i'm feeling low

i m feeling really low nowadays everyone around me seems to be discouaraging me

whatever i do ppl find fault in that n i dont think i ve been encouraged in a long time

in short ppl have a problem wid everything i do

what shld i do ?

heya dear i have the same problem....im so used to it but it still hurts to know that im being blamed for mainly everything....but one thing that i do that helps me is listen to my favorite song, or think of good memories from the past....think of something that makes you smile, those that love and care for you....

i dont know you but i can say you must be a loving and caring person that is why everyone finds fault in you...all have a tendency to blame others for something they do and they do that mainly for those that love them....

be happy and smile, and think about all of those that love you and those on i-f that are your friends and your friends back home...your a dear person just be happy.....

dear, if you need anything just pm me, im right here.... 😳 😳 😳

Don't ever be reluctant
to show your feelings when
you're happy, give in to it.
When you're not, live with it.

Don't ever feel guilty about the
past... what's done is done.
Learn from any mistakes
you might have made.

Don't ever foget that you can
achieve so many of the things
you can imagine. ...
It's not as hard as it seems.

Don't ever stop loving
don't ever stop believing,
don't ever stop dreaming
your dreams.

my friend said this.....it'll work dear...just be happy 😳

I would definately say that don't lose hope or morale. Do something that brings you joy like some sort of hobby or talk to a friend or listen to songs you like. Maybe even try talking to someone and find out why people do keep on finding faults in you. It's not right, and if people are mistreating you, then they need to know. If they really love you and care about, then they will try to fix it.

But despite anything that happened in live, always keep smiling and keep a positive attitude. There will be points in your life that only you will be your biggest support, so you have to keep a good spirit.

thanx all of you i m feeling a lot better

😊

I understand it feels bad when others keep discouraging you. But it will be far worse if you yourself start feeling that you are worthless. It happens. When everybody criticizes you, then it is possible that somewhere deep within your heart, you will start underestimating yourself. It happened with me once and I know many people with whom it has happened.
Do not let it happen to you. Do the following to solve the problem: -

If somebody criticizes you, then discuss with him. Ask him why he says this. Listen to him and put forth your own points. From discussion, you will come to know how far he is correct. If there is some truth in what he says, then you can correct yourself. If he is wrong, then from discussion, you know that what you did is right and hence you need not worry.

Some people will criticize you and when you want to discuss on this, then they will not pay attention. Do not discuss with such people because otherwise they will think that you give too much of importance to them. In such a case, you talk to yourself. I mean that you think over what was the situation, what you did, what other options you had, what was the best option in the given situation. Did you choose the best option? If yes, then do not worry. If no, then make a note of it in your mind so that next time you choose correct option.

When you want to do something good and somebody discourages you, then again talk to yourself. Ask yourself if you can do it. If you feel yes, then do it. If you feel no, then ask yourself if and how you can learn new skills to do it. Learn those skills and then do. If you feel that learning new skills is not feasible (may be it is too time consuming or costly or some other reason), then accept that you are not able to do it but tell yourself that you are after all a human being and no human being can do everything.

dw worry just b yourself i am sure it will b over soon! try and think positive.

awww I completely understand, I have the same issue in my family. My parents don't find any faults in me but my uncles, aunts and cousins always do.

Originally posted by: Mimi_Rani

Don't ever be reluctant
to show your feelings when
you're happy, give in to it.
When you're not, live with it.

Don't ever feel guilty about the
past... what's done is done.
Learn from any mistakes
you might have made.

Don't ever foget that you can
achieve so many of the things
you can imagine. ...
It's not as hard as it seems.

Don't ever stop loving
don't ever stop believing,
don't ever stop dreaming
your dreams.

my friend said this.....it'll work dear...just be happy 😳