Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2: EDT #8 - Page 24

Why are we calling munni

Munni

She's a collector now

Shouldn't we all start calling her manjuri?

Originally posted by: The_Best

No, she deactivated the account before the leap news came because she got tired of waiting for the new gen leap and lost interest in the show itself. That show has the worst ml I have ever seen on itv. All he does is go around giving false hopes and promises to innocent women about love and marriage and then breaks them apart. He either drives them to suicide, becomes a zinda laash or make them lose their life entirely. He also loves kidnapping babies from mothers, snatching mangal sutra, cheating, dumping bride in an mandap and so much more. But after all that he doesn’t get punished nor called out. Instead he’s always the victim number 1 and everyone else including fl gets blamed. Shahi is obsessed with his ml so never gives him any suffering or any punishment. That’s why he’s keep dragging this gen too due to his liking for the ml. I got so sick of the ml character, so I stopped watching it.

About the Grey anatomy, I tried watching but I couldn’t. I can’t handle patients dying and all. Real life is enough to see patients. So I stopped watching 😭😂

The blood and OT scenes got me and I literally had nightmares every night watching only 10 episodes

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

@bold - perfectly put and wonderfully written.

She didn't run away but got herself space to grieve the painful death of her marriage

Living with her kids would have increased her pain as her kids would have been extra caring and plus the sympathy for a victim of EMA.

She got herself a new identity in Anjar and everyone looked at her with a new pehchaan

She needed to zone out once.

Tbh I liked the fact she forgot her kids once and chose her peace and took time to heal a bit

Originally posted by: The_Best

No, she deactivated the account before the leap news came because she got tired of waiting for the new gen leap and lost interest in the show itself. That show has the worst ml I have ever seen on itv. All he does is go around giving false hopes and promises to innocent women about love and marriage and then breaks them apart. He either drives them to suicide, becomes a zinda laash or make them lose their life entirely. He also loves kidnapping babies from mothers, snatching mangal sutra, cheating, dumping bride in an mandap and so much more. But after all that he doesn’t get punished nor called out. Instead he’s always the victim number 1 and everyone else including fl gets blamed. Shahi is obsessed with his ml so never gives him any suffering or any punishment. That’s why he’s keep dragging this gen too due to his liking for the ml. I got so sick of the ml character, so I stopped watching it.

About the Grey anatomy, I tried watching but I couldn’t. I can’t handle patients dying and all. Real life is enough to see patients. So I stopped watching 😭😂

Wow. So he’s like the male Onupamaa? Figures.

Greys was fun initially then they dragged it out too much and ruined it.

Originally posted by: Me_Harini

I’m not a Rishta follower, but I used to watch Anupamaa. I stopped soon after she married Anuj because that’s where the writing completely fell apart for me.

She kept running back to her toxic ex-sasuraal for every small issue, constantly parenting her fully grown kids, and even took her adopted child into that same environment where the kid was repeatedly demeaned. She divorced her ex-husband but continued living in the same house, called her ex-sasuraal her “new maayka,” and somehow this was all framed as emotional strength.

What stood out to me even more was that she barely ever spoke about her own mother. I don’t even remember her recalling her mother with the same emotion or frequency as “baa bhagwaan.” It felt like the show glorified self-erasure in the name of sanskaar rather than real growth.

I actually started watching when Anuj entered, thinking ITV was finally attempting a mature love story between two grown adults where woman had a past, kids, and emotional baggage. A woman who had endured years of mental abuse finally choosing herself. But instead, the writing reduced her to a permanent emotional caretaker for everyone except herself.

It began with promise, but turned into repetitive martyrdom. Once it became clear that nothing would truly change, I gave up.

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Wow. So he’s like the male Onupamaa? Figures.

Greys was fun initially then they dragged it out too much and ruined it.

