Chemistry was never Chemistry-fying

Since a couple of days I have seen people commenting that RoPu and Garvita have a mature and more sizzling chemistry than RoPu and Sam.

And because initially I didn't take notice, now when I think about it, is it only about Garvita and RoPu's chemistry or is it the fact that the writers always write such crappy hinglish dialogues for Abhira.

Maha Dukh, Maha Khushi, HKMB, MKG, meri happiness.

I mean, whenever Abhira is in some real crap and is mentally insulted by situations in her life, she'll start talking about it, and Lo! You can't let go the amount of cringe that comes out of her mouth.

How are you supposed to feel anything for such a character?

Plus, whenever Abhimaan are together, they are so over the top with each other. Whenever they call each other silly girl/boy, it just sounds silly to me, never cute. The over emotions of both these characters while portraying every other scene, is just - meh.

Armaan was supposed to balance Abhira's kiddishness but, now he is a step ahead. I don't want Armaan to stay rigid and behave like an oldie, but they could have made Abhira mature in her nuances.

Sometimes the whole Meri Abhira! Thing suits.

Like when he was trying hard to make it up to Abhira.

But at times, like when Abhira is forcing Armaan and Ruhi, to do yoga together, or is forcing Ru to breathe on instruction, Armaan could come out and just explain maturely to Abhira about things she might be ignoring because of her obstinate and obsession with a child.

All I feel now, that both Abhira and Armaan- they never try to contradict each other or explain anything to each other. All they do is follow each other into recklessness. That makes a pair of people who can't be right for each other. Because all of us need some beating on the right directions.

Every romantic scene they have, is always coupled with something that will make you wince at the scene. I wish they opened their mouths less and more cautiously. It's like, for them every situation is the same. Whether they have left home, become poor, came back, some people died, these guys show no change while talking to each other. Their is no growth.

And for some reason the chemistry these guys have never chemistry-fied.

So obvious when a matured guy like RoPu will conversate like he should, he will obviously look better.

Idk, about Ruhi's chemistry with Armaan, because I didn't ever see them relaxed before with each other. But now, yeah, they do have clean slates at the moment.

Originally posted by: Anushka_Paharia

As for chemistry , I feel Shehzada and Pratiksha had better chemistry as Armaan - Ruhi , than RoPu - Garvita

But out of all, I still find Shehzada and Samriddhi so much better. They looked of similar age and still Shehzada justified the baggage better. RoPu in the starting looked like a gray big shot, too mature to be fun, lawyer who was still a mamma's boy and then when he fell in love he became, just silly, but still a mamma's boy.

The writers are to blame.

Originally posted by: Anushka_Paharia

The problem I have is with Abhira's dialogue . The writers try to portray her an innocent bubbly girl but they end up giving very childish and cringe dialogues to her like "maha wrong" , "maha khush" "maha dukhi " , etc . Even in critical situations , her dialogues are always childish and sometimes her scenes as well . Even in today's episode , they showed her wearing cartoonish slippers , they could have shown her waering normal flat sandals or slippers and not some childish slippers for office . The entire scene felt so meh and cringe . Writers need to give her some better and mature dialogues .

Honestly if Abhira's character actually met someone in the real world, anyone is bound to run away from her. She is unbearable with her speech. How could they think of making their lead look so undigestable when all she is doing is just speaking/ expressing her mundane thoughts.

I have come across FLs who are downright idiotic and irritating but I have never seen a FL who is more irritating with her dialogues than her actions.

I have felt the same about Charu-Abhir-Kiara like they rightly put in this tweet:

https://x.com/yours_sani/status/1911756329863041264

Sharon looks like a child in front of Mohit and nowadays she is overacting which makes her look even more childish.

You've singled out each n every problem I have with both the characters..

And what you say makes so much sense ..if only arman could tell her all of this , kaveri wouldn't have to , in a crude way ..

Like tomorrow dance sequence with the pillow is cringe max , it's hell annoying ..its mocking all the pregnant women & women in general ..a womans life is not just abt having babies & baby is not the ultimate khushi

just bec she's crying doesn't mean she is mature ..maturity should be in actions ..just bec she forgives , it doesn't make her mahan , it should be as per the situation..just bec she blunders unintentionally doesn't mean she doesn't blunder ..

Don't even get me started on the hinglish dialogues , they're abs a torture to the ears ..agree abt the chemistry also. There's nothing cute about the way they talk ..n yeah they abs follow each other to recklessness ..each and every time ..

See every woman here acts possessed..same with ruhi ..only if they cud writer her better , I can support her but not with arman 🙅‍♀️ no girl deserves arman n abhir

The actress is 29 years old but she is given dialogues which are to be very frank , not even used by kids.

I and many more people will cringe very hard if we ever find a kid using such phrases as 'maha dukh' , 'maha wrong' at any place.

Originally posted by: Krinya

You've singled out each n every problem I have with both the characters..

And what you say makes so much sense ..if only arman could tell her all of this , kaveri wouldn't have to , in a crude way ..

Like tomorrow dance sequence with the pillow is cringe max , it's hell annoying ..its mocking all the pregnant women & women in general ..a womans life is not just abt having babies & baby is not the ultimate khushi

just bec she's crying doesn't mean she is mature ..maturity should be in actions ..just bec she forgives , it doesn't make her mahan , it should be as per the situation..just bec she blunders unintentionally doesn't mean she doesn't blunder ..

