Jhanak Written Update And Episode Discussion thread No 💯 - Page 39

Originally posted by: samarp2

yaa .. he doesn’t even have the motivation to fight also whatever good he does . They think him as bad person .. so no use

Exactly. Jhanak is first in line to insult him for trying to help her in anyway…Ani Kya hi fight kare for love when the love herself is the one to constantly reject and insult him 🤷‍♀️. There is a reason he feels so helpless because not a single person in the story has ever supported him in his tough times or cared about his happiness 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: Maleigh

for a moment i thought it was the adrija😁 anyways that show is one those with "not made for me" tag written all over it. Too many reasons not to watch the next episode

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The biggest mood spoiler is both ml and fl.

Originally posted by: sanfan

It was not fatalism until Jhanak made it so…Unless you are suggesting that Ani should have run roughshod of J’s wishes. It is no use saying that J wanted Ani to stand up for the relationship when he actually didn’t believe in it… It’s another thing that when Ani stood up for the relationship J had developed a saviour complex of sorts… J only responding to Ani only when he is in pain or when he turns away…or when he is assertive over and above the stated matter is the stupidest trope used - meaning to say women don’t mean what they say… Foolish to suggest this in this day and age and time…

For me it’s all about expediency one way or the other…Giving a female character the useless burden of propriety simply becos it is presumptively her burden to carry not to “break homes “ etc whereas the nuance of whose home is actually broken is all lost because of an incident or the elephant in the room the writer refuses to address in the story and we are all happily piling on to the guy that he has lost credibility… well he never asked to be in this position… the only thing I don’t accept in Ani’s characterisation atm is his lack of introspection on how did that one off event happen unless Leena wants to make it seem that it wasn’t a one off… which I refuse to accept until it is stated in the plot..

Feel free to pit one against the other and choose one corner BUT

For me this serial from the middle was about J holding the key to the imbroglio not Ani cos it was her INSISTENCE that the non relationship of Ani and Arshi needed to be protected which she is now throwing at Arshi’s face off and on that she GAVE Arshi the legitimacy that is of relevance- does she understand that it wasn’t worth it to throw away her rights?

Rekha - all are flawed, grey whatever. At the onset, J is not perfect. She is confused holier than thou person who puts a lot of pride in her ability to sacrifice bcos of her upbringing. It could be a prop for her to hold on to given all the trauma she has experienced. She only wanted love and Ani was the only person who stood by her in her life

Jhanak was never single minded in her want to have Ani stay with Arshi because they were in a relationship first. That much was clear to audience, we refer to this as her duality. Jhanak was always struggling to do the right thing but there were many times where had Ani stood by his wanting J not Arshi, by doing right; they would have ended up alright.

If Ani had been steadfast in his love for Jhanak, without resorting to deceit or performance, I think J would have seen his pov. Ani's duality and lack of trust till he thought Jhanak almost died (actually even after this), would not let her fully accept him.

Everytime J found Ani doing things for her she wanted everyone to know it; but Ani always hid it. I'm not suggesting ani should have run roughshod over J's feelings but he should have not created a scenario where J always saw a man who was cheating her cousin while bending over backwards to care for her. In that scenario of course J will not be able to fully trust Ani.

He never cared that was coming across that way to Jhanak. Where will the trust build up for her to realize the love he claims to have for J. Some times viewers could see he was pretending other times it was not apparent to us as well. For example when she came to take care of him when he was hurt, Ani never let J know he wanted her to be safe. He was pretending to have realized how much Arshi meant to him to keep J in his house. Everytime he took J out for lunch, bank, on return when exposed he would make it seem like he never cared for J. But still J sort of knew Ani was attracted to her and cared for her genuinely thats what kept her going.

Cliched or not J wanted Ani to be open about his affections for her in front of his family. She always suspected he cared for her only and not Arshi - thats why Ani got a looong rope from her; till there came a point when Ani always chose Arshi that she stopped trusting in what she felt and felt betrayed.

Many times J has made it clear to Ani that she loved him; the fact that she came back from Tejas for him (Ani rejected her care for him as he did not believe her flower saved him and stated Arshi's love for him was important to him); she told the man she was marrying Avinash for her love (but Ani seemed fine in marrying her off and told Arshi big bhoj was off his head); Arshi's aashirwaad (Ani CA'd her and compared her to Arshi's loyalty); she went with him to bank and lunch (came back and tore their picture); put patti on her leg at night seemed all loving (same day said fatalistically he could not do anything - next day said he would do that for anyone); took her to doctor, J said she will go away (he thinks darkness will fall on his life ( goes home right after and tells didi he loves her); went out on date told her he cannot imagine life without her seemed like he was standing by her (said he took her out to make her feel good); told him she would never give a gift given to one person to anyone else (her sindoor to Arshi; still Ani was not in a state to commit to only J. J went to Kashmir thinking she can love Ani like many others but Ani did not lover her.

