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Posted: 19 days ago

Originally posted by: awida

Thank you for the review.

Your reviews always highlight the emotional trauma we as fans live in while watching our beloved Maher going through lots of pain.

I missed the 1st scene. I hope Mahid divorced her just once. Did he?

I like the compatibility of this couple too. And you are right Seher and Mahid are perfect for each other. I wish Mahid listened to his grandfather. He could've at least given Seher a room in the same house to live in until she becomes 18. They didn't consumate their marriage after all. So what's wrong if he kept her under his wings.. knowing how bad her father is.

I am disappointed because Mahid left Seher this way. She is his responsibility.

That forced smile was sad I felt my heart aching for Seher. smiley28

Awww. Thank you. You are very kind.

I'm an emotional person so I read too much into everything. Every 10 years or so I get obsessed with a show where I'm on forums and fanfics etc. It's been over 10 years and this is my new obsession. lol

I do always look for the little things because they always called back later in the show.

He did only say talaq once but then told Dada Huzur he will wants to fully divorce Seher. I am hoping this means legally and not 3 talaqs. I don't want the complication of adding person she has to marry.

I get what you are saying but if the promo from today's show is any indication, Mahid wouldn't have done that. To him marrying an underage girl is a crime no matter the circumstances. I agree as her husband she is his responsibility but I think he truly felt for the first time there was someone that was just his and he belonged to someone. After his parents he has been alone, I mean he has family but there was no one that was his own. So when this age thing came out it has destroyed him fully.

My heart broke for Seher when she smiled, she is broken inside just like him. They are so hurt by the betrayals of the other which they didn't even commit.

I'm dreading watching today's episode but I'll let you know how much I cry watching it.

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Posted: 18 days ago
I feel so bad about the low TRPs our show is getting. I just don't get it. How can people not fall for such an aesthetically shot serial? Why are people's tastes so bad???? What drew me to the show was the sheer poetry I was watching and hearing on the screen, the leads mesmerizing, each shot so aesthetically composed. It really pisses me off when sheer drivel attracts the highest TRPs!!!! Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!! Even today's episode is sheer poetry even though it has PAIN written all over it.
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Posted: 18 days ago

Originally posted by: Padmajaan

I feel so bad about the low TRPs our show is getting. I just don't get it. How can people not fall for such an aesthetically shot serial? Why are people's tastes so bad???? What drew me to the show was the sheer poetry I was watching and hearing on the screen, the leads mesmerizing, each shot so aesthetically composed. It really pisses me off when sheer drivel attracts the highest TRPs!!!! Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!! Even today's episode is sheer poetry even though it has PAIN written all over it.

TRPs mean nothing except that TRP aunties are dominating. So the Tulsis and Anupamas and even the Arayavardans will win , and the young generation won't get much attention.

If you check online buzz and most popular celebrities you'll find out that SHKH and Parth Samthan are on top.

Parth is #4 , and SHKH is # 2

https://www.instagram.com/p/DWjQluuk3q-/

Edited by awida - 18 days ago
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Posted: 18 days ago

Originally posted by: rdave1

Awww. Thank you. You are very kind.

I'm an emotional person so I read too much into everything. Every 10 years or so I get obsessed with a show where I'm on forums and fanfics etc. It's been over 10 years and this is my new obsession. lol

I do always look for the little things because they always called back later in the show.

He did only say talaq once but then told Dada Huzur he will wants to fully divorce Seher. I am hoping this means legally and not 3 talaqs. I don't want the complication of adding person she has to marry.

I get what you are saying but if the promo from today's show is any indication, Mahid wouldn't have done that. To him marrying an underage girl is a crime no matter the circumstances. I agree as her husband she is his responsibility but I think he truly felt for the first time there was someone that was just his and he belonged to someone. After his parents he has been alone, I mean he has family but there was no one that was his own. So when this age thing came out it has destroyed him fully.

My heart broke for Seher when she smiled, she is broken inside just like him. They are so hurt by the betrayals of the other which they didn't even commit.

I'm dreading watching today's episode but I'll let you know how much I cry watching it.

I understand your obsession. I am curios about the show you watched 10 yes ago.🤔

When it started I didn't like how they showed lots of violence and some mistakes about Islam. But soon I became Maher's fan.

Mahid as a religious guy should've known that punishing ownself is forbidden.

I know he is not normal, he has some psychological issues which are not treated well yet. Yet , cutting off Seher like that was too bad.

From another pov I am glad Seher got out of that toxic inviroment. When she pointed out all those conspires against her and none of the family ( not even Mahid or Niazi) stood for her.. it made me feel good that she left.

