Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2 - EDT #10 - Page 12

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Originally posted by: FlauntPessimism

Post second leap, Gautam had practically become a sidekick of Karan. It seems his company just run because of the support of Karan so he didn't even mind that.

But you are right while Gautam had all the reasons to get butter, there was no reason for him to blame Karan for it. Karan became son no. 1 by his actions. He took the ownership of things while Gautam just went with the flow.

It wasn't like Karan got Tuhir separate from Gautam.

But then when you are heartbroken you actually don't see the logic. He only saw that the family which always kept him at the center stage suddenly started making Karan take the lead in everything.

Actually it wasn't only Tuhir, even Ba used to ask only Karan for everything.

I agree with points given by Gautam. He didn't get any share in property. Even Ranvijay has got 15% shares in business. When he didn't use to pick the calls Tulsi never thought that he might be in trouble that is why not picking the calls. Mihir ko to apni raas leela se fursat hi nahin thi jo Gautam ko call kare. Tulsi says she loves all her children equally, but from her actions I always felt she was partial towards pari. They were not even aware that Gautam's wife and children left him. Gautam has valid reasons to be angry with them

For TuHir, Dayan Pari is the best. Today Hemant was also calling her crimes as just mistakes like Tulsi was doing all these days. Blind love. Both even said that she got punished for her mistakes, but when did she ever get punished?? First of all those weren’t mistakes. She committed multiple crimes. She never got punished. How Ranvijay turned out to be is her karma, but she never got punished for her crimes. If Ranvijay had turned out to be good, she would’ve never even remembered Tulsi or cared about her. She still hasn’t confessed what she did to Tulsi/TuHir. She’s still hiding those kaands

Mihir is so shameless. He was telling Gautam not to cross the boundaries. Saari boundaries to khud Mihir ne paar kar ke rakhi aur dusron ko bol reha hai

Originally posted by: The_Best

For TuHir, Dayan Pari is the best. Today Hemant was also calling her crimes as just mistakes like Tulsi was doing all these days. Blind love. Both even said that she got punished for her mistakes, but when did she ever get punished?? First of all those weren’t mistakes. She committed multiple crimes. She never got punished. How Ranvijay turned out to be is her karma, but she never got punished for her crimes. If Ranvijay had turned out to be good, she would’ve never even remembered Tulsi or cared about her. She still hasn’t confessed what she did to Tulsi/TuHir. She’s still hiding those kaands

Tulsi was calling pari's past deed as some naadanis. She slapped Angad multiple times but only some lectures for pari.

Originally posted by: FlauntPessimism

he was a bit annoying actually, but his character was made like someone who never sees the broader perspective but only on one direction.

He needed his property so agreed to marry Ganga despite never loving her. Later after divorce he thought of reinitiating the marriage with her so that he could get some property to help Teesha's parents...

After her death he uselessly blamed Karan for it and deliberately had Karan got abducted and hospitalized so that Karan couldn't reach his wedding venue and instead married Damini

Later he wanted to have his property shares out because Karan was practically the incharge of everything (and he disliked Karan since as per Gautam Ansh died because of Karan) in Virani industries but Tulsi denied that(the scene in yesterday's flashback) so he came with the idea of having his sons and Bhoomi kidnapped

His intentions were actually never completely wrong. It was not the Mahatma mentality that Viranis expect their children to have (and what Tulsi +Karan had) but it was never completely evil..

His acts though were almost always wrong. He was more incorrect than Pari. but still not at all annoying...

They probably tried making Pari like Gautam but it was not even near.

Bingo.

Gautam was never selfless enough as everyone expected him to be as the eldest son of the family. He was more self-centred than Karan. Gautam expected the respect and responsibilities of the elder son that he felt were owed to him by his birth but he forgot that they demanded certain sacrifices as well, that as the one who is supposed to effectively take over are required to make. And in a family set up it’s not just about the son but his wife as well. Imagine if you have a son like Karan willing to give it his all but his wife is someone say like a Tripti or a Mittali… it can never work.

