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Posted: 5 days ago
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I am talking about her separation/ divorce with Gaurav secret

I like Akanksha Chamola as a friend for Harshad and Shivangi but as a wife she is disappointing.

Why announce her divorce with Gaurav on national tv for a reality show? She could have exposed another secret instead. If I were in her shoes I wouldn’t have mentioned divorce as one of my three lockupp secrets in the first place.

I am not a Gaurav fan but Chamola should have maintained the dignity of their relationship.

She should have done it more respectfully and she should have been more considerate about Gaurav and his reputation. Both of them should have revealed it together, otherwise now Gaurav looks like a liar on bigg boss.

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Posted: 5 days ago
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Hey priya. I do understand that this was sensitive thing. But they were already seperated from almost a year. I personally feel it was very evident that they will get divorced as gk was saying mujhe game ke saath tum bhi chahiye in bb. He even spoke ill against chamola that he will sacrifice his child as his wife doesn't want to give him child. Which made his fans to shame gk's wife.

She can not take any projects as people just bash her for being gks wife and being non sanskari on screen. I do not support her project choices but now since she is going to get divorced she has to find means to pay her bills. If she takes alimoney ppl will say she was a gold digger.

Gk crossed every line by shaming her for not giving him baby. So she need not prove her to be a good ex wife by showing courtesy on him as she is worried about her future.

She was even discussing with ram in lockupp regarding helping her in settling down post divorce so its very evident that he was never made her feel secure. If they were so good friend she would have asked gk to help her in settling down.

Chamola sacrificed her career post marriage as we hardly see her in shows. But gk made it all about chamola doesn't want to give him baby. He can literally get baby by adopting or any other wag and takr care of the baby on his own but blaming woman just becuse she doesn't have maternity instinct doesn't stand right to me.

I feel netflix can fund her post divorce expenses which is hard for a woman who gave up her career post marriage. And the divorce truth is something which is a fact. It will not change if she would have not revealed it. If that can fund her post divorce expenses until she settles down why not.

Also divorce truth can also create hype for her as gk fans literally felt happy that she left their gk. So it sort of created initial hyoe for her as she very well know she can not win against stars like hc,sj and dd.

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Posted: 5 days ago
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Originally posted by: firewings_diya

Hey priya. I do understand that this was sensitive thing. But they were already seperated from almost a year. I personally feel it was very evident that they will get divorced as gk was saying mujhe game ke saath tum bhi chahiye in bb. He even spoke ill against chamola that he will sacrifice his child as his wife doesn't want to give him child. Which made his fans to shame gk's wife.

She can not take any projects as people just bash her for being gks wife and being non sanskari on screen. I do not support her project choices but now since she is going to get divorced she has to find means to pay her bills. If she takes alimoney ppl will say she was a gold digger.

Gk crossed every line by shaming her for not giving him baby. So she need not prove her to be a good ex wife by showing courtesy on him as she is worried about her future.

She was even discussing with ram in lockupp regarding helping her in settling down post divorce so its very evident that he was never made her feel secure. If they were so good friend she would have asked gk to help her in settling down.

Chamola sacrificed her career post marriage as we hardly see her in shows. But gk made it all about chamola doesn't want to give him baby. He can literally get baby by adopting or any other wag and takr care of the baby on his own but blaming woman just becuse she doesn't have maternity instinct doesn't stand right to me.

I feel netflix can fund her post divorce expenses which is hard for a woman who gave up her career post marriage. And the divorce truth is something which is a fact. It will not change if she would have not revealed it. If that can fund her post divorce expenses until she settles down why not.

Also divorce truth can also create hype for her as gk fans literally felt happy that she left their gk. So it sort of created initial hyoe for her as she very well know she can not win against stars like hc,sj and dd.

Both of them shouldn’t have spoken ill about each other on reality shows, but two wrongs don’t make a right.

Gaurav must have supported her all these years. He accepted her sexuality with open arms which is frowned upon in India compared to the US or the UK where it is accepted more.

She is getting money from lockupp even if she didnt expose this secret, her sexuality secret was explosive enough to keep her on the show.

Chamola did Dil Dhokha Aur Desire which was a bold show.

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Posted: 4 days ago
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Originally posted by: priya185

Both of them shouldn’t have spoken ill about each other on reality shows, but two wrongs don’t make a right.

