Originally posted by: Phir_Mohabbat
they wont care. till the world end a section will bicker ruhi wasnt criticized enough
ab kya kare?? put posters about her and rohit lmao. national election karwa lete hai whos worst. maybe we can make am i the ahole reddit post and check replies
am i the ahole for wanting to divorce my wife?
i (35M) work as a lawyer in my family firm. i stay in joint family and married (25F). our marriage happened quite dramatically...my dead mother in law saved my life and on death bed told me to get married to my current wife. when i married my wife, no one in my family was present. i had feelings for a girl, who was married to my younger brother because i told her i cant marry her as my family dont treat me as own. anyways, when i bought my wife home, a lot of issues happened in my house. she is quite modern,progressive thinker but my family is a bit orthodox. in the mean time, my brother left house.
in between me and my sister in law (ex gf) reconnected. after a particular big fight, my wife left home and we decided to divorce. my family got to know about my ex gf and decided to marry us off. but i left my ex gf/sister in law on aisle cause i realised i loved my wife. i bought my wife home, and in no time we reconnected. my brother returned too...it turned out he knew about my affair. it was quite difficult for him to forgive me. my wife and i decided to remarry. i saw my sister in law/ex gf dressed up as same wedding dress as my wife and i somehow managed to break her illusion that i dont love her anymore. maybe never did
during the wedding rituals, i got to know my wife cant conceive. my mother who raised me got to know about it and begged me not to marry cause i always wanted kids. i didnt agree so my mother was quite upset with me when i remarried my wife, even cursed us stopped talking to us. meanwhile, my sister in law and brother decided to stay married, and she was pregnant after a few months. seeing them happy was hard and i got detached from my wife. then my wife became pregnant, despite it being high risk she carried it for months even i was convinced that maybe finally i can get everything
then our baby died during childbirth, my brother's son survived. we brothers made a deal to raise the son as my own, my sister in law was in coma and i promised her i would raise the kid my own,like my mother was nice to me. i watched her waking up from coma devastated, even after a while my brother demanded to get the baby back. after 1 week of delivery, my wife was going to court, took baby out, etc. the baby was even kidnapped one day, but thankfully nothing happened. then suddenly, my wife's dead brother returned, he revealed the babys truth and gave it back to my sister in law. my wife left me due to the lies and how i did funeral of the dead kid myself
after a lot of drama, my mother accidentally hit my wife's brother by car, and he became paralyzed. they filed a case which my wife worked on and won, my mother was taken to jail. i was furious and devastated, and sent my wife divorce papers. am i the ahole?
am i the ahole for acting crazy for my brother in law?
i (34f) stayed with my grandparents. i met a man on a trip and we developed feelings quickly. in the mean time my family fixed my marriage with another family, and i got to know the man i liked was brother of my soon to be husband. i confronted him, and he said he cant say the truth as he feels indebted to the house. he told me to get married to his brother, and i did.
my husband left the house soon after our marriage, and presumed to be dead. my brother in law and i reconnected, he assured me he still has feelings for me and place in his heart he cant give to anyone. he had married a girl suddenly by this point, but he assured me shes a responsibility to him. his wife kept thinking its me who interfering between them, and we had a lot of fights. then one day she left house, and my brother in law said they are divorcing. i told the truth to my mother in lw about us, and he also agreed to marry me. then on the day of our wedding, he left me cause he said he dont love me. he even fell to my feet and begged that he was sorry, bt he left me and brought his wife home soon. they even decided to remarry. after a lot of fights and clashes they had, i warned him their marriage wont survive. i even decided to leave for USA.
then my husband returned, angry at us because he knew the truth and thats why he left home. at first, i came back because i still had hopes for my brother in law. my husband slowly forgave me and wanted our marriage to give another chance, but i kept thinking my brother in law still loved him. there was some drama during the remarriage that his wife cant conceive- then on the day of his wedding, i was dressed in same brides clothes and told him we can marry. he made me realize he was over me. i realized i went crazy for him, and returned home and finally decided to give my husband another chance. the past was buried between us.
then, i fell for my husband. i got to know i was pregnant, and the whole family was happy. surprisingly, my sister in law conceived soon after. during the pregnany, i kept getting paranoid that if i cant give birth to a baby boy, my position in family will be thratened. on the day of my delivery, there was an accident due to which i was in coma for weeks. whn i woke up, eveyrone told my baby was dead. i was devastated,but somehow managed to recover. my sister in law tried to share the baby between us, but i rejected after saying harsh words.
then my cousin brother whom we all thought died in childhood returned. in the meantime my in laws started to misbehave with me cause they thought i was bad omen for the baby, even accused me of hurting the baby. my brother revealed the truth that my baby was alive and its the brother in law who did it. his wife even kidnapped my baby, but came back to senses and gave me my baby back.
am i the ahole to feel resentment for my broter in law?
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