I hope they show his death and cruel one, so I can finally celebrate that character’s end. At least if there was chemistry between the leads, one could’ve may be watched. But there’s no chemistry too. Except for the few fans they have no one likes them. That’s why trps also fall down whenever their romance is shown. Paneer always have to bring family drama to increase trps there. It’s why also this whole gen has become about bacha bacha. The previous ml at least had chemistry with the fl, but paneer replaced him. The character of that ml was also good. As soon as they replaced him, the character’s whole personality was changed to narcissistic one who’s a forever victim and fl was also given an old look just to match him. I loved the initial characters of the lead characters but paneer ruined both. I am just glad that my fav Ruhi got saved from that narcissist and living her peaceful life now. Her not having him turned out to be a blessing in disguise for her. That’s the only good that has happened in that show as Ruhi suffered so much since child. She definitely didn’t deserve to end with that narcissist ml. She already suffered enough from him. At least one woman finally got saved.

Originally posted by: The_Best

He is a male anupama in terms of favoritism by Shahi paneer, but in term of character then no. Onupamaaa didn’t kidnap babies from mothers, gave false hopes and promises to innocent men, leading them on only to cheat them and betray them, and drive them crazy, deliberately canceling her husband’s license to destroy his career, and so much more kaand which armoron has done 😂😂

I hope they show his death and cruel one, so I can finally celebrate that character’s end. At least if there was chemistry between the leads, one could’ve may be watched. But there’s no chemistry too. Except for the few fans they have no one likes them. That’s why trps also fall down whenever their romance is shown. Paneer always have to bring family drama to increase trps there. It’s why also this whole gen has become about bacha bacha. The previous ml at least had chemistry with the fl, but paneer replaced him. The character of that ml was also good. As soon as they replaced him, the character’s whole personality was changed to narcissistic one who’s a forever victim and fl was also given an old look just to match him. I loved the initial characters of all 4 main characters but paneer ruined everything. I am just glad that my fav Ruhi got saved from that narcissist and living her peaceful life now. Her not having him turned out to be a blessing in disguise for her. That’s the only good that has happened in that show as Ruhi suffered so much since child. She definitely didn’t deserve to end with that narcissist ml.

I always felt puzzled about this too.

The original actor brought a much-needed vulnerability to the character.

But once he was replaced, even the character traits also changed. 🫩🫩🫩

At least Ruhi escaped with her dignity - that's all that matters. 💙💙💙

Originally posted by: Me_Harini

According to me Angad was wrong in how he handled the mess he created during his marriage. He was immature, panicked, and made choices that clearly worsened an already fragile situation. He should have been transparent, involved the elders, and handled the marriage responsibly instead of eloping. For that, he deserves to be called out.

Where I differ is in treating Angad’s actions as one of the reasons for what Mihir did. Angad’s mistakes may have added stress and emotional chaos, but they cannot be stretched into an explanation for Mihir crossing a line in his marriage. Mihir was not a confused teenager , he was a grown man, a husband, fully aware of the vows he had taken.

Cheating is not a reflex response to pressure. It is a choice. No amount of guilt, stress, or family turmoil forces a person into betrayal. Mihir had options - communication, restraint, boundaries, even walking away but he chose infidelity. That choice belongs to him alone.

Holding Angad partly responsible risks blurring accountability. It shifts focus away from the fact that betrayal in a marriage cannot be outsourced to circumstances or other people’s mistakes. One person’s poor decisions can complicate a situation, but they do not rewrite another person’s moral responsibility.

Context may explain emotions, but it can never excuse betrayal. Accountability cannot be diluted and in this case, it lies squarely where the choice was made.

I don’t blame Angad for what Mihir did, that’s entirely on Mihir and Mihir alone. What I do is, hold him responsible for making the situation worse.

Angad knew that things were tense at home between his parents owing to Pari. He knew Mihir had even left home and was living at office for days; the conflict had escalated that badly. Pari’s statements about Ajay and his family had already put their parents on the opposite sides of the issue, Angad knew that. When Ran Pari’s marriage was being discussed, their parents couldn’t agree with each other again, he knew that.

