Ruhi's life a kaleidoscope

The way Ru sat and cried in that room remembering Ro's broken promise made me create this post.

Ru told Abhir “ his mother is responsible for every storm in her life”. In a way ru was not completely off the mark with that statement though Abhir hasn't grasped up the severity of that accusation.

Ak always wanted to look mahaan and she never regretted her actions. If questioned she used to pack and run. She was a woman of theory and not action. And her need to look mahaan cost ru her father's love even before she was born.

Ak never regretted that decision and asked manyu what is her galti in rushing to a dangerous place with a complicated pregnancy and an inexperienced Neil. She ran away, got AA and never turned back. That storm in Ru's life was withered by Manyu who fostered her as his own. Popy ki princess. I would say the best years of Ru's life was when she was manyu's princess.

Ak came back, along with it came the truth of Abhir being her popy son. Her plan of seeing popy and her matashree together was aborted. Nevertheless she accommodated Abhir in her life and they became cousins cum best friends and continued to be Popy ki princess.

Then came her matashree death. Something she knew somewhere she was responsible, but the child in her accused ak for not saving her mother. It was a child's anger, a 6 year old traumatized kid who needed support and love. Again ak decides to pack and leave. Abhir goes away telling he hates her and her popy chooses ak, abhir and goes with them.

The child who needed support to accept truth and come back to normal life was left forlorn and in perpetual fear that ppl will leave her as she is bad.

From there the ru of s4 us born, who hold on to ppl she cares for as she is afraid. Because MG never made her feel secure. He mourned loss of ak now and then,made it look like because of ru he is not calling ak back, while never trying to alleviate the child's emotional pain.

Ru grows up feeling an unwanted burden G family has to carry. Nevertheless we see her taking care of her elders and supporting MG in his business at the beginning of S4. Then she meets ar, who promises her he will not love another woman. But when ru admits her mistake of misunderstanding him and ask him to come with her he chose pride over her love. A rule that he didn't apply with ab.

Ru marries ro and is forced to see ar coming with ab who tells her his marriage with ab is deal of a year. Meanwhile ro leaves her knowing her affair with ar. So ru waits believing on the promise of ar he will come to her. Unfortunately that promise gets broken ar loves ab, ditches her in mandap and walks away.

Ru comes back, try to help family by creating jewellery designs. But ro comes back and she goes back to P house to try and claim ar once again. She fails, realizes her mistake, reconciles with ro and start a new life.

But once again truth of ab comes and she starts feeling insecure as ppl give over importance to ab and in a moment of weakness put her life and child life in risk.

Ab gives injection that save child, ru goes in coma and ro gives child to ar ab. Ru mourns the child.

Then comes Abhir, who gives her child back and protects her from certain suicide. Him coming back changes ru a lot, her brother doesn't hate her brings a lot of confidence in her and she becomes the butterfly she once has been. Even stops calling ak murderer.

But fate was not done with her. She decides to tell the truth of her cheating Ro to marry Ar and start on a clean slate and she confesses the same to him in hospital fervently seeking forgiveness and telling he is her love now.

But her worst fears gets manifested that if she speak her truth people will leave her, kyunki ru buri hai, ro leaves her with another set of broken promises.

Now she sits in that room forlorn, alone, carrying ab ka armaan in her womb. As her surrogate, not even grieving properly, doing activities as demanded by her pregnancy as she has to deliver the child for her sister.

A young widow forced to watch couple romance in next room, does she deserve this?

A single woman who doesn't know fate has kept the biggest blow for her in its vault that her husband have actually pawned her as he gave away their child to ar.

Most importantly still the little girl in whose lives every man had chosen someone over her. Her dad, popy, MG, ar and ro. Her dad chose his bhabhi, popy his love, MG ak mausi now and then. Ar ab and ro his bhabhi.

Even her brother chose her sister over her for her engagement.

She craves for that elusive love, to be important in someone's life , whose first choice will be she.

And seeing her sitting in that room I too want to ask the question we have seen enough of ak ka kanha, where is ru ka kanha. Does he exists? If he exists when he will play the sweet notes of his flute.

Her life needs some colors and ❤️

I agree with all above points. I have similar pov for rooh. The only difference is as per me ruhi does not know she killed her mom. As she was in the car and ak asked her to move she went and left the venue. She does not know if her act killed her mom or ak killed her mom by hitting her car while driving.