Gaurav must have supported her all these years. He accepted her sexuality with open arms which is frowned upon in India compared to the US or the UK where it is accepted more.

She is getting money from lockupp even if she didnt expose this secret, her sexuality secret was explosive enough to keep her on the show.

Chamola did Dil Dhokha Aur Desire which was a bold show.

yes she did but she was shamed for taking such projects too by online trolls. I no way support her projects but she has to earn to fund her post divorce journey. I don't think ekta will take her if her truths can not create buzz. All itv celebrities have shocking truth only influencers has silly truth. Ekta will not compromise in that dept as influencers are here to create buzz jo woh apne chapri truth se bhi troll hoke laa denge. But celebrities truth can not be silly as they are paid more.

So i don't think their divorcre was a secret. It must have been leaked among some ppl from industry so she can not hide it and give silly secrets.

Edited by firewings_diya - 4 days ago
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Posted: 2 days ago
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Originally posted by: firewings_diya

Hey priya. I do understand that this was sensitive thing. But they were already seperated from almost a year. I personally feel it was very evident that they will get divorced as gk was saying mujhe game ke saath tum bhi chahiye in bb. He even spoke ill against chamola that he will sacrifice his child as his wife doesn't want to give him child. Which made his fans to shame gk's wife.

She can not take any projects as people just bash her for being gks wife and being non sanskari on screen. I do not support her project choices but now since she is going to get divorced she has to find means to pay her bills. If she takes alimoney ppl will say she was a gold digger.

Gk crossed every line by shaming her for not giving him baby. So she need not prove her to be a good ex wife by showing courtesy on him as she is worried about her future.

She was even discussing with ram in lockupp regarding helping her in settling down post divorce so its very evident that he was never made her feel secure. If they were so good friend she would have asked gk to help her in settling down.

Chamola sacrificed her career post marriage as we hardly see her in shows. But gk made it all about chamola doesn't want to give him baby. He can literally get baby by adopting or any other wag and takr care of the baby on his own but blaming woman just becuse she doesn't have maternity instinct doesn't stand right to me.

I feel netflix can fund her post divorce expenses which is hard for a woman who gave up her career post marriage. And the divorce truth is something which is a fact. It will not change if she would have not revealed it. If that can fund her post divorce expenses until she settles down why not.

Also divorce truth can also create hype for her as gk fans literally felt happy that she left their gk. So it sort of created initial hyoe for her as she very well know she can not win against stars like hc,sj and dd.

Bold: According to chamola's statements in lockup, she doesn't even wants to adopt any child

And who said akanksha sacrificed her career?? She was getting side roles and other works. As per her words in previous interview she lived like a queen. Now don't know how come that suddenly changed. The way she contradicts herself everyday it's difficult to trust her. Atleast gaurav never contradicted himself just maybe hide the seperation part?? Honestly I doubt even that is true. Coz even their neighbours saw them hanging out together in that seperation period. Only the divorce timeline matches. Just before KKK she discussed because before from that time only they are actually seperated. So yes divorce part is true. But I highly doubt the seperation part. And even if it's true then most probably it was treated as a normal husband wife problem which happens in marriages. But it probably never got solved. But I don't understand akanksha. At one point she says she doesn't want Gk to come. And then she says he should come, she cares for his reputation. At one point he is a stranger and then suddenly a husband

Also it was akanksha who revealed that she doesn't wants a child but gaurav wants a child and how gaurav supports her and protects her. I am not saying gaurav is mahaan for this. But gaurav didn't throw her under the bus by revealing an information that no one knows without her consent. But akanksha revealed their divorce news without his consent. Plus the way she contradicts herself!! Yes I think in that interview round, gaurav shouldn't have got emotional. But it was just one moment. If he had a force her, he could have done that in more different ways. Instead he took stands for after coming out of bb and even bashed trollers. I am not saying he is perfect but he is definitely not the one who wronged akanksha imo

One thing is clear. They are still not divorced. Bas divorce ki bate shuru hui hai coz GK was pissed with akanksha for revealing the divorce

Edited by RockingSunny - 2 days ago
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Posted: 2 days ago
#6

Originally posted by: RockingSunny

Bold: According to chamola's statements in lockup, she doesn't even wants to adopt any child

