Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 26 May 2025 Written Update and EDT - Page 18

Originally posted by: Phir_Mohabbat

I mean if you can't feed yourself getting a baby is selfish isn't it

Are you trying to say the poor beggers next to highways using their babies as beggars deserve to be parents? They are uneducated and also don't have healthcare options, think their kids as more number of earner so they reproduce more. No they don't deserve to be parents

Being a parent isn't mean aw so cute what a beautiful baby. There is a standard of living for kids- atlst one step ahead from parents. Eg if parents studied till 8th atlst have the means to give them education till college etc. If the kids have same kinda miserable life why bring them in world? 2025 is a scary world, world going to shit, no jobs, extreme disparity of wealth, powerful people are scary. Also pollution. In this kinda world if you are sure you can keep your kid protected, yes have kids

Might a bit pessimistic feeling about a baby, but then we are no kings that our bloodline has to be carried. We can take a step back and think and bring kids to this world. Also if your own life is shit - unstable marriage, mental health, no village to help with baby, why you want this? Where will your maternal instinct go in tiring tough situation? Like a smoke.

In this serial context it's funny Arman was so busy to hover over his kids and forgot to get a sukanya samriddhi or some other fund where he can use it on his kid.

I agree..it's time our society realizes that not everybody is fit to be parents..

They have to choose parenthood over their freedom, career, expectations & boundation...bacha karo & hand them Over to the maid , bacha karo , main chali/chala job par , bacha creche mei ...bacha karo , bhagwan dega usko paalne ko ...no this should change ..

Why do couples have just one or max two children these days ? The cost of raising children is too much , along with sacrifices from parents part .. a couple must have babies when they're ready & they can support the child financially ..

In case of abhiman specially they shouldn't be parents at all..they fail to manage their anxiety / depression / trauma & continue to blunder around ..

If somebody tells me arman brought up maira well, it wasn't possible without geetu & a positive atmosphere with supportive neighbours and friends ..

I agree with the part . this world is really a cruel place bringing a new life without any means of protection or proper parenting plans is madness.

But in show I don't think they were wrong during bsp time . Because she was already pregnant and given her condition it was a miracle but that ended tragically. Also when you see during pookie time they were emotionally and financially vulnerable when they started to plan but eventually or specifically when they planned surrogacy they were well established in their life financially. Also they were far from poddars and and thought they really understood and loved each other . So they were not wrong to want a child that time but now situation has escalated to something that was unimaginable once.

I don't support either of them for the present scenario but I definitely don't blame them to want a child . even now their financial condition is what most of normal indians live their whole lives like so if we are talking about financial condition of Armaan or abheera I don't think I agree with you but then everyone have their own opinion. I was just voicing my own And I really respect yours

Originally posted by: Ajab.Pehchan

This season will probably take a gen leap soon as I don’t think they will be able to produce 300 more episodes till the 5000 episodes mark.

Another 300 episodes of Armaan khaands, 2-day tearful redemption and Abhira going back to playing happy family as if nothing happened sounds too tiresome to watch as a viewer. On the other hand, another season of the same rinse repeat sounds even more unappealing…

Originally posted by: Krinya

I doubt If there will be custody case ..abhira will happily forgive her silly boy for his silliness..it's nothing jaane do. It was nothing , normal silly se thoda zyada silly ho gaya tha poor silly boy

If the writers are still planning to sail this ship, that’s the only option they have. These writers have a special talent in writing Armaan’s character, every time you think this character can’t go any low, they shock you with their creativity. They have no idea or proper track as to how to redeem this character though, so every time they make the character Abhira an even bigger loser in love than before by forgiving him. Half the viewers have always given up on this character, if she repeats the same pattern, then all the trolling would be deserving for this character…

Originally posted by: ItvDrama

If the writers are still planning to sail this ship, that’s the only option they have. These writers have a special talent in writing Armaan’s character, every time you think this character can’t go any low, they shock you with their creativity. They have no idea or proper track as to how to redeem this character though, so every time they make the character Abhira an even bigger loser in love than before by forgiving him. Half the viewers have always given up on this character, if she repeats the same pattern, then all the trolling would be deserving for this character…

Kya se kya bana diya Ar ke character ko. They have made him sink to such an appalling level that ab waha se uthana mushkil lagta hai. Even now after 7 years he has no real remorse, it's absolutely terrible. Ab agar iss situation mein romance dikhayenge toh audience may throw tomatoes😂

Originally posted by: Krinya

I agree..it's time our society realizes that not everybody is fit to be parents..

They have to choose parenthood over their freedom, career, expectations & boundation...bacha karo & hand them Over to the maid , bacha karo , main chali/chala job par , bacha creche mei ...bacha karo , bhagwan dega usko paalne ko ...no this should change ..

Why do couples have just one or max two children these days ? The cost of raising children is too much , along with sacrifices from parents part .. a couple must have babies when they're ready & they can support the child financially ..

In case of abhiman specially they shouldn't be parents at all..they fail to manage their anxiety / depression / trauma & continue to blunder around ..

If somebody tells me arman brought up maira well, it wasn't possible without geetu & a positive atmosphere with supportive neighbours and friends ..

Ekdam sahi if you aren't good couple how you can be good parents? What you will teach your kid if you aren't loving caring towards your spouse?

Yep Arman alone is a hyper parent who's selfish to the core, kept the kid away from her mother. Geetu and the old man gave that calm environment.

Our mind thinks alike regarding kids. Just giving birth don't.make you a parent. After birth it's hard, you have to support the kid for 18-20 yrs at every step emotionally financially every way. If. You can do it go ahead. If you already failing don't ruin a life

Originally posted by: Payalshoni

I agree with the part . this world is really a cruel place bringing a new life without any means of protection or proper parenting plans is madness.

