Tara - Pity or despise?

Watching the preview for tomorrow's episode - I don't know whether to despise Tara or to pity her?

I understand that she was reunited with her son after such a looooonngg time and that she missed out on a lot of his firsts that mothers cherish the most. I also understand that this is the reason Tara is way overprotective of her son and is extremely insecure when others compare her love for her son with Saloni's. For example, when Saloni brought food for the baby and Tara was sleeping - Brijesh told Tara "see this is how a real mother takes care of her baby." I also understand that she has been very insecure due to what Kalika said to her regarding the tale of a birth mother and how that kid was always thought of some other persons son. I get that most people or indirectly are playing off of her insecurities. For the longest time I've understood Tara's obsession and compulsive behavior when it comes to her son.

However, after watching tomorrow's preview, I think that Tara is reacting way too harshly. Did she forget that Saloni lost her own baby (supposedly) trying to save Aditiya? Tara needs to realize that Aditiya will always remain Tara's. She needs to sit down with Saloni and really let her know that she is insecure of loosing Aditiya and that she doesn't want Saloni to use her son to replace Saloni's own kid. She should set aside some time everyday where Saloni can be with Aditiya. Maybe bathe him in the mornings and feed him. Or be with him during lunch time or something a little bit more reasonable.

Sometimes I feel real bad for Tara but currently I think I'm starting to despise her.

I pity her as she is the most insecure person here. Despite having everything and gotten so much love from saloni and sal had time and time saved her and advitiya and loved him like her own son. tara still listen to some one she hardly knows.

Originally posted by: ramas

saloni was ready to give up her baby if Tara did not find advitiya. So she was ready to take sal's baby.

But she can not spare few hours when she can share advitiya with sal. How selfish Tara is.

tara truly deserve jiji and kaveri likes in her life.

You are absolutely correct. I completely forgot that Saloni was going to give her own baby to Tara since they were not able to find Advitiya. I completely agree, Tara is selfish. She may have been the adoptive sister of Jiji, but she's no less than Jiji.