Originally posted by: EkPaheli
I could have understood if Mittali Hrithik were married before the affair was revealed that Hrithik couldn’t exactly divorce his wife.
.Pehle to she will boost Hrithik's confidence and gives him the much needed attention n care.I do not think Tulsi will talk about divorce first, she will try to correct Mithali. Tulsi gives importance to shaadi. Help the couple find ways to get along. in case if she finds it cannot be mend, only then she will look for divorce options.
Yet it would have hit their marriage to some degree as well. If Mittali being related to Noyna was not known and this marriage happened, I could understand. If they were so distantly related that it came as a surprise that they’d even be related when Mittali Hrithik got married, I could still understand that… but here none of those things exist. So how do you end up marrying this girl is beyond me. Even if someone from the family asked you, why would you agree? You are lost without your mom, but is your loyalty to her also lost in her absence?!
That is a million dollar question, why this giy has to marry the niece of a lady who runied his own family? He will not get any forgiveness of disrespecting his mother loke this😡😡. This is absolutely insane. If at all Mihir has forced him to marry Mithali, and he agreed out of fear to leave SN, tobsome extent justifiable.
There could be possiblity that, Mithali has blackmailed Hrithik to marry her just like her maasi, she was pregnant with Hrithik or someone else, but blamed Hrithik. Just like papa, son is also trapped.
The audacity to say those things to Tulsi when he literally married Mittali and then didn’t even waste time to have a kid with her. So it can’t be said that this marriage was a sham as well, something that he had to enter into owing to circumstances. He has literally consummated that marriage and had a child. Timsy isn’t even a newborn, so it can’t even be said that while marriage happened under circumstances that were not exactly joyful, eventually these two found themselves drawn to each other and then ended up taking their relationship ahead resulting in their daughter’s birth. Timsy would then have to be a toddler or an infant if not a newborn but baby girl looks at least 4/5 years old to me. Hrithik didn’t waste time and had a kid nearly around the same time as his siblings.
Third angle could be, she herself has tricked and said things like in love with Hrithik's simplicity n stuff, he was impressed and married her, maid se acchi hot ladki mili. 🙄😡😂 So baby hogya hai, almost 4-5yrs girl child rite😂😂. As usual Mithali is too much into her own zone, i do not know how she stayed in the hospital for 3-4 days to give birth to that child.
His siblings who married for love, even if Pari’s choice absolutely sucks but still…
I don’t know what they have in mind here when they make Pari the repentant one who has gained maturity owing to literal abuse, but Hrithik also is an abuse victim who becomes a whiner complaining how his mom’s absence is responsible for everything that went wrong with him and his life. Boy would have mom haunt him and SN just to keep him happy if she were dead. Wouldn’t let the woman rest in peace even in her death.
Here pari is a woman, who understands things quickly, women will behave matured, the moment that into a mishap like Rann🙄🙄. Tulsi is his mother whom he trusts and vent out all his frustrations. But again Tulsi will question him these once he is fghting fit, he as a man and son has to explain her. Aldo apologize her, this is a great sin, he is equally betrayed his mom marrying Mithali 😡🙄😭
Regarding people not valuing Tulsi until after she’s gone. Isn’t it the case with most moms? Especially moms who are homemakers? They do so much but because they don’t have financial independence of their own they are seen as doing nothing, at least nothing worthwhile. Everyone who steps out of home or even works from home these days but earns thinks they’re doing all the work that keeps the world revolving especially in their own homes.
Exactly, Literally financial independence of a home maker is not really considered. Even if there are 10 family members are earning, that obe home maker mother is sick, all the 10 work will literally get affect. However, we do not value them and underestimate their contributions 😭😭. A round the clock maid,manager, accountant, wife, mother, caretaker, guide and consultant too.but without salary😡
They fail to acknowledge how moms who aren’t employed or even self-employed have been the backbone of their homes and families. They make sure everyone is fed, their clothes are clean, the home is clean. And this is just regular stuff, god forbid if someone is ill, seriously injured, suffering from a critical illness or in hospital, they have to practically take care of that person almost all by themselves too and no one cares to ask her about caregiver fatigue or worse that she has to suffer through alone. No one to talk to, to complain to, no one to even simply put her to sleep allowing her to put her head in their lap so she can relax for a while. Though that’s exactly what we all do at the first sign of exhaustion, headache - go seek mom and lay down in her lap or ask for a head massage from her no matter how busy or tired she is uncaring of how many chores are left.
True, mom is not born or blessed with these qualities, but the moment she becomes mom, her priority and world is her family n kids. Her sacrifice go unnoticed and we never appreciate their constant support unfortunately. 🙄🙄😭😭 They are the main piller, on which the whole house is standing.
They save money from whatever they get to run the house and then use that money mostly for their kids and home, very rarely do they shop purely for their own sake and for themselves. Even if they get something that feels like it’s meant for them they’ll share it with everyone and if their kid/s ask for the same they’ll even give it away. But everyone including their own kids will give them an earful when they ask for money for repairs or getting groceries or something that’s required or just a new pair of glasses or slippers or a nightie.
True, sacrifices go unnoticed, untold, less appreciated. They say know, God cannot be everywhere that's the reason he created a selfless mother🙏.
But sure, complain that she’s doing nothing.
It’s a sad state of society that doesn’t value the woman who makes sure everyone has their life in order no matter how exhausted she is.
The fact that he got so triggered by Munni’s success is a massive red flag for me honestly. I don’t think a guy who cant handle a girl’s success and would crash out should be with her. Abhimaan taught us that decades ago. That movie is fiction but the story is not.
I mean collector while a perfectly respectable position that demands a person be qualified by passing one of the toughest competitive exams in the world in the administrative field, is basically still a very junior position even in terms of bureaucracy. If Munni does well, with enough time she can make progress and get into policy making roles at the state/national level. She can have a voice in the corridors of power that matter. Will Hrithik be able to handle that if he can’t handle this? That she say is working closely with a state government or is asked to move to Delhi, not now, but with some experience a couple of years down the line where she must stay and work at the top. Her role might even require her to travel abroad for the country frequently, to address media or at least go on podcasts/conclaves that matter.
Not everyone is born genius, but by hardwork one can achieve their dreams. Munni did that, with whatever little support she got from Tulsi. Hrithik, was not even smart, he was always a mild, emotional and not so intelligent kid.I remember Pari saying this on his face many a times. I do not know, how Mihir agreed him joining business 😂😂. Could be damad ji ka promotion Noina ne khud kiya ho!, ek teer se do nishan, like impressiing Mihir ki she cares for the people whom Mihir cares 😜. And vice versa, Mihir" apni uss partner k samne mahan banne k liye agree kiya ho"😂😂😂
Hrithik has already shown he has no appetite nor aptitude for business. There’s no guarantee he would succeed in his musical career. What if he crashes out there as well while Munni is on the rise on a national level and has enough talent to make international audiences pay attention to her. Will he be able to handle it?
No, and i don't even like Munni hanging around Hrithik. She is a different person altogether, she should move on, have a better life for herself. People likes n dislikes change over the period. She definitely will carry a soft corner for Hrithik, but she should make a better choice for herself and marry a person, who would love and respect her.
Hrithik, as a good human being should apologise Munni.
Tulsi ko to he should apologise every day and night, like good morning n goid night😂😂.
I highly doubt it.
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