And who said akanksha sacrificed her career?? She was getting side roles and other works. As per her words in previous interview she lived like a queen. Now don't know how come that suddenly changed. The way she contradicts herself everyday it's difficult to trust her. Atleast gaurav never contradicted himself just maybe hide the seperation part?? Honestly I doubt even that is true. Coz even their neighbours saw them hanging out together in that seperation period. Only the divorce timeline matches. Just before KKK she discussed because before from that time only they are actually seperated. So yes divorce part is true. But I highly doubt the seperation part. And even if it's true then most probably it was treated as a normal husband wife problem which happens in marriages. But it probably never got solved. But I don't understand akanksha. At one point she says she doesn't want Gk to come. And then she says he should come, she cares for his reputation. At one point he is a stranger and then suddenly a husband

Also it was akanksha who revealed that she doesn't wants a child but gaurav wants a child and how gaurav supports her and protects her. I am not saying gaurav is mahaan for this. But gaurav didn't throw her under the bus by revealing an information that no one knows without her consent. But akanksha revealed their divorce news without his consent. Plus the way she contradicts herself!! Yes I think in that interview round, gaurav shouldn't have got emotional. But it was just one moment. If he had a force her, he could have done that in more different ways. Instead he took stands for after coming out of bb and even bashed trollers. I am not saying he is perfect but he is definitely not the one who wronged akanksha imo

One thing is clear. They are still not divorced. Bas divorce ki bate shuru hui hai coz GK was pissed with akanksha for revealing the divorce

I am not his or her follower maine unka pura personal life follow nahi kiya i only know chamola more than gaurav only because of lockupp.

She was playing lead roles before. Post marriage she just became a sidey. Money that lead role gets is more than what sideys can make.upaf se woman actors get very less pay compared male actors.

I don't know her personally she is scared of her parents and society. If her parents are okay with her projects in those ott show which sells cheap content there must be a reason why she is doing that.

Kid adoption is okay but its always woman who has to take care of the child. If gk wants a kid so badly he can marry someone else and adopt it or he can adopt it by telling her he will take every responsibility from the kid. I don't think chamola will say no to it.

Even i doubt if they are going to get divorced but then i think all these things hint towards that it could be true.

1. She was discussing with ram to help her settle post divorce.

2. She started working seriously recently like taking shows like lock up and those ott projects which can defame him and her

3. Whenever someone calls gk good she gets angry. Like she is usually a sweet and nice woman but aaj hi dekhlo shreya said gauravji is saved. She got furious and was questioning her tumhr patha hai woh kaisa hai and all.

I personally see that she is not a bad woman even i am not sure about gk but gk making those comments about her not giving birth made it look like he was victimizing himself and shaming her so that in future divorce happens she will be blamed.

So far i have noticed a patterm in gk and chamola

1. Bb - baccha nahi dethi

2. Master chef - i am color blind

3. Lock upp i am getting divorced


I don't know why in every show they victimize themselves with a sad story 😄

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Posted: 2 days ago
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Originally posted by: firewings_diya

I am not his or her follower maine unka pura personal life follow nahi kiya i only know chamola more than gaurav only because of lockupp.

She was playing lead roles before. Post marriage she just became a sidey. Money that lead role gets is more than what sideys can make.upaf se woman actors get very less pay compared male actors.

I don't know her personally she is scared of her parents and society. If her parents are okay with her projects in those ott show which sells cheap content there must be a reason why she is doing that.

Kid adoption is okay but its always woman who has to take care of the child. If gk wants a kid so badly he can marry someone else and adopt it or he can adopt it by telling her he will take every responsibility from the kid. I don't think chamola will say no to it.

Even i doubt if they are going to get divorced but then i think all these things hint towards that it could be true.

1. She was discussing with ram to help her settle post divorce.

2. She started working seriously recently like taking shows like lock up and those ott projects which can defame him and her

3. Whenever someone calls gk good she gets angry. Like she is usually a sweet and nice woman but aaj hi dekhlo shreya said gauravji is saved. She got furious and was questioning her tumhr patha hai woh kaisa hai and all.

I personally see that she is not a bad woman even i am not sure about gk but gk making those comments about her not giving birth made it look like he was victimizing himself and shaming her so that in future divorce happens she will be blamed.

