Originally posted by: MsWhiskerson
But he did run away from responsibilities, he had an option to go to court because he had Abhir's custody, Akshara couldn't take him away. Abhimanyu's decision was as wrong as Akshara's decision and more so because Akshara was pathetic, she didn't care about anyone but he was leaving his family who needed him more
So I do blame him much more than her in this case
Since he and Akshara are on good terms he might not want to take it legal way as it would have created discord. He also considered Ak's baby in her tummy as he took baby's responsibility willingly. Akshara was trying to go alone in pregnancy state and despite his efforts she wanted to go. I remember he said he wanted to take care of 3 of his children. Ruhi had both families and Akshara, baby and Abhir had no one to take care. He took the decision based on that. Not saying Ruhi don't need Abhi. He was going to come back..as for temporary arrangement he said that. If he was planning to stay with them without intention of returning I would have called it completely wrong. Mahima also agreed with his decision somehwere because she felt the situatuion needed it. Sometimes, given the situation, certain decisions are needed to taken to take step by step to solve the problem without escalating.
Temporarily going away to sort out the situation and thinking of coming back is not necessarily running away from responsibilities imo. It is a different story he died. It is not the wise choice but decision was not completely wrong either. That's what I think.
People can interpret it different ways; I can also get your pov. From what I see it, it was complex.That's why I said his decision was debatable.
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