you are not truly feeling complete with him. And the thing with the Paris guy could just be infatuation... it's hard to fall in love in a few meetings.

-Mahi

WildGloss thumbnail
19th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 16 years ago
#12
Its not about you wasting 3 years, you've loved him... hez loved you all along.. you've had your good times together.
Whatever happens, happens with a reason..its not called wasting time.
I suggest you go ahead and call that guy..tell him about your bf...see how he reacts.. you have nothing to lose at that end.
He might end up confessing things u dont noe about him..he might be the best person to seek advice from.
And your boyfriend, 3 years is a long time.. Ask yourself... Do you really wanna let go?
Why dont you tell him you want a break... not a break up.
and during that break you can think over what you really want =)
Baby S thumbnail
17th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 16 years ago
#13
well this is a complicated situation but i think that u should get over your bf....those 3 yrs must have been memorable and u will treasure them forever.
but there is not point in being bf and gf if u donot understand each other and fight all the time...it will just stress u out even more. ur partner is supposed 2 make u feel safer and happier, not more sad and depressed cuz of what they say 2 u every day....
i wouldnt take fast steps with this other guy but call him and get 2 know him a bit better....see if u can meet up again and have some good times together.....this will soon help u get over your 1st bf and maybe even get a 2nd one...
hope this helped u hun
shalu xx

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".