Seher Hone ko Hai: Episode Discussion thread 1 - Page 105

Originally posted by: jhalak7

Somehow I think both Seher and Mahid are over reacting. More like adults are getting divorce after a long marital life.

According to the story the timeline is one/ couple of months. Nothing serious happened. For Mahid it was a duty towards Dadajaan. He even told Seher to remember that. Seher also followed that. Love Kahan se hua? Why they sp Seher is behaving this way? So she is 16. Kuchh bhi toh nehi hua. Off course she should be furious towards Mahid as it was he who made her stay, then why this drama if Nazima. Kaun sa Payar tha? She should feel insulted and cheated.

But makers are just copying all the hatred things from other serials ..where they have long relationship, aged mature couple.

Some are bashing Kawsar. If your 16 year old daughter react like that after a short period of marriage where the hubby didn't even touch her .. what can a mother do? She will blame everything on Mahid. May be he did sth. Mahid and Kawsar are normal here. It is Seher who is reacting too much. Plus confusing both Kawsar and Mahid.

Bechara Nazima. Agreed to another crap.

This is love. And it can happen in a moment. Nothing strange in it.. and it isn't over reaction. Coz 1st love is always like this. Only when we grow older we become more logical and cold.

That month of marriage had many things happened which made Mahid and Seher understand eachother.

Originally posted by: awida

This is love. And it can happen in a moment. Nothing strange in it.. and it isn't over reaction. Coz 1st love is always like this. Only when we grow older we become more logical and cold.

That month of marriage had many things happened which made Mahid and Seher understand eachother.

Like Seher had a completely diff perspective on guys before getting married to Mahid, she realized Mahid is very different from her father and gave her the respect and protection her father never did. Moreover she is very young so she easily fell for him.

And then Mahid even before their marriage, he was very attracted to Seher. He avoids female gaze, but after his marriage was fixed with Seher, he accepted that Seher is going to be his wife. I think he started to fall for her the moment she consoled him during the picnic when he told her about his mom’s death.

Especially during their mehendi night, you can see how lost he was in her. But then because she escaped on their wedding he started having trust issues. He had this fear she will leave him like his mom did. However when he realized her situation he became supportive towards her dreams

Originally posted by: awida

It is a clear hate on a show based on Muslims. They'll keep criticism on Islamic roles, which shows their intolerance. Don't be sad. There are millions of fans of this show, that's why Colors listened to them and changed the time slot to a prime time

I am seeing a lot of comments about intolerance, Muslim based show etc. Just wanted to say that I am a Hindu and you all know how much I love the show. A work of art has nothing to do with religion. I am not watching or not watching it because it depicts a certain community or religion. This has NEVER been a criterion for me!.And I am sure there are aplenty like me.

Originally posted by: awida

This is love. And it can happen in a moment. Nothing strange in it.. and it isn't over reaction. Coz 1st love is always like this. Only when we grow older we become more logical and cold.

That month of marriage had many things happened which made Mahid and Seher understand eachother.

Look at Mahid. He is doing all ultapulta things. Bechara.He was suppose to build his ambition...mufti. But now has to marry Nazima and do all the abnormal things with her or without her.v

Originally posted by: jhalak7

This the why Kawsar was so worried. At the age of 16 she shouldn't, because ambition and love are like enemies. Ambition can't grow where love is . Now either kill ambition or love.

Look at Mahid. He is doing all ultapulta things. Bechara.He was suppose to build his ambition...mufti. But now has to marry Nazima and do all the abnormal things with her or without her.v

I thought Mahid was forced to become Mufti, by his grandfather. I wonder what was his real ambition! As a woman myself I know for us love and ambition can't go hand by hand unless you have a supporting husband

Nazima will give Mahid nightmares only. Now she'll do everything to make him marry her. Engagement is a promise of marriage. And mufti will pressurize Mahid to fulfill his duties . The only hope to get out of this trouble, is Seher. She is smart, she'll find a way

Originally posted by: Padmajaan

I am seeing a lot of comments about intolerance, Muslim based show etc. Just wanted to say that I am a Hindu and you all know how much I love the show. A work of art has nothing to do with religion. I am not watching or not watching it because it depicts a certain community or religion. This has NEVER been a criterion for me!.And I am sure there are aplenty like me.

I am sorry if I hurt you. I wasn't talking about you and those millions of fans . I was talking about those Ridditters who keep bashing the show, coz it doesn't go by what they learned in their religion, like: cousin marriage, and certain age of marriage.

I am a Muslim and I've been watching Indian movies and dramas since the 1990s. I just enjoy them .

Originally posted by: awida

I am sorry if I hurt you. I wasn't talking about you and those millions of fans . I was talking about those Ridditters who keep bashing the show, coz it doesn't go by what they learned in their religion, like: cousin marriage, and certain age of marriage.

I am a Muslim and I've been watching Indian movies and dramas since the 1990s. I just enjoy them .

No dear I didn4t take it personally. I am also mad at those who think along these lines.

And by the way these people should be educated on certain hindu realities as well. In South India, cousin marriages were very much the custom several decades ago and there still are quite a few I am sure. Also marrying the uncle. These days may be there aren't so many but this was quite customary.

And in India child marriages are still rampant in many regions and among Hindus!!

So what exactly are they dissing????

Originally posted by: awida

I thought Mahid was forced to become Mufti, by his grandfather. I wonder what was his real ambition! As a woman myself I know for us love and ambition can't go hand by hand unless you have a supporting husband

Nazima will give Mahid nightmares only. Now she'll do everything to make him marry her. Engagement is a promise of marriage. And mufti will pressurize Mahid to fulfill his duties . The only hope to get out of this trouble, is Seher. She is smart, she'll find a way

@ red. Lol. So to you unmarried woman can't fulfill ambition? Or without husband woman can't fulfill their dream? 😱

Originally posted by: jhalak7

This the why Kawsar was so worried. At the age of 16 she shouldn't, because ambition and love are like enemies. Ambition can't grow where love is . Now either kill ambition or love.

Look at Mahid. He is doing all ultapulta things. Bechara.He was suppose to build his ambition...mufti. But now has to marry Nazima and do all the abnormal things with her or without her.v

I would have loved to see what if MaHer met when Seher is already a doctor and Mahid is already a Mufti, Mufti and doctor’s love story would be interesting

Originally posted by: jhalak7

Mahid's ambition is to become a great Mufti, just as his dadajaan wants.

@ red. Lol. So to you unmarried woman can't fulfill ambition? Or without husband woman can't fulfill their dream? 😱

So when you talked about love and ambition you meaned Mahid.

When I was unmarried I fulfilled my ambition. But after marriage and having children, I couldn't manage. I know many women can. But for me loving my children and taking care of them comes first.