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Originally posted by: Thequirkyquill

True that.

But he gets criticised for it enough not just on the forum but also in the show( the entire plot so far is essentially criticising him for falling for a teenager while he is a grown man). Whereas Meera somehow gets a pass for all her bad behaviour right from the beginning of the show.

Someone needs to call out her creepy obsession with Arya. Like imagine how disgusted you will feel if someone you have rejected goes and breaks up your relationship with the woman that you love and then comes back as your Sahara only to try to manipulate you into falling in love with them while your grieving the loss of the relationship that you lost because of the said person

Ps- I hope my tone didn’t come off too harsh in the earlier post. If so I apologise

Your tone is OK.

I am or I was with arya and anu relationship 100% . But this changed when anu did not respect this relationship. She did not defend it . Or try to explicitly say no about the new marriage.

She could have said: if you Don't want my relationship with arya. I will focus on my career.

If they insisted like what happened when mohit came with his mother. She could be clear to mohit and his mother and to her parents. She doesn't want any relationship right now (in the spot with clear language). Her father will not get heart attack because of that for sure.

Meera at fault for sure. Jhendi too is in the same boat.

But she said before "everything can be done in love and war" her moral compass is to the bad side. But she clearly have feelings for him. And know how to gight for those feeling. Anu in the other hand surrendered completely.

Originally posted by: Darkxmatter

Your tone is OK.

I am or I was with arya and anu relationship 100% . But this changed when anu did not respect this relationship. She did not defend it . Or try to explicitly say no about the new marriage.

She could have said: if you Don't want my relationship with arya. I will focus on my career.

If they insisted like what happened when mohit came with his mother. She could be clear to mohit and his mother and to her parents. She doesn't want any relationship right now (in the spot with clear language). Her father will not get heart attack because of that for sure.

Meera at fault for sure. Jhendi too is in the same boat.

But she said before "everything can be done in love and war" her moral compass is to the bad side. But she clearly have feelings for him. And know how to gight for those feeling. Anu in the other hand surrendered completely.

Your points are valid.

But Meera and Anu can’t be judged on the same scale. Meera is much older to anu, and is the bread winner in her house. There is no parent or sibling that can influence Meera in any capacity. Meera’s mother herself is dependent on Meera she too can’t go against her.

whereas Anu is barely An adult. And look at the amount of influence her parents have on her. It is anyday easier to bend a 20 year old to your will than it is to bend someone much older and experienced. Anu is clearly conditioned to obey her parents and hasn’t seen much of the world beyond her house and her parents. Her first time being independent was when she started working for Arya . Her inability to protest has more to do with her upbringing and conditioning than her will to actually be with Arya

Originally posted by: Thequirkyquill

This track is being dragged out. It worked for the other versions because it was properly executed. Like there was a proper 2-3 episode long proposal and then there was some peaceful time after the proposal and then this track came so the audience didn’t object. Also in all other versions anu was against the marriage and asked Arya to run away with her but he refused her saying that he doesn’t want to go against her parents wishes.

This is so poorly executed. A rushed proposal, no time that would even minutely be considered peaceful and Anu not at all protesting in front of her parents and a cherry on top of the cake is bevada Arya.

Honestly I am going to tune out for a week or so cause this is so monotonous and so bloody repetitive.

Also Meera is back now to put fuel in the fire. I wonder if Arya will go on a date with Meera on Valentine’s Day and that’s when he bumps into anu and Mohit and the dream sequence happens 😭😭

In OG also she had decided to break up right? Pushpa takes her secretly to elope with Vikrant but both refuse.

Arya on a Valentine date with Meera? Noooo. That would be unbearable.

Originally posted by: Thequirkyquill

Meera is the one that caused this mess. If not for her Arya would have never been heartbroken.

Also Meera is 30 something woman simping like a teenager, not to mention her complete lack of moral compass. While Anu is the actual teenager raised in a controlling and conservative family who more or less is behaving like someone in her situation would( yes she can definitely be a bit more strong and bold but looking at her parents they would beat her into submission)

Atleast Pushpa finally noticed her daughter unhappiness today

For a few minutes there I thought Meera was sympathetic towards Arya and was repenting what she did. But no. Still the same. I'll get your love however I can.

I want Anu to have some kind of a breakdown for these two to at least realize what they have done by forcing her into a relationship she never wanted. This humari beti khush hain is getting irritating.

Originally posted by: Sherineil

I agree, if they would have given 1-2 more episodes after the proposal, it wouldn't have looked so bad.

I was the odd one out who didnt think Jhende was bad but now I seriously doubt him since he isn't telling the truth about Meera to Arya.

Arya being a bevda Devdas is not foing down for me. They showed hisnpain in one episode, showed him drinking it was fine but as you said its now all too repetitive. Anu's expressions have not changed since she came back from Kashmir. He face and eyes is exactly the same. Poor girl, baksh do use bichari ko ab!

After reading the written update of the episode today, I am too not going to watch it.

Out of all the people, why have they made Arya come in front of Meera's car ?

Same here.

Arya keeping bottles in his car and office is not making sense at all. Jhende told the other day that he has not drunk in 20 years. So now what, he suddenly started keeping a stock everywhere?

Meera rescuing him was so not required.

Originally posted by: Thequirkyquill

Exactly.

Also knowing that Mohit is a temporary character, whatever they are showing can still be tolerated. But Meera she is going to be in the show till the end even when Anu and Arya get married, inserting her in this overly complicated situation is just plain disappointing. Already I am unsure as to whether she is ever going to be punished for the whole video thing and now her being a part of this mess 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️. They should have brought her back when this track was about to end

I did not expect her to be back so soon. Ughhh. Don't want to see her continue plotting after they get married.

Upar se more of Sharma Sharmi romance and comedy. Why why?

Originally posted by: ro_sh

I did not expect her to be back so soon. Ughhh. Don't want to see her continue plotting after they get married.

Upar se more of Sharma Sharmi romance and comedy. Why why?

At this rate, they have ruined a good story !

The valentine piece of Anuarya also seems a dream. Kachra kar diya acche show ka 😞

Originally posted by: ro_sh

In OG also she had decided to break up right? Pushpa takes her secretly to elope with Vikrant but both refuse.

Arya on a Valentine date with Meera? Noooo. That would be unbearable.

In the og Isha waited a lot for her parents to come to terms with her relationship and her mother did come to terms with it as well but her father didn’t. Isha’s mother berated her father essentially saying ki kis baat ka itna ego you have got when you have achieved nothing in life and forced me and Isha to live our entire life in poverty and struggle. After this her father got drunk and was in a really bad state and then Isha decided to end things cause she was scared looking at her father’s drunken state.

I hope that the Valentine’s Day thing is just Anu’s dream and Arya isn’t involved in it much.

I think I read somewhere that Arya is going to have a meeting in the same restaurant where Anu goes on a date with Mohit

Originally posted by: ro_sh

Same here.

Arya keeping bottles in his car and office is not making sense at all. Jhende told the other day that he has not drunk in 20 years. So now what, he suddenly started keeping a stock everywhere?

Meera rescuing him was so not required.

I just hope that yesterday’s episode was the end of drunk Arya. I mean SK does great acting of being drunk but I think this bevda Kabir Singh Ke vibes wala Arya is not something anyone is comfortable watching.