Yuvraj and who should be together?

There's been some really great topics and responses posted recently that get to the purpose of this show and what they're showing in the various relationships: Gold-digger Kul and her long-suffering husband, Tanya and Yuv, and Trishna and Deep.

I get it--vivaah is marriage, and the show is reflecting some issues around the ever-sanctified institution of marriage between terribly flawed people and families. But VIVAAH in my mind is also about love, responsibility, tradition and trust. The best of marriages have these features, and any vivaah that is based on wrong premise or lie or lack of love are sometimes very ugly things.

I wanted to get your perspective on a reply someone had posted to another topic that got me thinking. The gist of it was that the show would show Tanya and Yuvraj and Rajdeep and Trishna in their respective vivaahs. Weddings are done, consummated by one of the couples, hence everyone will learn to live and love each other. I found this idea very disturbing--fine, making the best of problems in a marriage, working them out is essential, but what if you love the man that loved you who is sleeping next door? What if the marriages are based on BIG lies? Do human feelings go away very easily?

Many believe Tanya and Yuvraj make a cute couple. Responses cite their mutual respect, caring, closeness. I remain skeptical because it does not show the human condition even dramatized. What Tanya and Yuvraj are is friends. Is the show going to take the cheesy way out and not address the feelings of Trishna and Yuvraj, or that now the vivaah are in effect, it's all done and over with.

I guess you could say that I like to see a couple that loves each other (in the romantic way) stay together. I feel very sorry for Trishna and Yuvraj because they were denied their happiness by a gold-digging mom, a martyr (Yuv), and loyalties. It's just a shame. And I hope the show shows us the complexities--you know, it's just as possible that Yuv and Trishna remain in love and even foster a relationship. I feel they are due the truth coming out, and vindicating their love.

As for Deep, he should just remarry, this time the girl that loves him and/or his mom wants him to marry. As for Tanya, I feel sorry for her for what she's been through, but her decisions (keeping the Kanaiya thing secret, agreeing to this shit) have hurt her sister and Yuvraj the most. What a tangled web we weave, when we seek to deceive. How does she live with herself every time she sees Trishna? And, no offense to anyone out there with a different perspective, I am just incredulous that others think Tanya and Yuv should be together because they're "cute", are "nice", "look good together." HELLO! Two people that should be married were separated by circumstances and greed, and this is so wrong on so many levels, because they like everyone else, they deserved a shot at love and happiness, and were cheated of it. I hope the show does not shy away from how complicated and "immoral" vivaahs can be.

Anyone??? I'd love to hear your thoughts on this--you can even set me straight! 😆

i totally agree with you...

I hope the couch is really comfortable, Yuvraj. Being a martyr is sometimes senseless and does not fulfill the desired end.

haha true but he thinks its the "right thing"

yeah... i mean whats the use of the so called sarifice of love when 4 lives are getting destroyed??

true but tanya doesnt seem to mind.

You're right, Tanya does not mind. That's the disturbing part. I daresay she's hopeful about the "marriage." That's why everytime Yuv looks at Trish or is he thinking of her, she cries.

SHE needs to accept that just because she is married to Yuv does not mean he will now love her as he did Trish. Yuv loves and cares for her as a friend and person, not as his love interest. And you can't fall in love at the drop of a hat.

I have one question: why did she cry at her wedding and wedding night? Was it because she knew the marriages were a sham and felt sorry for what Trish and Yuv were going through OR was it because she thought it Yuv hesitated during the ceremony and later slept on the couch?

that i dont know because she asked raj about sleeping on the couch but he coved it up and said his not about to give the couch up in a joking way...

You have an excellent point.😊 If this was a case in real life I would totally agree with you. But as this is a show and I love yuvraj and Tanya's jodi I would have to disagree! If Yuvraj was with Trishna I wouldn't watch the show. They are a simple goodlooking couple and there is no reason to watch them. I see them everywhere in daily life.😆

About Yuvraj and Tanya's relationship.... Tanya dug her own hole and she was planning to go through with it on her own. She didn't ask Yuvi to save her. He came on his own so don't feel sorry for him at all. I have the highest respect for marriages. It's one thing we have respect for but seems like it's going away day by day. As for love it is world's most beautiful emotion. I am not pessimistic. I think Yuvraj and Tanya are bound to fall in love, unless he started beating her up tomorrow. So to me it doesn't look like they are doomed for eternity! They will fall in love! and it will be stronger than Raj and Trishna's.

I don't feel sorry for trish's state either.😕 At first I felt bad! Poor girl got her heartbroken by her lover and sister. Then what she did was probably the most despicable deed of all. She married Rajdeep and bechara has no clue his best friend is his wife's former flame. That sounds really wrong to me! That makes Tanya look like a saint! Tanya is hiding a secret that is so painful that she tried to kill herself. Trish is hiding a secret that is nothing compared to Tanya's.

And it's only Trish's marriage that's based on lie and deciet! Tanya and Yuvraj's marriage might be based on compromise but it also has a very very strong base of friendship and complete trust!

There are only and only 2 victims in my eyes. One is Tanya! She can't take on the world because the society will scrutinize her to death after kanaiyah comes back! And it's really her decision if she wants to open up to her sister about her rape or not. Yes she is hurting her sister which is sad. But the situation is very bad for her. Rape is not something people openly talk about! By any chance when the poor girl does find some courage her mother and Yuvraj stops her! And I doubt Tanya cries out of jealousy when Yuv looks at Trish. She cries because she knows she is hurting her sister! She feels bad Yuv has to suffer because of her! Feel sorry for her again. It's hard to live with guilt!

But little does she know Yuv would've suffered anyways! since he planned to give trish up for Rajdeep!!

And the other victim is Rajdeep! A true bechara!!! He has done NO WORNG AT ALL! everyone had little mistakes. But he is the only one who did nothing wrong except assume Yuvi and Tanya love each other. If he leaves Trish after finding out I wouldn't feel sorry for her. Just hope Yuvraj won't go to her rescue!