Same Kashmir, she was all in sacrifice mode - till Ani told her he loved her - she slept with him next day - this not anyones fault I guess, Ani only remember she wants him to take care of Arshi and J feels Ani is deceptive - wanting both of them and goes brutal at Ani when he tries to tell J he is doing performance on didi. She has seen Ani always throw their relationship down and minimize it - so she also goes one step further to deny it. Remember the way she kept looking accusingly at him during ghat episodes, when her suhaag nishaanis were being stripped, even during annulment she wanted Ani to not sign while he wanted J to not sign. J was not marrying another person here it was Ani - so it should have been on Ani to stop the annulment and it was moreover his family. Why he wanted J to take the burden of saving their marriage I will never know. He said when they met in Mumbai he knew J had feeligns for him, if he knew that and he knew he loved her, why did he marry Arshi?? He expected J to claim him as his husband in toxic BH while he himself sang songs for Arshi outside and in head said it is for Jhnaak. No one knows whats in his head, he was the son of the house and in a stronger position to make his wishes clear. The inference always for me has been - had Ani taken a firm stand for J without feeling the tie with Arshi to be zimmedhar to his long term relationship, J would have given in. J always used Ani Arshi prior bond because Ani could never convince her that his love for J was strong enough for him to leave Arshi and his family and be with her. She has seen first hand Ani giving all these re-assurances time and again and therefore feels Arshi is also a victim. So time and again she feels sorry for Arshi. If Ani had not jumped to stop Arshi from leaving everytime with ILU or with kamzor dialogs; J would have seen Ani's love for her as pure and non conflicted and agreed to take the plunge.

At least this is how I see it :)

Originally posted by: samarp2

yaa .. same he said for Jhanak .. that god will bring us closer ..

he went to temple & prayed for j, called her dharam patni & all.. so he left everything on god.. waiting for some miracle to happen

thats my problem with Ani - he wants something inside but chooses what is right to his family. But then after making the choice he cannot stick with the one he chose. He wants the other to. So even tho he loves J and not Arshi - he still wants both. And that just cannot happen. The day he realizes this J show will end.

edited: If he wants J then why not take the step himself rather than wishing for God to give it to him. It's like he wants God to do his dirty work for him; because he is a people pleaser.

So one hand he is commiting his word to Arshi that they will raise family and his child well, and mann he mann he know God will bring him and J together - he is like God pls bring out situations wher I can be with jhanak? What kind of man is that? Acting good and doing the right thing for appearances sake but but hoping God will give him his hearts desire.??

Just because we like Runak cannot justify Ani. Same with J. I want Ani Arshi to be happy, but Iw ill come to BH and flaunt how devoted a wife she is who honors a wedding done in God's temple while I also handed my husband to Arshi on a platter.

Both completely bonkers

None of us can enjoy the show or Runak because all sense and logic has disapperared and it is very difficult for Leena to restore the story logically and she refuses to give up on Arshi's paap.

This story is now officially irredeemable now. Small relief is Hiba is stopping acting like a bechari. Her claiming she is married while hating Ani yet staying to take care of Arshi? I'm sure Arshi will be ok for J to leave. J saying she is doing arshi a favor and everyone praising J - what nonsense is this?

Originally posted by: MMR2810

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The biggest mood spoiler is both ml and fl.

Anupama's char is such a turnoff on all counts - I dont know how people stand it.

Originally posted by: PPak

Anupama's char is such a turnoff on all counts - I dont know how people stand it.

Only Upma viewers know about it...

Hiba fixing her saree.. poor girl .. it’s so hard to perform on saree .. they should have given her comfy dress .. even a leghngha would have been good

https://youtube.com/shorts/Rw_czZB0dg4?si=7oa4LN7rdsvQ_mPn

Originally posted by: PPak

thats my problem with Ani - he wants something inside but chooses what is right to his family. But then after making the choice he cannot stick with the one he chose. He wants the other to. So even tho he loves J and not Arshi - he still wants both. And that just cannot happen. The day he realizes this J show will end.

edited: If he wants J then why not take the step himself rather than wishing for God to give it to him. It's like he wants God to do his dirty work for him; because he is a people pleaser.

