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Posted: 6 months ago
#81

The kind of promos they made vs the kind of story they showed are literally 2 different worlds. The wedding admission form promo - Teju said mein apna rasta khud banaogi and they never explored that angle. In the confrontation promo - they showed Neil indirectly saying mein apka khaas dost nahi hu and they again never explored that side. They could have changed Neil's character with this confrontation but they decided to do what they are going to do for what god only knows.. They left so many good points and tracks without any reason

Posted: 6 months ago
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Originally posted by: shwetha85

The kind of promos they made vs the kind of story they showed are literally 2 different worlds. The wedding admission form promo - Teju said mein apna rasta khud banaogi and they never explored that angle. In the confrontation promo - they showed Neil indirectly saying mein apka khaas dost nahi hu and they again never explored that side. They could have changed Neil's character with this confrontation but they decided to do what they are going to do for what god only knows.. They left so many good points and tracks without any reason

Ghum also makes misleading promos. They do not show the same thing what they have promised to show in promos

They make such promos to get some engagement

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Posted: 6 months ago
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Originally posted by: Sassylady

I don't get how a woman can put down another woman and look shame them! First of all if Ayesha is not pretty and she is average looking then I probably staying in a different world where probably pretty girls are birbie dolls roaming around! Most importantly she has a good height and figure with that jaw line which many girls dream of! And mocking looks and pairing with Param! Is Param that handsome? If Ayesha is average then Param is also average! Honestly the way female celebs get judged mocked and expected to have some unreal beauty standards why those standards are not expected from male celebs? The sad part is more that men its women who judge women through beauty standards and put them down.

Hey! I wasn't putting anyone down. We weren't shaming Ayesha. As viewers, we were positively criticising her acting skills which I suppose we all have the right to. We weren't comparing her looks with Param. Chemistry is just a personal preference for all. Someone might find a pair perfectly matched, others might find them odd. That's it. I wouldn't find Param and Ayesha appealing together. I was talking about the pairing and not individual appearances. That's what I meant by my statements and others too. Beauty is subjective and everyone has the pluses and minuses in their appearances. She might have good chemistry with others. I don't know since I haven't watched her show. But the clips from those shows speak for themselves. I second that women are women's support, but just because we are each other's support, doesn't mean we overlook our shortcomings.

I completely get what you're talking about. Beauty standards are unreal, I totally agree with that. I ain't a Miss World either. However, in a field like the media and entertainment, faces are everything presently, accept it or deny it. Not only are the female actors judged harshly, but multiple male actors also face these judgements. Nevertheless, females have historically been kept on a pedestal of higher scrutiny. Everyone who appears on screen is judged on the basis of looks. Unless we change the perception on ground and in real time about body positivity for both the genders, voicing out opinions on the internet wouldn't create a revolution.

I sincerely apologise if the joke felt degrading towards the actress. I didn't mean to humiliate her. Peace.

Edited by ThaneOfElsinore - 6 months ago
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Posted: 6 months ago
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Originally posted by: shwetha85

The kind of promos they made vs the kind of story they showed are literally 2 different worlds. The wedding admission form promo - Teju said mein apna rasta khud banaogi and they never explored that angle. In the confrontation promo - they showed Neil indirectly saying mein apka khaas dost nahi hu and they again never explored that side. They could have changed Neil's character with this confrontation but they decided to do what they are going to do for what god only knows.. They left so many good points and tracks without any reason

Correct. Their promos look well shot and interesting but they hardly explored any of the angles present in them.

Posted: 6 months ago
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Originally posted by: ThaneOfElsinore

Correct. Their promos look well shot and interesting but they hardly explored any of the angles present in them.

The introduction promo of this season was so well shot but everything is ended with tejaswini's death .

Now we will get a new well shot promo for the introduction of new story

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Posted: 6 months ago
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Originally posted by: DivyaParashar

The introduction promo of this season was so well shot but everything is ended with tejaswini's death .

Now we will get a new well shot promo for the introduction of new story

Ha ha. I won't be analysing or decoding that one like I did for this season.

