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Posted: 17 years ago
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I think Divya is really modern..she made it clear that even if Kamna is pregnant with Samrat's child, that shouldn't be the excuse to marry him..
In our part of the world, traditionally this has been done...rape victims are forced to marry the rapist..which to me is absurd...I like Diz for standing out with this non-traditional idea...
Amar and the rest of the gang are beyond any words...simply stupid..
Kamna, I don't know whats her deal...she realized marrying Sam would be a worse choice but not telling Amar when she had the chance is sheer stupid...
Did Sin really kidnap her or she fled? Ufff....She is just a trouble maker for AD...
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: Isha

I think Divya is really modern..she made it clear that even if Kamna is pregnant with Samrat's child, that shouldn't be the excuse to marry him..

In our part of the world, traditionally this has been done...rape victims are forced to marry the rapist..which to me is absurd...I like Diz for standing out with this non-traditional idea...
Amar and the rest of the gang are beyond any words...simply stupid..
Kamna, I don't know whats her deal...she realized marrying Sam would be a worse choice but not telling Amar when she had the chance is sheer stupid...
Did Sin really kidnap her or she fled? Ufff....She is just a trouble maker for AD...

Yeah i also like the idea of Divya trying to be modern and going against the idea but why cant she do that for herself? Why cant she think like a modern girl when it comes to her own freaking self and her relationship with Amar? Wahan toh woh traditional wife ba jati hai😡 As for Kamna marrying samrat because she is pregnant with his child is not an excuse but a fact. Amar and the rest of the gang are not stupid for wanting her to marry the father of her child. But samrat is stupid for wanting to marry her so he can use her again. I mean Kamna loved samrat so much so she should think that her love would be strong enough to bring a change into samrat but no...Now i am begining to doubt if she ever loved him at all. I mean she is living in the house stuck in a room all by herself nobody caring about her...she might as well get married to samrat and then be stuck in the room... It was kamna's own desicion to get into bed with samrat and get pregnant with his child and now i think she should suck it up and get married to samrat(no matter what he is like) I am very old fashioned when it comes to issues like this and i dont have sympathy for a girl who did not even think twice about her family before getting pregnant without being married and if that wasnt enough she ran away from the wedding to cause the family more trouble😡 Lol don't i sound mean😆
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Arooj..
Your post cracked me up..No, you are not sounding mean rather sane in this total chaos of dulhann's recent episodes...
Divya is modern for others, not for herself...because Vidya's bhoot got to her...Really God knows what the creatives want us to believe...A modern highly educated lawyer is so timid and behaving like the unpar Vidya and taking in all the crap from Amar! I understand if she is trying to be the ideal wife but there is a limit to everything, specially when it comes to self-respect..
I totally agree that Kamna shouldn't have pre-marital s** with Sam..She should have thought twice before doing such a thing..One should always be prepared to bear the consequences of one's action..I am very traditional in that sense too...
She seemed traditional but gave into Sam's tricks but she knew she is putting her family's and her reputation at risk..she is an adult and made her choice..now just because she is with a child she thought she created for love, she shouldn't be forced to marry an evil person like Sam..who just used her...
If one makes a mistake, that should not be the excuse to get involved in a series of mistakes knowingly...Now if she decides, Sam's no good..we should respect that...
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Posted: 17 years ago
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^lol Isha my post cracked you up?😆 well that is nice to know

yeah i agree that she shouldnt be forced into it by others but what is ticking me off is that the marriage wouldnt not have happened if she said no. Amar asked her so many times and she agreed to it😡 now she should have gone along with it... Aww i hate her so much right now. As for you saying that she shouldnt marry samrat because he is evil...one has to remember that she doesnt know that he stabbed rajeev and she wasnt there when Divya was shot and if everyone is willing to believe that he has changed why cant she. I mean she did claim to love him so she should show faith in him even if he is a Jerk i mean doesnt she learn anything from her Divya didi? I mean Divya's motto is "no matter what your loved one treats you like their rude behavior sir annkhon par"😡😆 lol i shouldn't get worked up over this...it's not good for me😆 mujhey tension se dhoor rehney ka order diya gaya hai. But how could i leave my tension(Dulhann) behind😆

BTW my name is Farha
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Farha, OMG...you are sooooo funny..😆
I know it sounds weird we are talking about Kamna who actually carries no weight in the serial...
Do you think Sin kidnapped her? I totally don't get Kamna...Actually I don't get any one of them except Sinduraaa...she is really steady and there is no inconsistency in her character...sometimes her intelligence amazes me...😆😆
Well said about Divya's motto...Vidya had no self respect and it seems Divya has no either..
Don't worry about tension...I heard laughter is good for your heart...Dulhann has become a comic circus...none of the characters are sticking to their characters..
Poor uneducated innocent well behaved super respectful Amar suddenly started acting like pompous strong headed Sagar..
Divz has Vidya bhoot in her..
Even Chandra is becoming nicer!! 😲
May be soon we will see Sindura will become the most loving and caring person and commit suicide because all the wrong she did and give all the property to Divya...hahaha...wouldn't that be nice...
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Posted: 17 years ago
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aww..you think i am funny? Oh thank god😆

lol i cant believe we are discussing Kamna either...this is what it has come to there is a hot jodi in the serial and we are discussing the issue of a stupid gadhi 😆And yeah i do believe that sindura has a hand in the whole Kamna vanishing thing and i love your idea of sindura committing suicide...hai kya sachio woh din aye ga or are just givign me false hopes
oh and as for laughter to get rid of my tension seriously can you imagine how much i would have to laugh to get the Dulhann tension out of my head people will start thinking mein pagal ho gayi hoon😕😆
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Posted: 17 years ago
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My family and my colleagues already think I am rather "PAGAL"...so join the club..
Sindura mata ji etni ahsani se suicide nehi karne wali...
I think she will commit suicide if Aniket shows up and the family decided they should do marriage rituals again and then have a sihaag raat...😆😆
So you see, I really have gone nuts...I like it like this though...hehehe...
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Posted: 17 years ago
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I think that Kamna has no capacity to make a decision for herself....and she always allows herself to be coaxed into making bad choices and then ends up taking drastic measures to recover from them...remember how she was talked by Samrat into blaming Amar and then Kamna told Amar the truth and he brought her in time to break Divya-Samrat's wedding.??

Similarly she gets herself in many such difficult situations because she does not listen to her heart and mind but listens to what other people tell her, agrees to it and then uses her brain....Kamna should understand that she needs to take decisions herself and then face the consequences...but not be coaxed into making choices when her heart is not fully agreeing to an option.....

I am very traditional in the opinion of having s*x before marriage too but I will never be peer pressured into making a choice that I would not want to follow thru...After all what you sow is what you reap....and everything Kamna is suffering is a result of that....If she did not want to marry Samrat she should have never said yes....but she listened to other people..and now created a problem for A-D....

Divz was right I feel in telling Kamna to take her own decision...and I feel everyone in the family should have supported Divz and told Kamna to do whatever she felt was right and they would support her and the baby no matter what decision she took....as when they give a person the right to make their own choice the only person who can be blamed for that choice is the person himself......that is free will and independence....

But by forcing Kamna to make choices which they think are right not only impairs Kamna's ability to make choices but also ends up giving Kamna a reason to blame them that they are responsible for the way her life has turned out...

Anyway..I love to write as you might have guessed and might have gone off the topic but I do feel sad for Kamna....poor girl too many people are telling her what to do....so she is confused!!

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