As ak confessed infront of ruhi that she killed arohi so i don't think a 6 year old child will have that much thinking power to connect dots and conclude she killed her mom. She considers akshu killed her mom as akshu confessed it. Warna she would have thought that arohi met with some accident.

I have a little different opinion -

I blame Akshara for Arohi's death because she was handling the vehicle when it happened and she took the blame, after taking the blame instead of facing the law, she ran away taking Abhir with her, leaving Ruhi with her great grand parents, Ruhi whose only parent here was Arohi, Akshara's sister - She had responsibilities towards her but Akshara could never handle anyone's responsibilities because she always played a victim

But this was all Akshara's doing - Ruhi was Neil's child who was Abhimanyu's brother, when nalli Akshu was leaving with his son, he should have forced her to stay back because he had custody of Abhir, she couldn't take him. He shouldn't have left Ruhi and shouldn't have allowed Akshara to run away with Abhir

I blame Armaan for past but currently, surrogacy was Ruhi's decision, she is doing to Daksh what was done to her, Daksh has no other parent than her instead of thinking about him, she is busy being surrogate mother for Abhira's child, the Abhira who doesn't deserve this kind of sacrifice from her, she has a child with whom she can share that unconditional love but she would rather be unhappy watching Abhira - Armaan have sex than stay with her 1 year old

Well Rohit did choose her first, didn't he. But Ruhi was not willing to love what she had. She was more interested in her BIL and what Abhira had. And now she's facing retribution for what she did to Rohit. So no, she's not some innocent victim who lost everyone. She's an insecure woman who could never love what she had and was always obsessed over what others got.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

I agree with all above points. I have similar pov for rooh. The only difference is as per me ruhi does not know she killed her mom. As she was in the car and ak asked her to move she went and left the venue. She does not know if her act killed her mom or ak killed her mom by hitting her car while driving.

As ak confessed infront of ruhi that she killed arohi so i don't think a 6 year old child will have that much thinking power to connect dots and conclude she killed her mom. She considers akshu killed her mom as akshu confessed it. Warna she would have thought that arohi met with some accident.

A six year old isn't responsible for that accident. An adult is.

What was Ruhi doing exactly playing - a six year old doesn't know anything they play. It is an adult's responsibility also when Ru left accident happened after her leaving. Akshara couldn't control the car, she didn't yell or tried to make Aaru aware of the car. She is part responsible for both of Ru's parents death.

Again Neil was in mind to leave the location. He said bhabhi humne police ko bta diya hume ghar chalna chahiye safe nahi. Ak was about to jump out of a moving car and that made him get out of the car and confront the goons.

So people can act like she is not responsible bechari Akshu while most deaths happened because of her including hers 🤷🏻‍♀️

Anyway for legachee khoon they will say Ru was the one that killed Aaru as if no one knows how a 6 YO child behaves but facts will be facts

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

The way Ru sat and cried in that room remembering Ro's broken promise made me create this post.

Ru told Abhir “ his mother is responsible for every storm in her life”. In a way ru was not completely off the mark with that statement though Abhir hasn't grasped up the severity of that accusation.

Ak always wanted to look mahaan and she never regretted her actions. If questioned she used to pack and run. She was a woman of theory and not action. And her need to look mahaan cost ru her father's love even before she was born.

Ak never regretted that decision and asked manyu what is her galti in rushing to a dangerous place with a complicated pregnancy and an inexperienced Neil. She ran away, got AA and never turned back. That storm in Ru's life was withered by Manyu who fostered her as his own. Popy ki princess. I would say the best years of Ru's life was when she was manyu's princess.

Ak came back, along with it came the truth of Abhir being her popy son. Her plan of seeing popy and her matashree together was aborted. Nevertheless she accommodated Abhir in her life and they became cousins cum best friends and continued to be Popy ki princess.

Then came her matashree death. Something she knew somewhere she was responsible, but the child in her accused ak for not saving her mother. It was a child's anger, a 6 year old traumatized kid who needed support and love. Again ak decides to pack and leave. Abhir goes away telling he hates her and her popy chooses ak, abhir and goes with them.

The child who needed support to accept truth and come back to normal life was left forlorn and in perpetual fear that ppl will leave her as she is bad.

From there the ru of s4 us born, who hold on to ppl she cares for as she is afraid. Because MG never made her feel secure. He mourned loss of ak now and then,made it look like because of ru he is not calling ak back, while never trying to alleviate the child's emotional pain.

