Originally posted by: sweet_tania
You have said so true he is not giving time to his wife neither giving space so mother child can bond.
My son had colic issues in the night during initial months, my mother used to help me to handle him at night because It was tough as first time mum. We overcome that phase quickly but the thing is people around you should not judge you specifically husband.
Stress started for me from the time doctor told Csection.my inlaws mocked me as I had c. Section. What's their pain there I took the pain. They commented my mother is doing it purposely for me.Which mother will be sooo mean to make her beti suffer. Next my own nani mocked me as I can't get breast milk. Everyday it's torture for me and total depression types. I can't heal properly nor sit in nights with my chakkars always. On top of it kid is not managed by me properly those who ever came to see commented bottle milk Csection and masi nani rising kid . I used to cry a lot as I had to stay in my mil house for 2 weeks. Torture was more In front I had no help except I am the best mother I handled my kids blah blah blah. When I gave bath to kid my fil stood behind so I didn't lift my nightie and give bath to my kid on legs. It's minimum common sense to go aside but she didn't tell him.Both were looking movie. Later commented isko kuch nahi atha.Formula bottle my fil got 1 dabba in 15 days.my son used to drink a bottle in 3 days.My father came in between to see my son got 2 dabbas.My fil never wanted vaccination for kid.Just because kid is eating cerelac and little chubby they didn't give annaprasan till 10th month. If kid has cold cough fever they tortured more.My hubby is good father always chose kids and did justice. Today I got all past in front seeing the taunts.