Amidst this, Angad decides he’s fine with marrying the girl his father had picked for him but hadn’t forced the decision on him. He doesn’t fall in love with the girl but decides to get engaged despite having reservations about her after he found out she was spoiling his reputation among their own staff by making everyone think he’s having an affair with Vrinda. He couldn’t stick to his stand. That’s entirely on him. Mihir to his credit didn’t once force Angad to give Mittali a second chance.

When he got second thoughts he didn’t discuss his feelings with his parents and kept everyone in the dark. Fine, I understand that he was confused and probably overwhelmed.

But when he suspected Mittali of being possessed he decided to investigate it all by himself, didn’t include his family. Ok, fine, the situation was too weird to explain and who would’ve believed him? It could’ve been presumed he’s either pranking everyone or trying to malign Mittali’s image. He kept mum until he was sure and had proof.

But he kept mum even AFTER that. He didn’t involve one person from his own family in the matter later when he went to Suchitra and Noyna to expose Mittali. Then he calls off the wedding there; and STILL doesn’t want to inform anyone from his own family! That’s entirely on him! Did he think that this was the same as returning an Amazon delivery? His parents didn’t have to deal with his rejected orders? Like his family had nothing to do with it at all? Deal with the consequences?

Worse, he believes that Mittali, a girl who will go to such lengths to keep from admitting her gambling addiction will be honest when she has no need to be? He assured his mom though she questioned his decision to trust Mittali and didn’t think this could backfire? Worse, when he does panic and his fears are proven accurate, he decides to run. Again, doesn’t think of the consequences.

He didn’t once pause to think that these decisions while dealing with his life were not isolated from his family, particularly his parents whose marriage was going through a rough patch.

He couldn’t help them or make things better; but how did he not realise at any point that he could definitely make things worse?

Then he’s too scared of being married to Mittali when she refuses to back out and runs away, to make sure he cannot be asked to marry her at all he gets married to Vrinda.

Why not just decline to marry Mittali there and then? Why run away? Mihir wasn’t gonna be able to make Angad marry her at gun point. Why would you not face your father in the first place and stand your ground? He proved he was more focused on his own interests than thinking how this will make things worse for his family.

When he does turn up at SN, he stands there taking everything Mihir throws at him but doesn’t try to tell him anything about his reasons. Mihir might not have understood, accepted, believed or even cared about those things but he wouldn’t have been in the dark entirely about the situation. He says once Tulsi was innocent but that again is of no consequence when he doesn’t explain his actions.

Angad didn’t cause Mihir to cheat but he made sure that his parents’ conflict would escalate even more thanks to his actions. And he wasn’t so young, naive or immature as to not know that. Hence the things I stated above are entirely on him.

Originally posted by: A_Star39

Grey anatomy is so scary😭😭

The blood and OT scenes got me and I literally had nightmares every night watching only 10 episodes

Trust me it’s not much. But I understand it’s a matter of personal preference.

Originally posted by: A_Star39

i think tulsi did the best by choosing herself

She didn't run away but got herself space to grieve the painful death of her marriage

Living with her kids would have increased her pain as her kids would have been extra caring and plus the sympathy for a victim of EMA.

She got herself a new identity in Anjar and everyone looked at her with a new pehchaan

She needed to zone out once.

Tbh I liked the fact she forgot her kids once and chose her peace and took time to heal a bit

She needed to get away from everyone and everything associated with Mihir including their children. She was beyond hurting. To experience such a thing even once is heartbreaking, to experience it again; at this age and stage of her life… it’s impossible to imagine how a woman feels.

It’s easy to judge but it’s impossible to even imagine how that feels let alone actually go through it.

We all have our comfort zones and love languages and shouldn’t be judged for them; it’s the same for how we deal with grief and heartbreaks IMO. Unless you’ve walked a mile in someone’s shoes you will never know what they felt.