Team Abhira - Page 4

Originally posted by: Indira1211

hi thanks for making this thread. I am very fond of abhira..because she’s a lovely character…very good and kind and it’s this kindness that’s allowed people to hurt her so much…

After Akshara of gen 1, Abhira is the best among all other female leads. She is so lovely and kind but sadly, the people in her life only have used her in some way or taken advantage of her.

Originally posted by: janecastle

Also it is nice to have a place to discuss without skipping through pages and pages of so-called best dad fawning.

Wait...so there are people calling Armaan "Best Dad"? For blaming Abhira for what happened?...Wasn't Armaan equally at fault for giving up on his wife when she needed him the most and blaming her for losing their kid while saving her....he is worse than Krish and Fufasa at this point

Originally posted by: WolfieCandy5

Wait...so there are people calling Armaan "Best Dad"? For blaming Abhira for what happened?...Wasn't Armaan equally at fault for giving up on his wife when she needed him the most and blaming her for losing their kid while saving her....he is worse than Krish and Fufasa at this point

Originally posted by: CanKeepCalm

Wow, I never looked at it that way. So does that mean VV was actually right here? He really wasn’t sure whether he wanted the baby or love during their marriage and he chose love only because Ro and the chorus gang pushed him toward it. And as soon as baby came into picture, who Abhira? That makes it seem like VV doubts weren’t completely baseless. Omg that vile character was proven right 🤔

There’s no question about the fact that Armaan genuinely loved Poddar family and wanted to be the ideal son of the family, but his problem was he kept seeking validation even after knowing how transactional his relationship was with the family. Despite the fact that the rest of the family loved him, without KP’s validation nothing meant anything, as none of the family members could stand up for him. All his life he earned for someone to love him, be accepted. By the time he accepted Abhira into his life, he was completely aware of this and this was his chance to move forward in his life as he got someone who loved him without expectations, yet he kept running back to the same place, only this time dragging Abhira along..

Most often people become a reflection of the people they either love or hate the most. This is true in Abhira’s case as well, she only wanted to be what Armaan craved all his life, someone to love him unconditionally. She definitely fulfilled that part, but in the process compromised her emotions and her own identity. She was forgiving enough to accept all the abuse/insults that came as part of this relationship, but became blind enough to realize that all this isn’t worth it if the same person doesn’t recognize what she’s going through because of him. She constantly prioritized Armaan’s emotions even when he was wrong about a lot of things, yet refused to acknowledge her own shortcomings as to why she kept facing these betrayals, her own refusal to accept what she had with Armaan was a mirage of an ideal marriage/partner, a person who continually hurts you in the most vulnerable way isn’t actually in love with you and at some point you need to stand up for yourself…

https://x.com/TaaronKiRoshni/status/1927188945206485224?t=k0bMGy4oUw8njiEHMA4S-Q&s=19 Yeh gyaan khud ko yaad nahi thaa jab Abhira ko bina pooche baccha kidnap karke bhaag gaya

Originally posted by: Debospeaks

With his actions he has proved that what Vidya told him during their 2nd marriage was absolutely right. She was right that nothing is more important than becoming a parent, Armaan absolutely did the same thing after getting pookie. Then why on earth would I hate Vidya now???? She did those actions because she knew exactly what her sautela beta will behave after some years pass into the marriage.

I absolutely don't have any hate left for Vidya anymore.

Chalo good hai one positive post about Abhira. I like her and feel for her though Its very hard for me to like ITV FL. Yeah she too annoys me a lot sometimes but not after leap. I want her to get the happiness she deserves in whatever way makers want to show. I hope they make Maira fill the gap by loving her so much that pain she went through 7 years goes away just like that

I don't even know why she is compared to Abhimanyu in this forum. Abhimanyu was toxic ml just like Armaan. He got the pain to himself but Abhira didn't deserve this.

Finally a thread that I can read with peace. 😀

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

if Vidya is sauteli maa then arman is sautela beta who chose his own mother or self or hus beti against that sauteli maa or biwi Or uski beti ki maa. Ar is perfect poddar in blood. If ar comes back this old gang might flip on his side aa humara bacha humari poti. Kitne ache se paala hi tumhare sath rehti toh har roj box mein dum ghuti rehti 🤣 . Abheera is a proper doormat. She should get that buddhi and close herself as biwi to ar as everything gone in bin. He gets flashes of eating spending not his promises or his mistakes.

Originally posted by: Debospeaks

Abhira was before leap a doormat because she felt Armaan is the only one who loves her unconditionally after Akshara. She never felt that he will ever betray her. It will be interesting to see that after revelation what will be her reaction. If she still chooses Armaan after his kidnapping kaand then for sure there will be no other biggest doormat than her in Rishta

She will not get anything back. It's going ahead only. Maira is her beti any day. She won't fight for any haqs it's only for her beti accepting her in life. Abheera is waiting for ar so ms is kept. I want abheera to go ahead in life and have another man as they explored everything in abhimaan couple. They will separate easily again as the traits are same one is aggressive another is doormat. Abheera can prove palnewali is great by giving love to someone kid as hers. Preferably a man with a kid like bidai is best. She is struck there only. Can't Move ahead. Giving love to oldies is like she got a family no doubt. Orelse goenkas could be with her as support. Or else a solo journey of hers as individual learning about the truth ar breaking her trust. What ar did is irreversible. She lost everything. He enjoyed that life with his kid though poor.