Bigg Boss 19 - Daily Discussion Topic - 19th Oct 2025 - WKV - Page 36

Originally posted by: SP2684

I haven't seen the promo - but is she character assassinating Tanya for selling such products, or merely stating that she does?

If she is judging her for it - then she should get bashed for that on the weekend - who is she to judge anyone's business. Baaki if she's merely stating it - BB neh iss season kuch bola hi nahi ke bahar ki baatein are not allowed. Heck these guys screwed Awez over big time uski personal baatein karke. And she can argue ke it's not personal - she's merely stating info that Tanya has advertised online. Is her intention shit - sure, but in practice, it's info that's already publicly available.

So on that basis I don't see why they wouldn't air it - it's just business for them at this point - jitna zyaada buzz ho utna better.

Problem is going to be for Tanya - kyun ke kaide se toh she should simply say ke my business is my business - tumko kya? But usne joh yeh bahu wala character pakda hain - solid rona dhona hoga ab ispe.

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Originally posted by: BombayChic

He wasnt even angry when he kept repeating that I mean whatever I said. I wont say sorry , this was quite sometime after the fight . So he wasnt ‘angry’ per se. How are people conveniently ignoring and defending this stuff . Beats me.

Same reason why his "I got so triggered" argument lacks water. Pehle toh - iss mein trigger hone wala tha kya. And second - chalo maana ke in the moment he got trigged - baad mein joh double down kar raha tha - immediately after and hours after too - what was that? His personality aur kya.

And none of this is material anyway - isko toh har choti cheez 'trigger' karti hain and casually ghatiya bolta rehta hain. Phir phatt ke haath mein aajati hain and he runs back to his adda and dhauns jamata hain to look cool in front of his sycophants. Rinse and repeat.

Originally posted by: SP2684

Because he said as much. Kept saying he meant what he said to Farhana, she deserved it, and he wouldn't apologise - not even if his father told him to. Cut to going and delivering an apology almost like his friends had begged him to do so - which, incidentally, is what happened.

He genuinely hates Farhana . When he was telling SK that Farhana has a dark soul and all , you can see how hard he was trying to hold back what he actually wanted to say. It was as if he was seething with anger and filled with disdain fr her.

Originally posted by: SugarNSpice_01

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Iss mein character assassination kahaan hain though? She's pointing out ke joh character Tanya is portraying in the house, that's not the real her. Which we - the audience - already knows.

But fayda iss mein Tanya ka hi hain - cos it looks very negative for everyone to be listening to such behind her back, all scandalised like - and that's exactly why the promo is cut like that. This coming week ki Farhana will be Tanya

Aap log discuss kar rehe ho toh promo dekha, I used to think Altaf Raja was some Bangladeshi dude

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Originally posted by: WhtsinAname

He genuinely hates Farhana . When he was telling SK that Farhana has a dark soul and all , you can see how hard he was trying to hold back what he actually wanted to say. It was as if he was seething with anger and filled with disdain fr her.

Yeah but I don't think he hates her because he genuinely thinks she's evil for shredding Neelam's letter. He's nowhere near that deep. He's pissed off because he gave Farhana her letter, and then woh khel gayi. LOL - ego pe leta hain yeh aur kuch nahi.

Malti ne aisa bhi kya hi reveal kar diya, Tanya herslef said she wore things while she was doing the pagent thing

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I like the song pehle toh kabhi kabhi gham tha

Originally posted by: EtherealRati

How do you know farhana doesn't have anger management issues ?....woh bhi gusse mein pagal hokar kuch bhi bolti hai. And Amal starting week se is cycle pe hai...bakwas karo aur phir sorry bolo ....and he is not just harsh with contestants, he has gone forward and said rubbish about families.....and if you say sorry because you regret something, you don't keep repeating it. Regret and guilt make sure that a person doesn't repeat the behaviour.

Its a pattern with him. He says sorry just fr the heck of it . No intentions whatsoever.

He has repeatedly said on camera ke he is like that only and he has no regrets.

Originally posted by: ScienceBitchYo

He has anger management issues. Regret is actually a classic sign of the issue as someone close to me has it.

Farhana, on the other hand, has no issues. She deliberately does everything hence no regrets.

Intention matters as much as the choice of words.

You know, seriously.. I hope when his BB journey is over, that he will take therapy / anger management training.. It will be good for him..

I was actually reading about it just now.. And the one of the causes for anger management issues can be frustration and a feeling of powerlessness.. In the BBH this is normal, to play mindgame with you. In his case, when he starts to become out of control, he cannot regain control over himself.. To take pause and step away will help him.. I liked Baseer’s suggestion to him, next time we will take a walk..

I must say.. When I replay things back in my mind, he was sitting in the garden upset.. And then when, I think Tanya started to say why this that, he got slowly in that mode of guilt, losing power / not being in control, not able to help or protect.. Neelam has also this protect me vibe.. Damsel in distress types.. He puts himself or is being put in those situations by the ones he cares about..

I am happy that it is becoming more and more clear for him what his issue is. He is forced to look at himself, in the mirror and fix what has been an issue for him outside as well.. The same also for others..

I like this even more than when people lift the trophy and win. For me the actual win is when you overcome your hurdles such as mental, emotional distress.. That is what you will take with you for life in the end..

I hope, he can work on this and fix himself.. He will not learn and be cured in the house.. It will take time.. But he can make a start.. Start and reflect..

This is why I would promote for BB to have contestants keep a written or spoken diary.. To start (after morning song and dance) or end the day with that..