Ru grows up feeling an unwanted burden G family has to carry. Nevertheless we see her taking care of her elders and supporting MG in his business at the beginning of S4. Then she meets ar, who promises her he will not love another woman. But when ru admits her mistake of misunderstanding him and ask him to come with her he chose pride over her love. A rule that he didn't apply with ab.

Ru marries ro and is forced to see ar coming with ab who tells her his marriage with ab is deal of a year. Meanwhile ro leaves her knowing her affair with ar. So ru waits believing on the promise of ar he will come to her. Unfortunately that promise gets broken ar loves ab, ditches her in mandap and walks away.

Ru comes back, try to help family by creating jewellery designs. But ro comes back and she goes back to P house to try and claim ar once again. She fails, realizes her mistake, reconciles with ro and start a new life.

But once again truth of ab comes and she starts feeling insecure as ppl give over importance to ab and in a moment of weakness put her life and child life in risk.

Ab gives injection that save child, ru goes in coma and ro gives child to ar ab. Ru mourns the child.

Then comes Abhir, who gives her child back and protects her from certain suicide. Him coming back changes ru a lot, her brother doesn't hate her brings a lot of confidence in her and she becomes the butterfly she once has been. Even stops calling ak murderer.

But fate was not done with her. She decides to tell the truth of her cheating Ro to marry Ar and start on a clean slate and she confesses the same to him in hospital fervently seeking forgiveness and telling he is her love now.

But her worst fears gets manifested that if she speak her truth people will leave her, kyunki ru buri hai, ro leaves her with another set of broken promises.

Now she sits in that room forlorn, alone, carrying ab ka armaan in her womb. As her surrogate, not even grieving properly, doing activities as demanded by her pregnancy as she has to deliver the child for her sister.

A young widow forced to watch couple romance in next room, does she deserve this?

A single woman who doesn't know fate has kept the biggest blow for her in its vault that her husband have actually pawned her as he gave away their child to ar.

Most importantly still the little girl in whose lives every man had chosen someone over her. Her dad, popy, MG, ar and ro. Her dad chose his bhabhi, popy his love, MG ak mausi now and then. Ar ab and ro his bhabhi.

Even her brother chose her sister over her for her engagement.

She craves for that elusive love, to be important in someone's life , whose first choice will be she.

And seeing her sitting in that room I too want to ask the question we have seen enough of ak ka kanha, where is ru ka kanha. Does he exists? If he exists when he will play the sweet notes of his flute.

Her life needs some colors and ❤️

I have a different opinion with regard to Arohi's accident.

I don't think Ruhi knows that her action caused the car moving even in the slightest. If she had that kind of knowledge she would have suffered from trauma or makers would have shown it. She left the scene and she was no where to be seen in the event where Akshara was in the car. It was Swarna and Surekha who witnessed the scene. Ruhi saw Akshara admitting that she caused the accident which made her angry and sad, ending up blaming her.

Child can get angry and blame others but it is the adult's responsibility to address that. Akshara was never a proper adult or a mother to address any of kids' problem nor any sort of problem. The first thing that came to her mind was to avoid confrontations and not own up to mistakes and responsibilities. She conveniently played the victim and helpless card.

In Neil's situation, some people say it is an accident or if anyone is in danger, won't anyone save? and a lot of reasons to justify that Akshara ki koi galti nahi hai. First, that accident was created by Akshara's actions. Akshara's stubborn behaviour made Neil go out to protect her from goons and prevent her from going out, instead of waiting for police.

Even if someone is in danger you can't just act recklessly and put others in danger, increasing casualties. If you do, then own up to your mistakes and bad decisions you made instead of giving excuse because that's the reality. She didn't have conscience to admit it was her mistake which made her miscarry and lose Neil.

In the end, Ruhi lost both of her parents for which Akshara played a part.

Yes, Ruhi deserves a colorful life. It is her decision to become surrogacy but Abhimaan come across as selfish to demand her things instead trying to put them in her shoes. She was taken to the a place and her room is also connected to their room. Yes, babymoon is supposed to be romance and all, but if Abhimaan is taking a third person they need to be aware of what they are doing and focus on spending time together as a family cuz obviously the other person will feel bad..that's the reality. In the end, Ruhi is not happy and she gets reminded of Rohit more....how can this be healing at all???

Originally posted by: janecastle

Well Rohit did choose her first, didn't he. But Ruhi was not willing to love what she had. She was more interested in her BIL and what Abhira had. And now she's facing retribution for what she did to Rohit. So no, she's not some innocent victim who lost everyone. She's an insecure woman who could never love what she had and was always obsessed over what others got.

