Originally posted by: WhtsinAname
I dont know why I feel obliged to do this. I am not even an out and out Bajaj "fan". Just that I think he is one the contestants who deserves to be in top 5 and in comparison to many hms I find him better.
Yeh jo ddt pe everytime Bajaj does a mistake toh people keep saying ke Bajaj isnt being called out......toh call it out you loud and clear. Make good compelling posts. The onus of Bajaj being called out doesnt shouldnt lie on just some of us.
Anywys
Yesterday during captaincy task Kunika wanted to tell Tanya to lait ja on the puzzle but instead she said Amaal ke photo pe let jaa. She immediately realised her mistake as soon as it came out of her mouth and told she didnt mean it dt way. But by then Bajaj had already gone one up and said Amaal ki photo pe ya Amaal pe. Good on Tanya that she gave it back to him quite nicely.....effectively shutting him up.
Now was that derogatory fr Tanya ? Definitely. Should he be bashed fr dt ? Certainly. He was wrong here.
But what I understood from this ( and this is just my personal imo ) was his jokes are like boys locker room jokes. And to him it probably sounded like a joke which it wasnt when you are saying it to a woman.......who isnt your friend. Friends ke beech bhi aise jokes chal jaate hain ( not making it up) but since the woman is not ur frnd , you cannot pass such statements on her.
What worked fr him though was.....he realised it quick enough that Tanya got offended and so he apologised almost immediately . He didnt wait for a day to say sorry. Now it depends on the person whether they found it sincere or not. But like Rishu here said it once.......once a apology is given...you only have a choice to either accept it or not. How sincere it was is difficult to find out.
Dts all I can say or write essay on the topic. One last time I do not represent any fandom.
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