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Posted: 6 months ago
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Originally posted by: ThaneOfElsinore

Hey! I wasn't putting anyone down. We weren't shaming Ayesha. As viewers, we were positively criticising her acting skills which I suppose we all have the right to. We weren't comparing her looks with Param. Chemistry is just a personal preference for all. Someone might find a pair perfectly matched, others might find them odd. That's it. I wouldn't find Param and Ayesha appealing together. That's what I meant by my statements and others too. Beauty is subjective and everyone has the pluses and minuses in their appearances. She might have good chemistry with others. I don't know since I haven't watched her show. But the clips from those shows speak for themselves. I second that women are women's support, but just because we are each other's support, doesn't mean we overlook our shortcomings.

I completely get what you're talking about. Beauty standards are unreal, I totally agree with that. I ain't a Miss World either. However, in a field like the media and entertainment, faces are everything presently, accept it or deny it. Not only are the female actors judged harshly, but multiple male actors also face these judgements. Nevertheless, females have historically been kept on a pedestal of higher scrutiny. Everyone who appears on screen is judged on the basis of looks. Unless we change the perception on ground and in real time about body positivity for both the genders, voicing out opinions on the internet wouldn't create a revolution.

I sincerely apologise if the joke felt degrading towards the actress. I didn't mean to humiliate her. Peace.


Criticism on acting is actually fine and acting is part of creative field and is subjective! In media industry people are casted based on looks but I neither find Ayesha or Paran average or bad looking actors. They both are quiet attractive and that is why they are casted as lead actors.


The post my eyes! was mockery. Have been seeing this in social media nowadays quiet often. Just voiced out my opinion. I didn't mean to hurt anyone. Just one thing I feel change should first start from within. If we ourselves check what we say or react in public then slowly and gradually the hate mongering in Social media will stop! Problem is we wait for society to change forgetting we are ourselves part of it. If we don't stop then no one can. And I feel casting directors of Star India and Colors are will experienced to cast presentable looking people as leads for their shows, downgrading someone doesn't make sense!


Acting and chemistry is personal choice so giving opinion on that is fine but opinions and criticism can be put in a positive way without mocking or shaming anyone!

Edited by Sassylady - 6 months ago
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Posted: 6 months ago
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Originally posted by: Sassylady

I don't get how a woman can put down another woman and look shame them! First of all if Ayesha is not pretty and she is average looking then I probably staying in a different world where probably pretty girls are birbie dolls roaming around! Most importantly she has a good height and figure with that jaw line which many girls dream of! And mocking looks and pairing with Param! Is Param that handsome? If Ayesha is average then Param is also average! Honestly the way female celebs get judged mocked and expected to have some unreal beauty standards why those standards are not expected from male celebs? The sad part is more that men its women who judge women through beauty standards and put them down.

Yes, I said she's a very average looking girl. But it wasn't my intention to mock her at all. I don't mock people. That's not my nature. I also didn't want to hurt the sentiments of her fans. It's just that I don't find her attractive. Different people have different opinions. You may consider her to be beautiful. But some other people may think differently. Also, I didn't say anything about her acting because I never saw her performance. People should show respect to the views of others.They shouldn't talk harshly only because they have different perspectives. Apart from that, it's an open forum. I don't think I need to take anyone's permission to share my opinions here. I don't understand how an opinion about looks is related to the idea of putting down women. It has nothing to do with gender. When I thought Vaibhavi was pretty, I also said that. When I thought Param wasn't handsome, I said that too. Both men and women can be average looking and good looking. Also, there's a difference between mocking someone and expressing an opinion. I know very well that it's not right to mock or insult someone due to his/her looks. The tone I used in my post is completely different from mocking tone.

Edited by Shirsha - 6 months ago
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Posted: 6 months ago
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Originally posted by: Shirsha

Yes, the makers are replacing Vaibhavi. A new girl will enter Neil's life. smiley13

but y ..the actress doesn't want work in the soaps or some other reason
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Posted: 6 months ago
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Originally posted by: kinu17

but y ..the actress doesn't want work in the soaps or some other reason

The makers are replacing her character with a new one to increase ratings. She isn't exactly quitting on her own.

Edited by ThaneOfElsinore - 6 months ago

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