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Posted: 18 days ago
Friends, if you don’t want to increase your Blood pressure then I would suggest to skip Friday’s episode. Only three scenes I liked: 1. Maher’s connection: Aww! Even though he was unconscious he didn’t let go of Seher 🤗 2. Mahid confronting Nazima and clearly mentioning that ooska kuch nhi hone wala” lol. He also understood that she did something and so Seher was furious (1min scene but the best part of today’s episode)❤️ 3. Farid and Amal punishing Pervez but who leaves the door open 🙄 Rest of the episode increased my blood pressure phuphi and Kausher are intolerable.Overall it was a filler episode, hopefully Monday should be a dhamakedar episode as he is going to roast phuphi and Nazima together 🤞🏻
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Posted: 18 days ago

April 2nd Episode

Deep Breaths. Big deep breaths.

I’m going to start with others before I talk about MaHer.

This will be all CAPS lock because yes, I’m yelling. I WANT ALL OF THE SUPPORTING CHARACTERS TO GO AWAY FROM THE SCREEN FOR A LITTLE WHILE. Tahir and Asad can stay; the rest need to go else I’ll break my screen.

What a horrible group of people. Parvez is a scum yet somehow, I was shocked at how much lower he could fall, worrying about 21lakh mahr. Wasim is just as vile. How can we forget the two award winning mothers. Phufi who is constantly mera bacha mera bacha. Yet it did not register to her that within hours of Seher leaving he was in the hospital, unconscious. Even with his past anger etc. this has never happened. On the other hand, we have Kausar; I swear on all things holy I somehow loath her more each episode. Her child is in pain and all she can yap about is her school. There is a time and place for everything. And I swear I saw a small smile on her face when Seher asked her to wipe the Mahid book from her life. Your kid is getting treated and instead of worrying about that she is worried about school. Also Seher left for few hours before and this was her condition yet remember when she told you, he doesn't even let a thorn touch my feet? UGH. Maybe focus on her emotional well-being, so she is well enough to take her exam. UGH. I just hate them all.

Nazima needs to jump off something and again I swear on all things holy if they even hint at Mahid/Nazima track; I will start a campaign to shut that down so fast.

Now let’s talk about our babies. It took me 45 minutes to watch this episode because I couldn’t watch the beginning. There were floods of tears, covering my eyes and clenching my fist in pain and anger.

Everyone keeps saying Seher is free from her cage but I’m sure she never felt caged with Mahid. Yes, there were issues with his family members but never him. I have this before that if you husband in your corner then you will be fine in a home where all of you in-laws don’t like you. This is true in real life as well because you know he will stand up for you and care for you.

Even in pain they are so synced, remembering the same moments. The aesthetics of those two parrels scenes were gorgeous. In Seher memories, Mahid is the color and in his she is color of life. They paid for their love with blood. They are in pain together and they collapsed together.

This show has some great parrels and you all know I love some good parrels. I could have done without this one, etched and covered in their blood. All of their moments are now tainted. These horrible people took something pure and simple and turned it into a weapon and a crime. All of their emotions have been weaponized; Seher’s has turned into nafrat (hate) and Mahid’s into nasoor (open wound).

I have horrible streak of guessing on a show or a movie and being spot on. I had said the last few days he was going to do something crazy. I was not expecting this kind of self-punishment. He is so disgusted with himself for what he perceives as a crime. He is against underage marriage, but he was unaware; it was out of his control. Yet this man holds himself to such a high standard that he became his own judge, jury and executioner.

Mahid’s conversation with Tahir was heartbreaking. This man holds the world’s pain in his heart. He is so firm about his principles that he will destroy even himself to uphold them. I really really need Tahir to stick around more regularly. May be take Mahid to his home because I don’t want him in Niyazi Manzil. Everything is going to remind him of Seher and he will continue to torture himself.

On a side note, a little note for Mahid - Honey, she is 16 not 11 or 12. 16 year old girls understand things. It not like you were married to a child, she is almost an adult. (I'm not condoning child marriages) Just making a point that she is almost an adult not a preteen who doesn't understand good touch vs. bad touch.

The hospital room scene was hard to watch. Seher felt off as she soon as Mahid was wheeled into the room. Her blood pressure rose.

Both them fell so hard and fast in love that unfortunately they didn’t see the crash coming. They are in each other’s soul. First word in the morning out of Mahid’s mouth is Seher, unconscious it’s still Seher.

The precap is somehow just as sad. I am hoping Tahir will come in and tell Seher how Mahid ended up there, but I have a feeling it will be Phufi or Nazima. UGH.

