Originally posted by: judyp
I say bravo Ambika - her daughter lost her baby and can't have children - a Woman needs her mother at such a time.
Saloni is her child and she needed her mother. Ambika in my opinion did the right thing.
Samar is a big man - is he so helpless he can't take of his child. I have no sympathy for him. He can't take of a child by himself he needed to run by Ginni. Putting aside Kaveri nastiness how is bringing Ginni to stay at his home going to help his marital situation.
And Samar is the same idiot who did not give his father a fair hearing why does he deserve one now.........
judyp
im sorry dear i dont agree on any point with u .😊
Of course a daughter needs mother when she loses child . Im not denying that at all . But see the situation . A small child , in the care of an inexperienced man , burning with high fever . judy , these r Indian serials and most of the Indian men [ not all ] in India r used to depending totally on the women of the family like wife or mom or grandma to take care of babies . This is a fact . See how badly Kakasa looked after Advitiya . For sometime he looked after him then left him to attend to his stupid cell phone , not thinking of the possibilities .
Im not saying this is right .....im merely saying this is how things r . And to his credit judy , Samar was shown trying his best . But High fever is a frightening thing , and bound to give tension . It leads to convulsions , brain strokes , dehydration anything . Kaveri flatly refused to come , Ambika opted to stay with Saloni , wat was he supposed to do ? Isnt it better to accept that I cannot handle this i need help rather than sit and wonder wat society will say and allow the child to suffer ? what Samar did was the practical thing......wat Ambika did was the impractical and emotional thing .
Also , look at it practically .Saloni lost her baby ....sad . But healthwise now she is moving around , eating , playing with Advitiya , feeding him , she isnt exactly bedridden , right ? Does she needs bedpans and feeding with hand ? She has so many people looking for her .....bhabho and Nahar love her frankly much more than Ambika . u said woman needs mom at such time , but did Saloni ever have that closeness with Ambika in her whole life ?She disliked her coz she was black ....even now somedays back Ambika was literally cursing her ! I think Saloni is pretty much used to being without Ambikas emotional support . In fact she became such a toughie coz Of Ambikas indiffrence ! And btw where was ambika when Kaveri was living in the house and Saloni was in hospital ? She opted to pamper pregnant Kaveri instead of pregnant Saloni . This whole big thing of Ambika being there for saloni is highly over hyped . Poor Nikita is loved only and only by Samar . Whatever samar is , he has been consistent in his love for Nikita . Ambika was busy in one tamasha after other and constantly in bad moods and Kavei was inhuman to her .
And why shud he think of Kaveris feelings or if it will help his marraige in such a crisis ? Is that even the time to think of such things ? When Kaveri flatly refused to come , her importance in the marraige ceases as she bluntly gave a message .....let the child die for all i care , i wont come , my ego is more important ! So now Samar is free to choose any way he can to do the best for his sick child ......and neither shud Kaveri feel righteously angry nor Ambika as both opted not to come for reasons of their own ! And wat Marraige was he gonna work on .....the marraige was a lie from the beginning .....how many lies has Kaveri told in the marraige ? This very Nikita Kaveri brot in the house and dumped her on Samar to do the work , how coolly she walked off with her own child in her belly , uncaring about the adopted Child ? To Samars credit , he loved nikita like his own blood and never diffrentiated between her and the one in kaveris womb .
He may be wrong in Narpats case but that is not the issue here , he is a hell of a father . Neither was Ambika a hell of a mother nor Kaveri .
Anupamaa