Don't even get me started on the hinglish dialogues , they're abs a torture to the ears ..agree abt the chemistry also. There's nothing cute about the way they talk ..n yeah they abs follow each other to recklessness ..each and every time ..

See every woman here acts possessed..same with ruhi ..only if they cud writer her better , I can support her but not with arman 🙅‍♀️ no girl deserves arman n abhir

And I really don't understand why people on X or some people here, quote Armaan Abhira and say this what they live for.

This idea of romance is childish. Even if this is fulfilling the idea of two people understanding each other and following each other no matter what, it still would never count for a healthy relationship dynamic. All she ever does in front of Armaan for last 7-8 months is say that both of them aren't enough for each other.

In all totality and certainty I would like to state that yes having kids feels good. It feels like they have added to your life, but once they grow up, you are supposed to let them have a life and then continue your own. The one you build up as an individual and with your partner. One is supposed to have a life rightfully so, with their own partners and individual dreams. If you don't live a life for yourself that just means that you are mentally deranged. And no kid should have to be born to just fulfil it's mom-dad's kami. A child should be an addition to a family.

But the way Abhira and Armaan have taken almost all their decisions around this baby, without trying enough for it.

Like just take a good apartment, make long trips, travel.

What is Abhira? 25? I have never seen someone so infertile in such a small period.

Did they have unprotected intercourse for an year? Without all the bullf*cking stress? Did they just let themselves not take weirdo decisions?

Like Armaan could have been a practicing lawyer when he left the poddars. Could have even bought Abhira cases. They could have just gone around, been happier. But no. They can have a natural approach of babymaking, but a damn 25 year old now has the most hostile uterus on this planet. If she can have bsp implanted and almost carry it to term, how come in the next year her uterus can't handle one implant.

I am yet to find something so serious that has suddenly budded inside her. One needs longer investigations for that. Idk.

It's just meh.

Originally posted by: nancy56

And I really don't understand why people on X or some people here, quote Armaan Abhira and say this what they live for.

This idea of romance is childish. Even if this is fulfilling the idea of two people understanding each other and following each other no matter what, it still would never count for a healthy relationship dynamic. All she ever does in front of Armaan for last 7-8 months is say that both of them aren't enough for each other.

In all totality and certainty I would like to state that yes having kids feels good. It feels like they have added to your life, but once they grow up, you are supposed to let them have a life and then continue your own. The one you build up as an individual and with your partner. One is supposed to have a life rightfully so, with their own partners and individual dreams. If you don't live a life for yourself that just means that you are mentally deranged. And no kid should have to be born to just fulfil it's mom-dad's kami. A child should be an addition to a family.

But the way Abhira and Armaan have taken almost all their decisions around this baby, without trying enough for it.

Like just take a good apartment, make long trips, travel.

What is Abhira? 25? I have never seen someone so infertile in such a small period.

Did they have unprotected intercourse for an year? Without all the bullf*cking stress? Did they just let themselves not take weirdo decisions?

Like Armaan could have been a practicing lawyer when he left the poddars. Could have even bought Abhira cases. They could have just gone around, been happier. But no. They can have a natural approach of babymaking, but a damn 25 year old now has the most hostile uterus on this planet. If she can have bsp implanted and almost carry it to term, how come in the next year her uterus can't handle one implant.

I am yet to find something so serious that has suddenly budded inside her. One needs longer investigations for that. Idk.

It's just meh.

Totally ! The romance is childish & I can't feel a single emotion , from the time they decided to marry the second time , the disconnect has been widening ..

It beats me why would they stress on bacha this much ? It's triggering for those who are facing such issues..it stresses me out ..really..having a baby means you forget that you had a life of your own ..

Coming bk to abhiman , None wants to act mature ..it's a never ending loop ..one of them takes a really dumb decision (starting from Arman..marrying abhira when the conceiving report came out ....like man first convince your mother ..) , the other one opposes (rightfully so , they need to show their intelligence) , then he/she gives in , in that very scene (the mahan elders brain wash them as contributing factor ) ..then some kaand happens ..then they regret ..the other says don't be sorry we are not perfect afterall ..and they continue to act dumber and dumber ..

Since their wedding is there anything apart from the bacha which is discussed between them ? She gets to know her mother is falsely accused of killing arohi, she let's them tag a murderer n move on with a lecture ke happiness is our choice , forget the past ....he gets to know his mother is alive & tortured for years in asylum , forget demanding justice for her , he doesn't care , leaves ph & keeps shivani as a furniture in his furniture less home ..her brother returns , she doesnt wanna know anything frm his past or her mothers ...bacha , pregnancy , bacha chori , bacha returned , almost divorce , patch up , that was supposedly their highest point after their real shadi ....the bacha puran starts again bec kaveri triggered abhira in the temple ..

The only track which remotely piqued some interest was vidya in jail , that too , madam bailed her out & welcomed her with jhadoo pocha flowers and rangoli after sending her to jail ..rest everything is about bacha for abhira ..

that's their story of 1 yr ..then they say abhiman ate criticized . Like what did they show to make them look good ?