Originally posted by: szsiddiqa
I had read a book "Gentle Art of Verbal self-defence" It is a beautiful book on how to counter verbal abuse. Today Ani-Arshi convo had all the strategies advised.
Arshi attacked him on ethical, moral, social status, financial, insaaf, family, shame, emotional fronts and each one he countered with calmness and handled maturely. When she was trying to bring J into it, he was almost losing it, but he would regain his composure. Sometimes he gave in, sometimes he pushed back. He never said I want divorce, and you should never say that to an egoist person/psychopath. It should be presented with reasons beneficial to them and that they are in control. He asked her to divorce him. Well done by Krushal and well written.
It is possible when you have clarity in your goal. Which in this phase Ani does. I hope he continues to handle future meddling from her similarly and make sure J stays away from her. J is too gullible to continue to fall in traps set by the evil gang.
It was just beautiful end to a 500 epi nonsense. I truly hope it is an end to Anishi even if the baby pops out from somewhere.
This is a lesson how a relationship looks like when a dominating spouse expects the other one to be a ghulam. That too to someone who is also alpha character with a name Anirudh which means "unobstructed," "unstoppable," "undefeatable," or "invincible".
I will really appreciate if anyone can just extract their convo without interruption from Lalon or Choton or Bips parts.
While all this sounds absolutely sensible, yet in the context of the serial…it is near impossible to make any direct co-relation of how the scene unfolded… ofc there are some aspects that apply naturally to Ani for generally not getting provoked, or getting unnecessarily perturbed for vague accusations etc.
Ani’s past reputation of ends vs means application which was force in respect of J has almost vanished from the story…. so to assume that he has used this with any deep calculation isn’t there for me to decipher.
But Ofc I still see an Ani who just has found a way that can secure his current situation and in that I see his efforts to convince Arshi logically to move to a situation that is beneficial to all. Seems like a non brainer that you have found someone and I have someone do let’s move on
BUT
In respect of the Ani Arshi relationship, there is still unresolved business as the breakdown of their relationship isn’t reconciled to by Arshi. But that’s not the main issue… the main issue is the leads haven’t completely figured out a way to get around that.Either she has to get reconciled to it or Ani must find a way in which he can move past it without it affecting his current relationship. Added to this is the impossible condition raised by J of a willing surrender by her Didi.THE BASIC PROBLEM WITH THIS SERIAL IS IT DOES NOT WANT TO TELL A STORY cos if it did we would have seen some movement in how the basic conflict has moved. It is near exactly the same place from the time the conflict began. If Arshi’s Q is how can Ani fall out of love with her… this Q will never have an answer that satisfies her so if we are going to be stuck at this “ You cheated me etc” there is just no use. The point is can J move beyond her blind spot on the idea of a perfect relationship but I don’t think the serial is looking to deliver this; I don’t know if with marriage ( if it happens) it changes anything about J. The other problem is even it changes J will it keep Ani as he is now… cos if it does the story actually ends. Here the issue isn’t Arshi… it’s these two, J basically but Ani not too far behind in not actually recognising how twisted Arshi is…
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