So one hand he is commiting his word to Arshi that they will raise family and his child well, and mann he mann he know God will bring him and J together - he is like God pls bring out situations wher I can be with jhanak? What kind of man is that? Acting good and doing the right thing for appearances sake but but hoping God will give him his hearts desire.??

Just because we like Runak cannot justify Ani. Same with J. I want Ani Arshi to be happy, but Iw ill come to BH and flaunt how devoted a wife she is who honors a wedding done in God's temple while I also handed my husband to Arshi on a platter.

Both completely bonkers

None of us can enjoy the show or Runak because all sense and logic has disapperared and it is very difficult for Leena to restore the story logically and she refuses to give up on Arshi's paap.

This story is now officially irredeemable now. Small relief is Hiba is stopping acting like a bechari. Her claiming she is married while hating Ani yet staying to take care of Arshi? I'm sure Arshi will be ok for J to leave. J saying she is doing arshi a favor and everyone praising J - what nonsense is this?

Rekha help me understand just one thing - forget history of what has happened to date. We all have our perspectives.

Ani saying nothing is in his hands, everything is in God's hands. Is he saying his tolerance of Arshi and feeling sorry for her and forever begging her to stay at BH had nothing to do with her getting pregnant with his child. He is acting like he had zero mistake in this and he is a victim and God made all this happen to him, when he did nothing accountable for this mistake or his kismat.

Its crazy if J expected Ani to abstain when married to Arshi; but here Ani himself claimed he did not have a physical relationship with Arshi to J and furthermore a couple of episodes ago he said he did not cheat J. He is not accepting Arshi took advantage of him, he is saying he must have taken advantage of Arshi in his monologues; so then how is it Ani did not cheat J. Either he took advantage of Arshi or she did of him or both were intoxicated and still it was a mistake because you drank and came home to a woman you did not love; yet were unable to let go every time she wanted to walk out. How is he saying ist not his fault, when he married Arshi saying it was his fault and not hers. Zero introspection or taking accountabilty for his inability to stand up for his love.

All these days - he is an adult, before pregnancy there was no real hold on him to marry Arshi except his own sense of zimmedhari. To say he was helpless does not cut it. If there were other aspects of story to back up his lack of choice or justifies his laachaari ok. Here his helplessness is caused by his own sense of zimmedhari. So this I was majboor dialog - does not hold any water. There was no external force causing his decisions; only his own priority he assigned over his responsibility and love. After weighing both options - prioritizing Arshi zimmedhari over Jhanak love consciously always and in all consciousness then saying he had no choice is the most stupid thing I have ever heard in my life. Saying this is what I stand for - zimmedhari over love and I made my choice is the right way to put it. Not to pick zimmedhari - yet go running to J to say - I did not cheat you - pls. Did he not make clear to J, he would have anyway married Arshi in Gujarat.

Even with Vihaan how is Ani not embarrased in the fact that he has told Vihaan he loves J and yet rejected her because he wanted to do right by Arshi as he slept with her while in love with J. Because Ani is a man - noone makes him feel ashamed for this. Yet J is made to look really bad at all times. Did Ani not claim he loved J and only J - so he did that while he was sleeping with Arshi. Why to date - neither Choton nor Bodoma or Appu di or anyone questioned Ani's behavior? If you see Choton Bodoma Appu are all happy when any Ani J incident happens though they all know he slept with Arshi and is having a baby - nonsense show.

As far as I can tell, Ani saying "Bhagwaan ki marzi se ho raha hai sab" doesn't mean he is waiting for Bhagwaan to reunite him with Jhanak.....he is simply saying that bizarre things have gone in his life for so long that he is now resigned to the oddity and taking everything as God's will.....if God still wants him to run into Jhanak even after getting him married to Arshi, then he is just accepting that as God's will.....kuch alag se nahin kar raha to try and form a relationship with Jhanak....he is taking everything as a stroke of fate.

Yes, he is a people pleaser and unfortunately seems beholden to the baggage of a past long term relationship....but he has made his stance quite clear that he can never cut off from caring about Jhanak....if people still want to forcefully demand a rishta with him, then why is there no expectation of personal responsibility from them and only Ani is bashed? Where is the cheating when he has made his stance clear about the limits of his duty and what will always be in his heart? They all compel him to do their bidding and when he inevitably lies to pacify them with fake ILUs etc, then they pounce on him ki ohhh you cheater, we all know you love Jhanak only....lol waah bhai

Just like Jhanak doesn't run out of her "mann se pati" dialogue repetition and Ani doesn't run out of his "kuch bhi mere control mein nahin hai" dialogues, some people here can never stop chanting "Ani wants both" even NOW after everything that has happened in the story