Originally posted by: Sassylady
I don't get how a woman can put down another woman and look shame them! First of all if Ayesha is not pretty and she is average looking then I probably staying in a different world where probably pretty girls are birbie dolls roaming around! Most importantly she has a good height and figure with that jaw line which many girls dream of! And mocking looks and pairing with Param! Is Param that handsome? If Ayesha is average then Param is also average! Honestly the way female celebs get judged mocked and expected to have some unreal beauty standards why those standards are not expected from male celebs? The sad part is more that men its women who judge women through beauty standards and put them down.
Hey! I wasn't putting anyone down. We weren't shaming Ayesha. As viewers, we were positively criticising her acting skills which I suppose we all have the right to. We weren't comparing her looks with Param. Chemistry is just a personal preference for all. Someone might find a pair perfectly matched, others might find them odd. That's it. I wouldn't find Param and Ayesha appealing together. I was talking about the pairing and not individual appearances. That's what I meant by my statements and others too. Beauty is subjective and everyone has the pluses and minuses in their appearances. She might have good chemistry with others. I don't know since I haven't watched her show. But the clips from those shows speak for themselves. I second that women are women's support, but just because we are each other's support, doesn't mean we overlook our shortcomings.
I completely get what you're talking about. Beauty standards are unreal, I totally agree with that. I ain't a Miss World either. However, in a field like the media and entertainment, faces are everything presently, accept it or deny it. Not only are the female actors judged harshly, but multiple male actors also face these judgements. Nevertheless, females have historically been kept on a pedestal of higher scrutiny. Everyone who appears on screen is judged on the basis of looks. Unless we change the perception on ground and in real time about body positivity for both the genders, voicing out opinions on the internet wouldn't create a revolution.
I sincerely apologise if the joke felt degrading towards the actress. I didn't mean to humiliate her. Peace.
Edited by ThaneOfElsinore - 6 months ago
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