So far i have noticed a patterm in gk and chamola

1. Bb - baccha nahi dethi

2. Master chef - i am color blind

3. Lock upp i am getting divorced


I don't know why in every show they victimize themselves with a sad story 😄

The only difference is color blind story is true. And there was no victimization there. And in bb also imo I don't think GK shamed her. Honestly if it would have been just divorce, i won't have any problem with her. But she revealed divorce without his consent which is so wrong. She degrades him and then flips. She calls him ex husband and stranger and then asks why didn't he come. GK only had one emotional moment during the media round but other than that he has always praised her and said positive stuffs. Chamola also before lockup always talked positive about him. Rather she talked more positive about GK than even GK. Hence I don't think the seperation part is true. Divorce can be true but legal work didn't start clearly
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Posted: a day ago
#8

Originally posted by: RockingSunny

The only difference is color blind story is true. And there was no victimization there. And in bb also imo I don't think GK shamed her. Honestly if it would have been just divorce, i won't have any problem with her. But she revealed divorce without his consent which is so wrong. She degrades him and then flips. She calls him ex husband and stranger and then asks why didn't he come. GK only had one emotional moment during the media round but other than that he has always praised her and said positive stuffs. Chamola also before lockup always talked positive about him. Rather she talked more positive about GK than even GK. Hence I don't think the seperation part is true. Divorce can be true but legal work didn't start clearly

No she did not actually she was throwing shades at him i remember seeing lots of videos where she was throwing shades at him. this and there was one more video where she said he doesn't give money to her. he has lots of money but he doesn't give.

https://x.com/chatur2568/status/2016053235543638500

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Posted: a day ago
#9

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

No she did not actually she was throwing shades at him i remember seeing lots of videos where she was throwing shades at him. this and there was one more video where she said he doesn't give money to her. he has lots of money but he doesn't give.

https://x.com/chatur2568/status/2016053235543638500

Money part is completely bogus from chamola's side. I have seen her in LockUPP and in bb as well. She doesn't seem like a woman who will sacrifice everything for her husband. If she would have sacrificed then she would have agreed to adopt a child. And regarding these videos, that time when I saw the full video, I thought it was a joke. Because akanksha had a habit of telling such jokes even before. And just after that ott web series controversy, she again praised him in an interview. All I am trying to say is based on chamola's statements we can't call GK the worst husband or red flag. Yes he is not perfect. But definitely not a red flag who used chamola IMO. And the money part is bogus. Chamola kept doing work but I know maybe I shouldn't say this but chamola is not a very good actress. And I am not shaming her. It happens. So that's also a reason I believe she never had a good career. But there's a way to make your own career. The things she is doing in lockup, she has made herself a joke. Bb was never about GK's marriage but lockup has become about chamola's marriage and her contradictions. Sometimes he is a stranger and sometimes he is a husband
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Posted: a day ago
#10

Originally posted by: RockingSunny

Money part is completely bogus from chamola's side. I have seen her in LockUPP and in bb as well. She doesn't seem like a woman who will sacrifice everything for her husband. If she would have sacrificed then she would have agreed to adopt a child. And regarding these videos, that time when I saw the full video, I thought it was a joke. Because akanksha had a habit of telling such jokes even before. And just after that ott web series controversy, she again praised him in an interview. All I am trying to say is based on chamola's statements we can't call GK the worst husband or red flag. Yes he is not perfect. But definitely not a red flag who used chamola IMO. And the money part is bogus. Chamola kept doing work but I know maybe I shouldn't say this but chamola is not a very good actress. And I am not shaming her. It happens. So that's also a reason I believe she never had a good career. But there's a way to make your own career. The things she is doing in lockup, she has made herself a joke. Bb was never about GK's marriage but lockup has become about chamola's marriage and her contradictions. Sometimes he is a stranger and sometimes he is a husband

I don't want to blame a woman for divorce either as only people who are in the marriage they know the reality.

I did liked gk in anupama but that doesn't mean i will blame chamola for everything. I have seen how gk fans taunt her and mock her. GK's one statement literally made everyone to taunt her for not giving kid. Now when even divorce thing was announced ppl did not question gk rather some ppl like shreya felt happy gk got rid of chamola. Some ppl bashed her for not giving birth and some ppl called her gold digger and all.

That's how society treats woman vs man. I did not liked chamola before lock upp. But during lock upp she looked like happy go lucky woman. Also withnessed how gk fans shame her day and night. Post she entered she lock up never seen gk asking his fans to stop.

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