Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2: EDT #13 - Page 116

You mean Parth kangana jaisa dihkta hai you shivam Hrithik jaisa

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Why would I hit you?

Some people don’t make an effort, it’s true. I think if you’re a tourist just passing by an area you can still pick up some basic words, no one will expect 💯 fluency but will appreciate the effort and help you. If you live somewhere new, and you know you’re going to live there for a long time, then you must learn the local language as much as possible. Again, fluency and accuracy is not expected, neither is your accent going to be an issue but at least try to learn the language for your own benefit. How would you live in a place where you can’t communicate with people at all?

Gujaratis, Jains and Marwaris are business oriented communities; we know languages are essential for business and learning any language is just a bonus. Anyone who knows you’re not a native speaker will see the effort and appreciate you, help you and even correct you and if they do, you smile, learn and say thank you; learn to speak better. Our families don’t tell us to be rigid and we speak in our mother tongues at home, so it’s not a problem.

Language wars are picked up by people who don’t want to see that language is simply a mode of communication; it doesn’t have to be anything more than that.

My parents are Kutchi; I have grown up talking in Kutchi, Gujarati, Hindi, Marathi, English and can speak and understand a bit of Punjabi too. My dad worked with Marwaris predominantly and he was so fluent in the language that he was asked if he was lying about being a Kutchi by many people because they couldn’t believe how he spoke the language like he was born hearing it when he said he took about 3 years to master the language. He spoke with people from all sorts of backgrounds in the Marwari community and they were all pleasantly surprised or shocked to know he had no exposure to Marwari as a dialect until he was in his late teens, practically on the verge of being an adult and that neither of his parents and obviously by extension grandparents or extended family members were Marwaris.

Being bilingiual is core quality of indians.

My mom can speak Hindi,English,Bengali,Marvari and even some of chattishgarh language.Also she is a bit fluent in french

I can speak Hindi and English and Gujrati and marathi(not fluent much)

I find language wars to be useless to be honest.I have a opinion that you should be able to speak the language of the state you live in.Not be fluent but atleast it should be easy to communicate

Originally posted by: SlatePencil

You mean Parth kangana jaisa dihkta hai you shivam Hrithik jaisa

they are like the distance between hritik and kangana

Originally posted by: bpatil3

😂😂.

Yeah true, and it's nice to learn.

Very true if it is business you tend to learn not just for the business purpose but to be part of the local culture.

Good to know about your father.😃

Probably, my place has more Navratri Dandiya pendals organized, and every Hindu participates, localites buy tickets and join them. 😂😂 Garbha bhi seekh rhe hai hamare log aajkal😂. Earlier it used to be among the Gujrati Marwadi communities but now it has become part of Dashara here. Business bhi hogya and kuch naya seekh bhi rhe hai.😃

One third rich people of the city own big houses, resorts, buildings are by Gujjus, Marwadis. "Shah" and "Kothari" k naam pe Hospitals, Goldshops, Buildings, Apartments, Schools, Plots, layouts every where ruling here.😃😃

But no localite ever had an issue with them.

As long as we root to respect and learn local culture, we grow better.

I often feel, we don't have an issue to learn English, get their accent, follow their culture, rules when we go to any other country, but ppl refuse to embrace our own indian language and culture.

Why we are complicating things godd knows..

Honestly, we simply think that if you live somewhere the least you do is try and learn the language. My dad would encourage us to learn new words when we went on vacations and trips in a place that spoke a different language. It just makes sense and well, shows you’re smart enough to learn a new language - we don’t see why being considered smart should be an issue

@bold - Thank you ☺️

We believe in celebrating and don’t think that learning a new language will make ours go extinct like dinosaurs and dodos is all.

Gujaratis love celebrating Navratri the way we do because it’s literally one of the best ways to have fun while being devotional. People who don’t know what our celebrations are like initially come out of curiosity but stay and return because they know that our Garbas and Dandiyas are easy to learn and moreover, they enjoy decking up in the colourful outfits be it men or women. Plus, you know a Gujarati function will have food, drinks and washroom facilities figured out.

Plus, I think we are generally a very socialising community. That’s why Gujaratis thrive in places like Africa, Middle East, US l, UK, practically anywhere. We assimilate, don’t impose and are welcoming.

The English accent thing doesn’t make sense to me given English speakers themselves don’t have a single accent across the board, so why should we be expected to have it? Talk to a Canadian and his accent won’t match a Brit’s; both won’t match with American. Neither would match what an Aussie speaks; so why should we be self conscious about our accents for a language that’s not even our own?

Originally posted by: A_Star39

exactly

Being bilingiual is core quality of indians.

My mom can speak Hindi,English,Bengali,Marvari and even some of chattishgarh language.Also she is a bit fluent in french

I can speak Hindi and English and Gujrati and marathi(not fluent much)

I find language wars to be useless to be honest.I have a opinion that you should be able to speak the language of the state you live in.Not be fluent but atleast it should be easy to communicate

basically us!

Originally posted by: Sudipta_Sen

I pray that...but past experiences ke wajh se dar lagta hai

Yes hope we do not disappointment this time but why they scratch this jhakda is seems maker's itself not know the reason they even not make a script on them the reason behind their fight so bina matlab ke they show they fight with each other kn par ye fight suit nahi karti if they show fight it's like sweet nokh jhok wali like in the beg. Know better disclose the reason wo bhi solid or meaningful hona chahiye something relatable and interesting want to see more of karan nandani and track of their romance or care of each other

I read the other day virani is based upon Vaishnav? Community from gujrat

Originally posted by: A_Star39

I mean The facial features of parth and shivam far to be same

they are like the distance between hritik and kangana

Originally posted by: The_Best

Shivam the ones in anupama? I don’t think Parth looks like him at all. This Parth actually looks like Karan’s son

He is a cricketer from india

Originally posted by: The_Best

Shivam the ones in anupama? I don’t think Parth looks like him at all. This Parth actually looks like Karan’s son

He is a cricketer from india