Judt watched today's episode.
Agree on your point that he was given a well established business but partially, all the decision making and control were under the carpet of Noina. And if there is rat like rann who constantly makes losses, and Mithali like creatures who invests relentlessly, mindlessly in her shopping, trips, lavish life, no one controls, but everything putting on his head was nit right. He is given a welll established business alright, but the required skill, knowledge and training someone has to give, which Mihir failed to do. To top it he has a daughter to look after. He was literally burdened by people making him feel guilty, being reason for business losses, whereas Mihir never questioned Ranvijay or Noina, or Mithali for the losses. Just bcoz he is the only Virani boy at the moment he was attributed all the failures. Has it been success, Noina would have taken the line light. We have already seen in the kaat episides where Noina was praised by Mihir in the public. 🙄🙄
Think once, if Mihir has forced him to marry Mithali, he would have agreed to do so, with the fear of living in chawl or leave SN like Angad. Angad accepted his fate, though i feel his decisions are wrong too, to be a ghar jamayi, doing a small job, but the advantage for him is he has a good understanding wife, who supports him in decisions, and runs her house within their earning limit unlke Mithali. Many a times i thought Hemant would help Angad to have a better job atleast, but Angad bhi stupid hi tha, twins bhi banaliya😂😂. Mujhe Hrithik n Angad dono k bacchoan se aitraz hai. When you have no good life of your own, you don't take responsibilities of your life you should not kids 😟
Tulsi se Hrithik k expectations zyada hai, but i think he relied completely on her for every small thing. Ussne apni icchaye bhi dabaya hai, ussko sabse zyada chhot Munni ki IAS banne pe lagi hai, Mithali n Rannn k accusations. He is guilty of many things.
His only support was Tulsi and Munni too. If Mithali was a good Partner, probably in losses too she would have supported her husband. Question was Hritik still be upset with Tulsi?? Probably No and shayad ussko maa ki kami bhi nhi khalti.
But abhi k liye Tulsi is the only punching bag...
I understand that he was saddled with the responsibility of everything as the only son at home; he was not experienced enough, interested enough and trained well enough to know what to do. Mihir and his nihilistic attitude didn’t help matters much either.
I agree with all of that but the problem here is that Hrithik is not saying that he failed because he was set up for failure owing to a lack of understanding, experience, guidance, support etc. He’s laying everything at Tulsi’s doorstep just as he feels everything is being laid at his. He wants to be rid of the burden by depositing it on his mother.
When Tulsi simply stated that the situation 6 years ago was awful he simply started going all don’t remind me, I don’t need to remember and relive it again. Basically, I know your pain was too big, too huge to handle and I can’t begin to comprehend the extent of your grief and pain, but let’s not go there and focus on me because I am having my little pity party here and I have had no one entertaining me like this in years, but you’re my mom so your job is supposed to entertain my meltdowns regardless of what you have been through. I would load my miseries on your shoulders but not even ask you, how are you, how did you as a 60 year old woman all by yourself manage life in these years when you left practically with nothing more than your clothes in a single bag and 2 pictures. I’m not going to even bother to pretend like I’m interested in any of those things because I’d rather have someone pamper me again.
And like you mentioned, he wants to attribute his failures to the absence of his mother but not his lack of maturity. He wants to live a carefree life like he did before, but these 6 years have forced him to grow up and he thinks they suck so he wants to blame his mom; and again it’s only because they sucked.
Had the business been doing well as before, had Hrithik managed to keep Ran from stealing from them and keep the business running smoothly as it was before, not necessarily expanding it or making it a bigger success but ensuring it wasn’t failing, his marriage wouldn’t have been so awful either and he wouldn’t have been attributing the same to his mother. Because then it would have been how he rose to the occasion and did what was needed and was good enough for the job even if not exceptional and how in the process he bagged a gorgeous wife way beyond his league before and now has a cute little baby girl with her.
Heck he might have credited Mihir despite everything, Mittali as his wife and maybe even Noyna in that instance.
He also felt lacking in comparison to Munni and was angry about Tulsi being in touch with her but not him. He felt even more inferior and insecure when he felt not only had Munni succeeded and was doing better in life than him but that his mom would rather stay in touch with her but not him.
I understand that last part but really he doesn’t inspire sympathy regardless of that one thing going in his favour - Tulsi being in contact with Munni but not her kids but let’s see how they explain that. Because again that’s his presumption, Munni herself said she found out about Tulsi leaving SN via Maharaj Ji. Tulsi said she found out Munni is the collector in Mumbai and came to meet her. Tulsi was comfortable enough to meet Munni perhaps because there was nothing painful about that meeting but she clearly didn’t stay in touch with her as presumed. But right now I can give Hrithik that one but still he’s a whiny manchild refusing to grow up and realise life isn’t easy and fair.
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