please advice - shd she leave her husband

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Posted: 17 years ago
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this is the story of my friend's sis

she's really disturbed by what is goin on in her sister's life

Her sis used to love a guy in college n he used to love her too they used to look at each other smile at each other but never said a word

my friend's sis then went abroad to do a course n there she met another guy n they fell in love the guy was an indian but settled abroad in that place they got married n its been a few years

hey i now its gettin a lil complicated so lets call my friend's sis anu so anu was happy until she met that guy from her college again n that too in the place she was living in .Her husband's friend is getting married to anu's first love(that guy from her college)

n now anu n that guy have said all that to each other that they didnt in college n yes they are in love

i know this is sounding a lil filmy but that is what is going on

my friend is confused about what to tell her sis

should anu leave her husband?

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Posted: 17 years ago
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OMG. well she was happy with her huisband right?
n her husband luves her.
n tht another gal is gettin married to this guy.
Well i think anu shud think about it.
i mean she cant fall in luv with a person one min n get married to soemone else 2nd day
n then flal in luv with him again {no offence meant}
but that wud be si abd
her husband wud be all heartbroken.
n does she even noe thsi giuy so well tht she will ditch ehr hisband for it?
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Posted: 17 years ago
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anu's already married..n i really think it would be wrong to leave her husband. i mean she did fall in love wit him n got married to him. it was her choice. n she probably jus has an infactuation towards the first guy. i mean if she really did love him..she wouldnt have fallin in love wit her husband in the first place rite? like if her love was true for da first guy..den she wud've never got married.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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ya i too agree with the above 2...wat anu feels right now for that guy may not be love..jus that she liked him in the past..and that too..only appearance wise..coz she never spoke to him...so she wudnt know how he is in person...

i think she shud be with her husband...coz she loved him first..knowing everything bout him...so there's no point in leaving him...for someone whom u dont even know well..
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Posted: 17 years ago
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She will be cheatin on him, first tell her to get her emotions right does she still have feeling for the college guy if yes and she is sure that she still loves him then she better tell her husband befoer things worsen. I know its easier said then done but its right thing to do
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Posted: 17 years ago
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I agree with the others. Anu shouldnt leave her husband. Instead Anu should tell this to her husband about her first love before anything wrose happens.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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i agree with everybody else, she shouldn't leave her husband at all. Since she falled in love with him and is happy with him and he loves her too and is happy with her, the marriage shouldn't be broken.
She should forget about the guy in her college days because just as everybody said, if she loved him, she wouldn't had married her husband.
I think she probably is shocked to know that the guy who she used to hang out with is going to marry her husband's best friend.
I think she should just try to be happy for him marrying her husband's best friend and face the reality. (not trying to offense anybody)
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Posted: 17 years ago
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I agree the guy from her college lost his chance shes with someone else now and they got married anu husband hasnt done anything.
gd luk!!!

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