That’s why Mihir knew when he was the eldest son of the family tasked with keeping the family together in the future, he needed to be there for EVERYONE… and that meant his wife needed to share his responsibilities too. She couldn’t be like Payal who wouldn’t bother to turn up when his cousin has just tried to kill himself. Worse, who would head to a parlour before turning up the next day too to get her hair, mani-pedi and facial done as she’d a prior booking and she couldn’t let it go to waste or reschedule it.

That’s what attracted him to Tulsi in the first place. He saw how she was so attuned to his family and cared for them. He saw her there being selflessly for everyone he loved. People forget marriage is not just about living a life with someone who you find attractive and are in love with - it’s also about having to share your life with someone with whom you share your values, aspirations and with whom you wish to create a family one day wherein you hope to pass down the same values as those passed onto you by your parents and grandparents.

Tulsi had those values that Mihir was looking for, that he had been raised with.

Gautam never stepped up for those kind of responsibilities either. Damini was not as dynamic and had more of a follower mentality than that of a leader too. Ergo, they never matched up.

Tulsi picked Ganga as her successor amongst the bahus not just because she was the first one to step into SN but because she knew Ganga was headstrong while also being balanced and calm. Nandini had anger issues and couldn’t be picked for that. Mohini was too selfish.

Mihir and even before him Mansukh picked Karan as their successor because they saw him as worthy enough to ensure the family business stays intact and thrives under his vision.

Ideally this should have created a conflict between the family with one son taking over the professional reigns while his wife was not given charge at home, but Nandini to her credit had the grace to at least work with Ganga and respect her decisions which is what mattered. Moreover, Ganga and Karan had truly one of the best friendships and mutual understanding between the two as a platonic pair on the show. It didn’t matter to Ganga that Karan was picked over her husband either because she recognised his abilities and didn’t feel it was a slight to Saahil she should take affront of either.

Gautam couldn’t be calm and level headed when it came to business and was too selfish, hotheaded and arrogant to be the to take charge at home.

The thing that however differentiates him from Pari as a character and makes all his flaws tolerable is that Sumeet as an actor was able to sell the angst well, moreover we saw his upbringing was responsible for his mentality. Tulsi didn’t discriminate against her own sons because she was trying to keep Mihir happy by loving Karan more - he just somehow happened to be the son who would have all the values she wanted in her child.

Amongst Tulsi’s three oldest sons, coincidentally neither was raised by her be it Gautam, Karan or Ansh. Karan doesn’t even share her blood… but his temperament, mentality and attitude towards family ended up being the most aligned with Tulsi somehow. Add to that the respect he gave her, the way he never abandoned her in any crises and could be counted upon to hear and support at least even if not solve the problem clinched the deal.

Parents are often accused of having a favourite child by their other children but hardly is the mindset behind that favouritism analysed. Parents are humans too and are prone to be more close to the person they can rely on even when it comes to their children not just amongst friends and family.

If that child becomes their favourite it’s not bias born out of some prejudice always - an undeserved privilege, at least not in most cases while there certainly can be exceptions, mostly, it’s a parent saying when I am about to crash and burn, this child of mine is there for me. Hence, I prefer them.

Parents can’t say that bitter truth because they don’t want to hurt their other children more and further antagonise them towards their sibling.

Most people come to this realisation when they sail in the same boat as their parents and end up having a favourite child of their own too be it a son or a daughter, be it the oldest, or the youngest or somewhere in between. The gender and birth order is irrelevant to this conversation because it’s not about who came first - as Gautam’s grudge is - but who showed up first always.

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Originally posted by: SlatePencil

Tulsi was calling pari's past deed as some naadanis. She slapped Angad multiple times but only some lectures for pari.

I wonder if Pari more loved because she’s the youngest child? Or is it because she’s a girl?

Originally posted by: The_Best

For those who are missing Hiten he’s coming

Did he post about it?

seems TRP topper hue to they got more money to spare

hopefully he is here for long with a proper track and not 2 scenes