I think Roshi and Talha are standing at two ends of the same line, Talha is of the viewpoint, I know we had issues and the path to getting married had not been easy, but walk with me a few steps, get to know the real Talha behind just your boss, accept this relationship and me and then I'll tell you all about my insecurities and vulnerabilities! It's also difficult for men to accept their vulnerabilities in front of others, especially in South Asian cultures where they are conditioned to be in control always!
Roshi, on the other hand, is of the viewpoint, I am your wife now. You rejected me once and that too so harshly, you went ahead and eve proposed Sabeeka. And now we're married so hurried and you seem to be so happy and over the moon with this alliance... am utterly confused, come clean with me about your true feelings first and then we'll walk this path together.
No one is right or wrong here, men and women are just wired differently inherently! Women always want emotional intimacy first from their partners before they can truly surrender.
I also want to say Roshi is not being immature here, she wants Talha but does not know if Talha really wanted her at all in the first place...
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