Exactly!! 💯

Chuhi's problems are her own chosen way...she deserves every bit of tears for the way she is responsible for making so many people miserable... Some karma and some simply her actions... And that woman has never been held accountable for her own actions and got easy way out of everything!!

As a naughty child, she didn't listen to her own mother and went on to take a car and killed her mother without ounce of memory about it... And who suffered? Akshara!!

She didn't deserve any happiness

And about all that she did to Rohit like cheating on him and trying to find beech ka raasta was pro cringe max!

She didn't deserve love at all...

Plus out of her own insecurities she even went on to curse unborn baby, put her own life at risk and called a baby samaan... Such woman doesn't even deserve to be a mother... I don't know what makers were even showing to put Daksh as her child... Pathetic woman went on mini vacation leaving her year old child behind... She really is very irresponsible!!

Originally posted by: Manny_123

I have different opinion with regard Arohi's accident.

I don't think Ruhi knows that her action caused the car moving even in the slightest. If she had that kind of knowledge she would have suffered from trauma or makers would have shown it. She left the scene and she was no where to seen in the even where Akshara was in the car. It was Swarna and Surekha who witnessed the scene. Ruhi saw Akshara admitting she caused the accident which made her angry and sad, ending up blaming.

Child can get angry and blame but it is the adult's responsibility to address that. Askshara was never a proper adult or a mother to address any of kids' problem nor any sort of problem. The first thing that came to mind was to avoid confrontations and own up to mistakes and responsibilities. She conveniently played the victim and helpless card.

In Neil's situation, some people say it is an accident or if anyone is in danger, won't anyone save? and a lot of reasons to justify that Akshara ki koi galti nahi hai. First, that accident was created by Akshara's actions. Akshara's stubborn behaviour made Neil go out to protect her from goons and prevent her from going out, instead of waiting for police.

Even if someone is in danger you can't just act recklessly and put others in danger, increasing casualties. If you do, then own up to your mistakes and bad decisions you made instead of giving excuse because that's the reality. She didn't have conscience to admit it was her mistake which made her miscarry and lose Neil.

In the end, Ruhi lost both of her parents for which Akshara played a part.

Yes, Ruhi deserves a colorful life. It is her decision to become surrogacy but Abhimaan come across as selfish to demand her things instead trying to put them in her shoes. She was taken to the a place and her room is also connected to their room. Yes, babymoon is supposed to be romance and all, but if Abhimaan is taking a third person they need to be aware of what they are doing and focus on spending time together as a family cuz obviously the other person will feel bad..that's the reality. In the end, Ruhi is not happy and she gets reminded of Rohit more....how can this be healing at all???

Ohh btw i have seen many of these Akshu bechari no fault of hers in Neil's death advocates on X stating over rape cases- but she should have not gone out at 3 AM. I was like whaaat girl victim blaming a Rape Survivor but protecting Akshu the stupid wow way to go 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Ohh btw i have seen many of these Akshu bechari no fault of hers in Neil's death advocates on X stating over rape cases- but she should have not gone out at 3 AM. I was like whaaat girl victim blaming a Rape Survivor but protecting Akshu the stupid wow way to go 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

That's the reality...remember in Pratiksha's case it is mostly the females who shamed her siding with DKP for ousting her. They disregarded how it happened and went on to bullying her. Real life victims get bashed but fictional characters ke liye people show utmost love.

Originally posted by: MsWhiskerson

I have a little different opinion -

I blame Akshara for Arohi's death because she was handling the vehicle when it happened and she took the blame, after taking the blame instead of facing the law, she ran away taking Abhir with her, leaving Ruhi with her great grand parents, Ruhi whose only parent here was Arohi, Akshara's sister - She had responsibilities towards her but Akshara could never handle anyone's responsibilities because she always played a victim

But this was all Akshara's doing - Ruhi was Neil's child who was Abhimanyu's brother, when nalli Akshu was leaving with his son, he should have forced her to stay back because he had custody of Abhir, she couldn't take him. He shouldn't have left Ruhi and shouldn't have allowed Akshara to run away with Abhir

I blame Armaan for past but currently, surrogacy was Ruhi's decision, she is doing to Daksh what was done to her, Daksh has no other parent than her instead of thinking about him, she is busy being surrogate mother for Abhira's child, the Abhira who doesn't deserve this kind of sacrifice from her, she has a child with whom she can share that unconditional love but she would rather be unhappy watching Abhira - Armaan have sex than stay with her 1 year old