But in show I don't think they were wrong during bsp time . Because she was already pregnant and given her condition it was a miracle but that ended tragically. Also when you see during pookie time they were emotionally and financially vulnerable when they started to plan but eventually or specifically when they planned surrogacy they were well established in their life financially. Also they were far from poddars and and thought they really understood and loved each other . So they were not wrong to want a child that time but now situation has escalated to something that was unimaginable once.

I don't support either of them for the present scenario but I definitely don't blame them to want a child . even now their financial condition is what most of normal indians live their whole lives like so if we are talking about financial condition of Armaan or abheera I don't think I agree with you but then everyone have their own opinion. I was just voicing my own And I really respect yours

A couple who almost got divorced twice it's foolish to think a baby can fix things

Bsp came because abhira thought the baby will help Arman and poddars (Vidya kaveri) to connect. Arman wasn't ready then and i liked how he said he only wants her, baby is secondary. But in this matter it's itv staple story so won't comment further. Itv fl never care about their own life even when their husbands are sure they just want the wives. The fls are baby paglu and others bend accordingly

Pookie was arman abhira joint venture where they felt they are at a good place for baby. They agreed for surrogacy quickly and had the baby. But during pregnancy and before that abhira saw this man how cruel he can be. Ignored her for months, left her isolated in poddar house, put kaveri Vidya over her. So how having a kid with this man is good for her? And now she don't even have the baby with her, once again Arman pulled that 3 months separation and dragged it till 7 years. This is the man she chose and it's not like she didn't know him before. She just avoided his bad traits and that's exactly where she's suffering now

Wanting a baby isn't wrong. Atlst see your surroundings then take the judgement. Where was armans decission in baby making? Isn't having a kid is joint decision of a couple? And how come women have such low opinion of their own lives, they think imaginary baby will be better fit for husband than their own. What if bsp was born disabled? What if he had a rare condition where he don't survive

Regarding indian family yes so true we are below poverty level or lower middle class we have 2-3 kids in families. But are these kids happy? Do they have fulfilling life? How many kids wonder if they were never born? What's their opportunities in life? Isn't that the saddest thing we have these kids but they.arent slightest bit happy. This is the reason we have 140 cr population but no happiness in country. So is having baby that important?

Respect to your pov too. I feel about kids well being a lot

Originally posted by: Phir_Mohabbat

Suddenly this concern is about maira who seems quite happy minus the mother obsession (makes sense) but. Funnily it wasn't matched in last gen

Not a shot at you just general observation

Also why abhira will win. By all logic ahwa financially weak, staying in a chawl, still in depression. None of them can raise a child. That's why just making babies isn't the end, planning needs to be done in case parents come on street how they will raise kids

In bacha obsession people forgot financial planning. Now poor kid suffering

Real or fiction, the reality is a child is the one who suffers the most when the grownups fail to handle their relationship. Rishta of Gen 1 used to handle such topics sensitively, but now pregnancy/children are just plot points to be exploited. They did the same in S3 and will do the same this season as well. As far as the support, fans’ allegiance changes based on the character…

From a realistic point of view, what Armaan did is punishable by law because there’s still a missing child complaint with an ongoing investigation filed by Abhira. It’s required by law for Armaan to notify the legal system that the child has been found, at this point what Armaan did is abduction which more often than not happens in real life too where one parent runs away with the child. So just from that perspective, Abhira actually might have a chance of winning the custody, especially with the child being a girl and also since Abhira seems to be in a better position financially compared to Armaan.

As far as the practicality and logic behind bringing a child into the world, there’s a very less percentage of people who actually think over all the logistics before they plan parenthood. As sad as it is to say, our society isn’t yet that progressive enough to give the couples the freedom to choose parenthood at their convenience or discretion. Even now, couples irrespective of their social/financial strata are emotionally forced into starting a family when they aren’t ready, which is why so many children end up well versed in their favorite cartoon characters than their own parents. The increasing number of daycares, the increased number of gadgets in a household, the increased number of children with early-onset health issues is testament to it. This is an issue that oftentimes gets pushed under the carpet under the guise of enhancing your family, putting roots down. Yet so many couples fall into this when they aren’t ready, only to resent the emotional and financial responsibilities and eventually taking it out on the children for no fault of theirs. The fact is even with all the financial planning, family’s support, the reality is it’s a scary world out there now, the external factors that could impact a child’s mental and physical health development far outweigh all these plannings. All any parent could do is try to provide the best they can. Planned parenthood is a concept that is still in its embryo, but if successful might lead to not just a great childhood, but also healthy relationship between couples as well…

Originally posted by: MaBelle

Kya se kya bana diya Ar ke character ko. They have made him sink to such an appalling level that ab waha se uthana mushkil lagta hai. Even now after 7 years he has no real remorse, it's absolutely terrible. Ab agar iss situation mein romance dikhayenge toh audience may throw tomatoes😂

Dil kiya lauki fek ke maroon I had the same feeling when Akshara ran towards Abhimanyu after sensing his accident during her visit to Udaipur for mimi's birthday

Originally posted by: Ajab.Pehchan

She is in the same space as Anupamaa was after losing both Anuj and Aadhya Even MAA lived a good life with Shahs as their Maalkin till she found Rahi

shahs Toh uske apne hai .. Rahi kaun ??
Toshu and pakhi are her own kids , pari and Ansh are her own grand kids

Mahi , ishani and Rahi don’t have her 🧬