GHKPM EDT New Season Thread # 3 - Page 46

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Yeh riwaz toh itv mei saalo se chal raha hai

ITV " marriage " means full.on drams " bride swap , bride kidnap, bride absconded "...

Originally posted by: Autumn09

I've been going through arranged marriage thing. It's very frustrating when you feel guy doesn't have heart in marriage and yet when you ask him if there's someone else or if he doesn't want to marry, he says there's no such thing. Proper gaslighting ho jaati hai. You are left thinking whether your intuition is correct or you are overthinking. Mere ko isliye ye particular trope bahut triggering lagta hai.

It's not only in arranged marriage setups colleges mein bhi there are guys pinning on a particular girl but jab tak woh unko bhaav nhi deti hai they get with the girl who gives him attention but once they get the girl they actually wanted they would end the relationship without any closure. And you are filled with self doubt and doubt your worth and feel so stupid because you realise none of this was actually true

Originally posted by: Shirsha

There were so TejNeil's scenes in today's episode! I waited for their scenes but those scenes never came. So, those people who haven't yet watched the episode can skip it if they want. Does Lakshmi want Juhi's marriage to get cancelled? She told Neil's mother that her husband did something wrong to her. When Neil tried to touch the feet of Juhi's father, her father stopped him saying, "Shaadi ke bad to bar bar payr padna hi hai." And Neil's sister-in-law became upset when Mohit's father said, "Juhi is different from those girls who do jobs." Nothing much happened in the episode.

@bold yeh baat to sahi boli hai , shaadi toh honi hai issi ghar k ladki se tab to Khushi se pair padega

Originally posted by: Autumn09

He's become even more boring. Bas robot ki tarah Aparajita Aparajita karta rehta hai.

Oh No ...when he says Aparajita 🙄 it irks me I haven't watched the episode yet

Originally posted by: Autumn09

I guess Neil is in his 30s. Just because his family was pressurising him, he couldn't extend insensitivity towards a girl who has nothing to do with the ruckus. It'd be the right thing if Neil straightaway took Juhi to talk and told her that I like someone else. He didn't even have to take Teju's name. But Neil owes Juhi honesty if he went to see her. I've seen many arranged marriages and divorces where husbands tell wives that I married you just because of family pressure and have no feelings towards you after marriage. Girl's whole life is ruined just because the boy couldn't tell his parents the same thing he is telling his wife after marriage.

But honestly, when a person has to sit in front someone if even he/she doesn't want to marry that person for some reason it becomes extremely frustrating! So, I can understand what Neil's going through. I can connect to his character.

Originally posted by: Riddhi2Saini006

I have so much to say about today episode even though it was a filler but still!

Starting with the mental gymnastics neil is going through to make sense of the chavans family dynamics. Nandinj in the worst thing could only think that mohit might've died with some loan pending. Like they cannot even imagine what two timer papa has done. I'm so annoyed by Neil like I know people here like him but I despise him so much because of how spineless he is behaving. He agreed to go and see the girl but couldn't even fake being happy and looked so insensitive during the whole setup when chavans and laxmi were telling the family about what had happened. Like I know laxmi deserves the worst but neil ka core characteristic hi itna insensitive hona nhi hai. Secondly the way he ignores everyone when he sees tejaswini it is so disrespectful to juhi like guy couldn't even wait to talk to her privately.

Honestly this is so Neil coded I have met guys like Neil jo sensitive n family oriented hote Hai goody good boys but when something doesn't happen by their will jisko voh dil se chahte hai toh they start behaving indifferent. Coz this is the only time they wanted something for themselves aur vo bhi nhi mil paya. Neil ka bhi yehi scene hai.

Originally posted by: Riddhi2Saini006

The promo promised me a green flag Neil Pradhan

Originally posted by: Shirsha

My opinion is different. I don't know much about Jhanak. I don't watch the show. But as far as I know, Arshi was Aniruddh's girlfriend. So, he was committed. And here Juhi is nobody to Neil. He doesn't owe her anything. He only went to see her because Neil's family members forced him to see her. Neil said "I don't want to go" but they didn't listen. He wasn't interested at all and he made it clear to his family members. Now if he feels disinterested in talking to her I don't think it's his fault.

True. Even if he is not telling anyone that he loves Teju , still the family is forcing him to marry Juhi coz they have selected her for him aur given their Zubaan. Neil ka reaction is totally justified.

Originally posted by: Autumn09

I've been going through arranged marriage thing. It's very frustrating when you feel guy doesn't have heart in marriage and yet when you ask him if there's someone else or if he doesn't want to marry, he says there's no such thing. Proper gaslighting ho jaati hai. You are left thinking whether your intuition is correct or you are overthinking. Mere ko isliye ye particular trope bahut triggering lagta hai.

I want to say something. But I can't say because it's connected to my personal life. And It's a public platform.

Originally posted by: Riddhi2Saini006

The promo promised me a green flag Neil Pradhan

Yeh aapki galat fehmi hai Ghum and non toxic male leads ? Not possible.