I wish this Nazima misunderstanding gets cleared up so they both get some peace. In the future, I hope Seher learns the real reasons for the scars on Mahid’s back; and he learns about hers. I know these shows at some point gloss over these past moments, but I think it provides a core understanding and it will bond them further.

In conclusion, without saying there were a lot of tears today. I hope we move past this a bit quicker because I can’t watch them torture themselves. I’ll take angst and yearning but torture is hard to watch.

Edited by rdave1 - 18 days ago
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Posted: 18 days ago

Originally posted by: awida

I understand your obsession. I am curios about the show you watched 10 yes ago.🤔

When it started I didn't like how they showed lots of violence and some mistakes about Islam. But soon I became Maher's fan.

Mahid as a religious guy should've known that punishing ownself is forbidden.

I know he is not normal, he has some psychological issues which are not treated well yet. Yet , cutting off Seher like that was too bad.

From another pov I am glad Seher got out of that toxic inviroment. When she pointed out all those conspires against her and none of the family ( not even Mahid or Niazi) stood for her.. it made me feel good that she left.

I don't watch a lot Indian serials but once in a while they will suck me in. 10 or may be 13 years ago it was Madhubala Ek Ishq Ek Junoon. My friend and I really got into it. Then they started introducing dumb storylines, the creators essentially called fans stupid and he doesn't listen to them. The male lead left. So single handedly my friend and I started rallying the troops and started a trending twitter campaign (yes I'm that old lol). We were writing fanfics, edits the whole nine yards for this show and all of is on IF here. After that this is the other Indian serial that has pulled me back in.

Honestly speaking I enjoy these love stories, love and hate, push and pull; the standard tropes. I can't watch most of them because they loose logic so fast and turn into a Ekta kapoor saas bahu saga.

Let's see how i fair with SHKH long term. I do love the show and I will say I'm here for MaHer; it was their charm that pulled me in.

I agree, there is a lot inaccuracies about Islam. I think they have taken some creative liberties to suit the story.

Mahid was so shocked by the revelation of her age and the gunah he created he was emotionless and numb. I think that's why he didn't say anything but you look he turns and asks Nazima if this is true. When he is whipping himself and the tears that the first realization of everything.

I'm glad Seher is out that environment too but I don't Kausar is any less toxic so she has traded one cage for another. Whatever people will say about Mahid but he was always on Seher side even when he was angry with her. He always put her first.

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Posted: 18 days ago

Originally posted by: awida

TRPs mean nothing except that TRP aunties are dominating. So the Tulsis and Anupamas and even the Arayavardans will win , and the young generation won't get much attention.

If you check online buzz and most popular celebrities you'll find out that SHKH and Parth Samthan are on top.

Parth is #4 , and SHKH is # 2

https://www.instagram.com/p/DWjQluuk3q-/

Thank you so much for this! You made me feel really good at last!! I hope online buzz is important for the channel and the makers too.I really don't want them to ever toy the idea of axing our show for TRP reasons, that's my only worry. This is the only show I watch because it is so beautiful and well executed except of course for phuphi, nazima, kausar nonsense.smiley37

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Posted: 18 days ago

Originally posted by: Padmajaan

I feel so bad about the low TRPs our show is getting. I just don't get it. How can people not fall for such an aesthetically shot serial? Why are people's tastes so bad???? What drew me to the show was the sheer poetry I was watching and hearing on the screen, the leads mesmerizing, each shot so aesthetically composed. It really pisses me off when sheer drivel attracts the highest TRPs!!!! Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!! Even today's episode is sheer poetry even though it has PAIN written all over it.

TRPs are always beyond my understanding smiley36Though the other show I m watching with my mom tops the TRP chart but I m not as addicted to it as I am to Seher. Even my mom prefers Seher. Seher’s IMDb ratings is really good like 8.5/10

This show has a great craze in IG and I also heard in X. Apparently it got viral in Indonesia and also has a fanbase in Turkiye as the original is a Turkish show.

I heard they are gonna change TRP system and include online ratings too like OTT from Sept but I doubt this show will survive this long cause of low TRPs. It might have done much better in a diff time slot.

Edited by JustRandomGirl - 18 days ago
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Posted: 18 days ago

Originally posted by: awida

TRPs mean nothing except that TRP aunties are dominating. So the Tulsis and Anupamas and even the Arayavardans will win , and the young generation won't get much attention.

If you check online buzz and most popular celebrities you'll find out that SHKH and Parth Samthan are on top.

Parth is #4 , and SHKH is # 2

https://www.instagram.com/p/DWjQluuk3q-/

Most of the ITV shows I genuinely loved aways had great online buzz but low trp smiley19

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